First, why do college students learn etiquette?

Etiquette is an image, and the value of the image conveys your information all the time, determines your first impression, and affects your relationship and your mood for a long time. Image is to show how happy and confident you are through your appearance!

How long does it take to judge a person? Seven seconds is enough! Explain the importance of personal image, not just dressing up! It depends on attraction, affinity, credibility, sense of humor and enterprise.

The relationship between etiquette and self-cultivation. Self-cultivation is the inner essence and soul of etiquette. Etiquette is the external expression of self-cultivation. "The Analects of Confucius. Yongye ""quality is better than literature, literature is better than history, gentle, and then a gentleman. "

Basic rules of social etiquette: respect for others, self-discipline, self-esteem, generosity and moderation. Basic rules of social etiquette, ladies first, respect for privacy. (Five Don't Ask) The convention of "no" in social interaction is: don't ask about age, marriage, experience, income, health, don't joke too much, don't give up nicknames, don't correct them in person, don't get angry casually, don't break your word, don't hurt people with bad words, don't be too enthusiastic and don't hinder others.

Second, college students should pay attention to personal etiquette.

1, grooming etiquette

Lady's etiquette: elegant and solemn hairstyle, neatly combed. If it is short hair, the length of hair should not exceed the shoulders. If it is long hair, it should be tied up or rolled up, and it should not be let loose at will. It should be clipped with hairpins, not decorated with gorgeous headdresses. Make-up is elegant and natural, avoid heavy make-up, make-up and make-up in public; Nails should not be too long, keep them clean. Don't wear dark colors when applying nail polish, and don't trim your nails in public. The legs and feet are not exposed, the skirt length is appropriate, the skin color stockings are worn, and the shoes without holes (spare socks) are bright and clean.

Men's etiquette: short hair is appropriate, simple and generous, clean and tidy, not too trendy, the front of the hair is not covered, the side is not covered, and the back is not as good as the collar; Short nails, keep clean; Pay attention to personal hygiene, no sweat and no odor; Shave every day, don't leave a beard, don't expose your nose hair, brush your teeth after meals, put an end to bad breath, and ensure that there is nothing between your teeth; White or monochrome shirts, neckline, cuffs without stains.

2. dress etiquette

Dress should pay attention to the principles of top-notch, integrity, individuality and neatness. "TOP" is actually the abbreviation of three English words. Its top principle, integrity principle, individuality principle and neatness principle represent time, occasion and place respectively, that is, the dress should be coordinated with the time, occasion and place at that time.

Correct dress can play a role in modifying figure and appearance, and form a harmonious overall beauty. The overall beauty of clothing includes the human body, internal temperament, style, color, texture, technology and wearing environment.

The principle of individualization of dress mainly refers to dressing according to individual's personality, age, figure, hobbies, occupation and other factors, and strives to reflect individual personality characteristics. The choice of clothes varies from person to person. The key point is to show the strengths, cover up the weaknesses, and show the unique personality charm and the best style.

In any case, clothes should be clean and tidy. Clothes should be free of stains, broken lines and holes, and buttons and other accessories should be complete. Pay special attention to the neatness of collars and cuffs.

Dress should not be too messy, too bright, too short, too tight, too exposed and too perspective. One of the rules of wearing etiquette ornaments is to coordinate with clothing; The second rule is to coordinate with the physical appearance; Rule 3: coordination between jewelry; Rule 4: live in harmony with the environment.

3. Etiquette and manners

Appropriate eyes, smiling expression, standard standing posture, elegant sitting posture, correct walking posture and graceful squatting posture.

4. Dining etiquette

As far as the specific seats of the dining table are concerned, the current norms of Chinese food are: the host sits in the upper middle, the guest of honor is on the right, the deputy guest of honor is on the left, and the others are arranged from right to left and from top to bottom.

Drinking etiquette: Toast should be carried out in the order of age, position and the identity of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we should give full consideration to the order of toasting and prioritize. Even if you are drinking with people you don't know, you should inquire about your identity, or pay attention to how others address you, so as to avoid embarrassing or hurtful situations caused by calling you by the wrong name or address.

When toasting, the proposer should stand up, holding the cup in his right hand or the bottom of the cup in his left hand, smiling and sincerely facing others. Even if you don't drink, you should get up and touch the mouth of the cup on your lips to show your respect. Moderate drinking. No matter the host or the guest, don't force others to drink, especially don't persuade women to get drunk. When drinking, women should pay special attention not to lose their manners because of heavy drinking.

Obsessed with chopsticks, can't hold chopsticks and hesitate to clip which dish; Chopsticks are placed on the chopstick rack, not on the dishes; Explore chopsticks, you can't rummage through dishes with chopsticks; Drop chopsticks, hold a dish with a lot of soup, and don't shake the soup with chopsticks; Insert chopsticks, don't put them vertically on the food; Knock chopsticks, don't knock the bowl with chopsticks; Chopsticks can't be stuffed into your mouth at one time with all kinds of dishes; Empty chopsticks, can't carry food, don't eat and put it back; Lick chopsticks, not your tongue; Pointing at chopsticks, you can't wave chopsticks like a baton while pointing at others.

5. Conversation etiquette

Personal distance (intimate distance): less than 0.5 meters; Conventional distance (communication distance): 0.5-1.5m; Etiquette distance (respect distance):1.5-3.5m; Public distance (facing the public): more than 3.5 meters; Serious expression. When listening, look at each other and concentrate.

Third, college students should pay attention to office etiquette.

