My mother is an honest man in my eyes, but I don't know why my mother lied to me. Now, I understand that my mother lied to me because she loved me.
On a sunny Saturday morning, I got up early and asked my mother to buy me some fruit to eat with my parents. My mother bought me some bananas. I peeled a banana and ate it, but I didn't like it much when I got to the tail of the banana. At this moment, my mother came over and asked me, "What's the matter?" Don't you want to eat? But this banana tail is very nutritious and can grow taller after eating it. Don't eat if you don't want to grow taller! If you don't eat, give it to me. I want to supplement nutrition. "I am puzzled by what my mother said: this banana tail is obviously not nutritious! Why does my mother say this banana tail is very nutritious? Forget it, forget it, just eat it once! Then, I took a big bite. After eating, I put the skin in the trash can. My mother saw my series of movements and made my mother laugh. Ah! This banana tail is not delicious, I think: since this banana tail is not delicious, it certainly has no nutrition. So, I checked whether banana tails are nutritious on the Internet. Most netizens on the Internet said that banana tails don't have much nutrition.
I was so angry that I said to my mother, "My mother, you lied to me!" " "I ran away. My mother called me, "Kiki, don't run! "Come back! Come back soon! " I thought to myself: My mother is obviously lying to me, and I will never talk to you again. Later, my father told me that my mother just wanted me to develop the habit of saving since I was a child, and I forgave my mother. Now I understand that my mother is good for me, and she also cares and loves me. I can't think like this anymore. My mother will be very sad if she finds out.
Although my mother lied to me, I don't hate her, because I know this is my mother's white lie and her care and love for me.
Lies Excellent Composition 2 "Life cannot blossom brilliantly from lies." This is what Heine said. Lies should not slip away from God's cuffs. God should have turned it into a knife, but it fell to earth and became a pustule in people's hearts.
However, there is a lie that can make people more and more intimate. It is no longer a lie, but a blessing and a warm explanation. It is a rose that blooms from people's hearts, and its function far exceeds ordinary language. People call it a white lie.
Since it is "goodwill", it is only a kind of goodwill, but it is not harmless. For example, an old man in his seventies is lying in a hospital bed. He looked at his black hands and knew that he was leaving to teach in another world. He looked at his son with tears in his eyes and said, "I'm leaving." You should spend your life happily ... "
"no! No! " The young man roared and burst into tears Do you know the ending? The old man died with regret and his eyes were full of tears.
Paper can't wrap fire, and fire is terrible. If you don't put out this fire, you may only leave scars and countless painful tears, but must you lie in life? Can we live without lies? Of course, we are all honest with others and live a prosperous life. Everyone will have a smiling face, which is better than heaven.
You always say that satire is useless, but didn't Mark Twain and Lu Xun both use satirical writing to promote society? The strong regard irony as the fuel of progress, and the weak regard irony as a big stone that hinders their progress. We should encourage you not to cheat, not to cheat, not to hurt others, and not to make cheating a habit.
There should be no lies in life!
Lies can be divided into good and evil, beautiful and ugly, and so can lies. White lies make people warm and moved, while malicious lies make people agree and hate. I once read an article about fatherly love written by Roland, called "The Name of Miracle is Father". A father took his daughter to America to find a wife. In the storm on the ship, he accidentally stabbed his knife into his heart while peeling apples for his daughter, but he kept it from his daughter, and then insisted on singing lullabies to her every day, tying bows for her, peeling apples for her to eat and watching the blue sea with her. In new york, my daughter found her mother in the crowd, but when she looked back, she was shocked. She saw her father fall down slowly, and the blood in his chest was like a blowout, which instantly dyed the whole sky red. The autopsy results were shocking: the knife pierced my father's heart very accurately, but he persisted in living for three days, and he kindly concealed his daughter and everyone. I believe that although my father is gone, my daughter will bravely face the future life and face any difficulties in life. Because he has a great father, how painful it is to put a knife in his chest, how much his father loves him, and how strong his daughter will be in the future. This is the miracle created by white lies.