Office etiquette: Office etiquette is the etiquette standard that college students must follow when entering and leaving the office. It can reflect the overall image of a unit. The requirements for college students are proper dress, simple decoration, elegant speech, energetic, civilized behavior and clean environment.

Meeting etiquette: Notes for meeting organizers: The purpose should be clear when issuing the meeting notice; Plan to send a meeting notice. The notice of the meeting must specify the time, place, theme and participants of the meeting; Arrange the venue. The size of the venue depends on the content of the meeting and the number of participants; The meeting time should be tight. Effective use of time and discussion of substantive issues should be a very important part of meeting etiquette; Greeting etiquette. For some large or medium-sized meetings, be careful to greet the participants; Seating arrangements for the podium. Be punctual for meetings, and don't be late or leave early; Keep quiet during the meeting, don't walk around at will, observe the meeting order, and leave the meeting lightly without affecting others; At the end of his speech, the speaker should applaud; During the meeting, pay attention to control the small movements of your hands, don't tap the table and notebook with a pen, don't play with key chains, pluck your ears, cut your nails and other behaviors unrelated to the meeting; Turn off or mute the phone.

Telephone etiquette: (1) consider the opportunity; (2) prepare an outline; (3) concise; (4) smile; (5) Standard expression: Hello! This is XX from XX Company. I'm sorry ... (6) Think carefully about your purpose before answering the phone, so as not to make the preface irrelevant or wordy after connecting; (7) The language is friendly, concise and clear, and the speed of speech is appropriate. Don't shout; (8) Prepare 1 piece of white paper to record the other party's content before calling, or write down what you want to say.

As soon as the phone rings, pick up the phone and report yourself first, then ask the other person's intention to call. (2) In telephone communication, we should carefully understand each other's intentions, repeat and echo each other's conversation as necessary to show positive feedback to each other. (3) A telephone directory should be available, and important telephone calls should be recorded. (4) When the telephone content is finished, wait for the other party to finish, and then end with "goodbye". After the other party puts down the microphone, gently put it down to show respect for the other party.

Reception etiquette: when shaking hands, the distance between the two sides is 1 m; The order of shaking hands is: superior first, elder first, lady first, host first.

Handshaking etiquette: the two are about one step apart, with their legs standing at attention slightly in front of their upper bodies, their right hands sticking out from under their bodies, their fingers together and their thumbs open. Two people hold hands vertically with the ground, shaking up and down, usually for two or three seconds. When shaking hands, look at each other, smile or just say hello, say hello in words.

Face to face is the top. When using the "opposite" seat, the seat facing the door is usually the upper seat, which should be given to the guests; Take the seat facing the door as the next seat, and it is advisable for the host to sit here by himself.

Fourth, the public etiquette of college students.

Convention on campus civilization

1, safeguard national and collective interests and abide by foreign affairs discipline. I love my country and my school, and I will not take part in any activities that violate the Four Cardinal Principles and endanger social order. I will not do anything that will damage the national personality and affect the reputation of the school in my foreign activities.

2. Maintain public order and abide by the campus management system. Don't make noise, make trouble, fight, gamble, drink too much, queue up for order, get in the way, and make a loud noise in public places.

3. Pay attention to personal cultivation and treat others with courtesy. Dress neatly and decently, behave in a dignified manner, and do not wear vests, underwear or slippers when entering or leaving public places; Honest and trustworthy, polite and civilized, no swearing, no swearing; Men and women communicate, behave appropriately, respect themselves, and do nothing unsightly; Be polite to patients and disabled people, be polite to ladies and be helpful.

4, thrift, love of labor. Save water and electricity, do not waste meals; Actively participate in social practice activities and work-study programs, and do not participate in business activities on campus.

5. Respect the rights of others. Don't force students to do things they don't want to do, don't despise others, don't occupy public facilities for a long time, respect the work of service personnel and respect the religious customs of all ethnic groups.

6. Maintain teaching order and cultivate good study habits. Attend classes on time, don't be late, don't miss classes, don't leave early, listen carefully, use your head, study actively, improve your learning efficiency, and don't cheat in exams.

7. Consciously maintain environmental sanitation. No spitting, chewing gum and betel nut, littering, scribbling and smoking in non-smoking places.

8. Take care of public facilities and the campus environment. No damage to public facilities, no climbing of flowers and trees, no trampling on lawns, no defilement of classroom and dormitory supplies, and no petty gain.

9. Abide by the dormitory management system, advocate healthy entertainment, and resist feudal superstitious activities. Turn off the lights and go to bed on time. No noise or fighting will affect others' normal study and rest.

10, do not watch and spread reactionary and obscene books, audio-visual products, refuse pornography, gambling and drugs, and actively participate in beneficial campus cultural and sports activities.

Ten uncivilized phenomena on campus

Stealing other people's property (62.5%).

Spitting and littering, lack of environmental awareness (62.3%).

In the meeting place, self-study classroom and library, the mobile phone is not set to vibrate or frequently answer the mobile phone and send messages, disturbing others (62.438+0%).

The language is uncivilized and the export is dirty (59.6%).

No flushing after using the toilet (56.3%).

Destruction of public facilities and waste of water, electricity and food (53.2%).

In public places on campus, couples are too close. %).

Watching and disseminating pornographic books, periodicals or audio-visual products (46.8%).

Playing cards, singing and watching movies in the dormitory is too noisy, which affects others' normal rest (45.9%).

Alcohol abuse and smoking (44.7%).

The realization of etiquette depends on the cultivation and training of good manners: the improvement of inner self-cultivation and good taste, starting from small things, long-term adherence to etiquette is life attitude, and etiquette is respect. May the students become elegant, tasteful, cultured and attractive modern people!