Contrary to the true story, the last time a person in our village opened a company and borrowed money everywhere, it was hopeless to raise funds. When I was disheartened, I accidentally found that my father had saved 65,438+10,000 yuan without telling himself. In an instant, his anger exceeded his reason and he picked up a stick and wrestled with his father. The father can't beat his son, his head is broken and he has multiple fractures. The end result is that the father is in hospital and the son is in prison ... this is the harm caused by malicious lies.
A lie itself is blank, and it becomes what color you paint it.
Teachers often teach us: "Be a good boy who doesn't lie." I did it.
Every morning and afternoon when I go to school, my mother always pours me a big cup of boiled water for me to drink after class. But the teacher often procrastinates. Sometimes I don't even have time to go to the toilet, and the bell rings. As a result, drinking water has become a thing on the way to school. However, as long as you walk home from school for two or three minutes and drink so much water in such a short time, your stomach will swell. My mother will scold me again if I don't drink water.
Today is a rainy day. I walked around the campus with an umbrella and a water cup, and gulped down boring boiled water from time to time.
At this moment, I met Lin Xinying and Wu Xinyu. Like a savior, I quickly said to Wu Xinyu, "Wu Xinyu, please help me with my umbrella and cup!" Thank you! "
Wu Xinyu took a cup and an umbrella. After a comfortable stretch, I took an umbrella and a cup to shelter from the rain and drink water. After a few swigs, I finally finished drinking the water. I'm relieved. Put the cup in my schoolbag. Lin Xinying asked me, "Jiang Lingrong, why do you drink all the water every day?"
"If I don't finish eating, my mother will scold!" I said helplessly.
"Then why don't you get rid of it? So you can kill two birds with one stone without drinking water and being scolded by your mother? " Lin Xinyu said. "Yes!" Wu Xinyu also nodded.
"That ... thank you. I'll go first, goodbye! " I said this sentence and left quickly.
Should Lin Xinying's suggestion be adopted? I hesitated. If I take it, it will be much easier on my way to school, but I lie to my mother every day and waste water every day. I may even get sick because of lack of water! I shook my head, no! I am not a liar!
When I got home, I opened my Chinese book and saw The Day of Winning the Lottery. The author's father gave up his dream and chose honesty. Did I cheat for not drinking water? I'm glad I made the right choice.
Lies 5 "Lies" are called "lies" because they are false, untrue and deceptive words. If a person often lies, he will lose people's trust over time. Just like the children in "The Lying Child", they cried "Wolf is coming" every day for fun, but when the wolf really came, no matter how he shouted, no one came to help him. Because people will think that he is lying again. It can be seen that lies hinder honesty But if you add "goodwill" before "lies", the essence of lies will change fundamentally. "White lies" are people's good wishes for things, a dialogue between people's kind hearts, a trace of warmth that people comfort each other, and a kind of tenderness from the heart. ...
No one will investigate its credibility. Even if the person who hears a white lie knows it is a lie, he will try to believe it, and will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes he will be grateful from the heart! When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor. Everyone will form a United front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make patients full of hope for treatment and let patients spend the rest of their lives with peace of mind. Will this hinder integrity? When a child loses his family, how can he explain to him where his family has gone? Don't tell him the real situation for the time being, just say to go on a business trip to a distant place. When the child is sensible and tells him the truth, he will understand the practice of his loved ones. Is this also an obstacle to integrity? Therefore, I insist that man-made and well-intentioned lies not only do not hinder honesty, but also greatly enhance the friendship and feelings between people and have an indelible effect on social stability.
The theme of this oral communication is: Tell honest and white lies. I support the idea of white lies. I think lies are needed in life.
Give a few examples!
Don't starve that horse, which we learned, is mainly about a disabled young man who set up a book stand and told a white lie in order to make the author feel at ease in reading. After reading this article, I was deeply moved. Although it is a lie, it represents kindness and beauty. I don't think disabled young people lie on purpose. Just care and help for the author.
Taking the only audience as an example, "I" has grown from a musical idiot in the eyes of my father and sister to a violinist who can play at various literary evenings. In this process, I can't live without that "only listener". Her silent concern, sincere help, persistent concern and enthusiastic encouragement made me realize my musical dream.
Can you say that the disabled youth and the "deaf" old lady who set up the bookstall are liars? No, not. This is just a white lie. Some people lament that a white lie is also a lie, and it is useless to add a few nice adjectives in front of him. In fact, white lies are beautiful. This kind of lie is either cheating or ulterior motives. When we tell some little lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, and even give each other great changes! It has a magical power, without any evil.
Meaning is the nourishment of life and the motive force of faith. It makes people ignite the fire of hope from the heart, and also makes people firmly believe that there is love, trust and emotion in the world!
I remember when I was in primary school, I always encountered many problems in my homework. Whenever I encounter a problem that I can't do, I take my homework and run to ask my mother. After reading the topic, my mother always replied, "Oh, I can't do this topic either. Why don't you think about it and teach my mother? " I walked away disappointed and often complained in my letters: "Mom is so stupid. A college student can't even do the questions of primary school students! " I have to go back to the study and meditate on myself, so that I can explain it to my mother when she checks her homework.
Whenever I tell my mother a topic, my mother listens attentively, which is more serious than when I listen to the teacher at school. Sometimes she would ask some questions, so I sighed helplessly and patiently explained the reasons to her. But every time I finished explaining it, I felt extremely proud and particularly fulfilled when I saw my mother suddenly realize. Of course, in the end, I always look at my mother who just understood the topic and ask, "Mom, why can't you even know this?" How stupid! "Mother was not angry, just smiled lightly and said nothing.
It was not until later, when I gradually entered the senior grade, that I realized that my mother had told a white lie. Of course, she knows how to do those questions, just because she doesn't want me to develop the bad habit of relying on her to find her instead of thinking for myself whenever I encounter problems, so I lied and said that I wouldn't do them. When I explained, my mother asked questions to test whether I really understood them.
My mother took great pains to form a good habit of positive thinking for me and to find a sense of accomplishment in my study and thinking, and spent so much time listening to my topic. Now I understand my mother's good intentions and say in my heart more than once, "Thank you, Mom!" " "
Some people may say, "Honesty is the most precious thing, and only those who speak honesty deserve admiration." But I don't think so. White lies are sometimes just as important.
I remember that it was the summer vacation a year ago, and grandpa was seriously ill. The whole family is very busy. Dad can't come back because of business, and mom has to take care of grandpa.
Because it is summer vacation, I practice piano at home every day and prepare for the exam. Mom works harder. In addition to going to work every day, I have to take care of my grandfather and wash clothes and cook when I go home. Every time I see my mother dragging her tired body back, my heart aches. Looking at my mother's thin figure, it seems that she will fall down in the next second. At this time, I always hate myself: why can't I do anything? Can't share mom's troubles? I often hide in the quilt and secretly shed tears, hating my uselessness. But to no avail. I can only silently pray that grandpa will get better soon.
Finally one day, that night, I waited for my mother to come back, but she didn't. Somehow, a strong sense of fear hit my heart, and my heart was pounding, but I didn't know what I was afraid of. I fell asleep with this fear. The first day I woke up, I found my mother didn't come home all night. I dialed her cell phone, but it was turned off. That familiar fear surrounded me again, and I walked back and forth uneasily in the living room. Suddenly, the sound of opening the door came from behind me. I looked intently, it was mom! As soon as I entered the door, my mother said, "Grandpa didn't feel well yesterday. I stayed with him all night without telling you. I am really sorry. " I am both happy and worried. I was just about to ask, but when I saw my mother's haggard face, I had to swallow back what I had said in my throat.
At noon, an aunt came to see her mother. I was sorry at first, but I thought: Yes, my mother has lost a lot of weight recently. But my aunt's words froze me. She said, "Do you know? Your mother fainted yesterday because of overwork! " After she finished speaking, my head exploded, and tears blurred my eyes. ...
Now that I think about it, it still hurts. In order not to worry me, my mother told a white lie, and I was very moved.
You showed up without warning in a pink skirt. I met you in this spring, the girl who played bagpipes in the gorgeous cherry blossoms in April.
Being with you is like riding a roller coaster. You never know where you will take me next. You said that the accompaniment was angry with you, but you insisted that I accompany you with the piano in your violin competition instead. But I haven't talked about the piano for a long time. I can't hear my piano. Pressing the button is like falling into the deep sea ... but I promised you anyway. At that time, I didn't know that letting me accompany you was your wish for ten years and the reason why we met.
I like your eclectic playing style. You let me know the meaning of music again. Music is not only the reproduction of the score on the black-and-white keyboard, but the reinterpretation of the music by the performer. I like your violin and I like you, too. But I am just your "friend A".
You suddenly fainted during the performance, went to the hospital, or ate a lot of fattening desserts, cakes and chocolates. Instead of staying in the hospital, he took me out shopping and bought a lot of beautiful stationery. Lively, I thought you were okay. You make everyone think you're good.
I finally want to play the piano again, take part in the East Japan Piano Competition, and meet my former opponent. I'm nervous about playing again. I didn't know the game was so tense before, and my whole body was stiff, only my fingers were unusually flexible. I still can't hear my own piano, but I can hear others playing it. Sure enough, the music is very interesting!
I want you to hear me play. But you didn't come. My love, did you convey it?
Cherry blossoms bloom again in April. I received your letter and our only photo. You said thank you for playing when I was 5 years old and made you fall in love with music. I said thank you for letting me meet you.
First of all, honesty is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. We treat everyone and everything seriously, and over time, we will receive the return of honesty and feel the beauty of honesty. If a person is not honest, then everyone will not trust him and will alienate him. No one will believe him even if he tells the truth later. Presumably, everyone has heard the story of "the wolf is coming": a shepherd boy often tells lies, and people in the village don't believe him. Finally, his sheep are eaten by the wolf.
Secondly, lying is a kind of behavior that runs counter to honesty. Even white lies are still lies and empty words, which exaggerate, cover up and distort the facts. Although a white lie has a good starting point, a good starting point may not bring good results, and sometimes it is counterproductive and even has a negative impact. There is a terminally ill person. In order to let him spend the rest of his life safely, relatives and friends will hide him together. This is not malicious, nor selfish. It's just that paper can't hold fire, lies can't last long, and deception is not satisfactory. On the contrary, patients are deprived of the best opportunity to handle personal affairs and realize their wishes.
Third, white lies are more excuses. A white lie takes off the beggar's clothes and puts on a suit, but it is still a lie in essence, which has run counter to honesty and trustworthiness and is in cahoots with deception. White lies are often used and calculated by some "professional liars" because of the uncertainty of good intentions, which eventually leads to unimaginable results.
Finally, I reiterate: less lies and more honesty. When a person loses honesty, he leaves hypocrisy; If a company loses its integrity, it will face bankruptcy; If a nation loses its integrity, it will face decline; If a country loses its integrity, it will go to extinction! Trustworthiness and honesty will succeed, and trustworthiness and honesty will make the Chinese nation last forever!
Then let's shout together: reject white lies and build an honest society!
Lies 1 1 Do you know Santa Claus? Do you believe in Santa Claus? Have you ever received a gift from Santa Claus? I once 100% believed that there was a Santa Claus in the world, and even determined that the all-powerful Santa Claus lived in a cabin in the Christmas Village in the Netherlands. Later, in the discussion with my classmates about Santa Claus, I gradually guessed that the mysterious Santa Claus in my heart actually lives by my side every day. They are my father and mother. But I still don't want to believe it. I want to live in the magical world where Santa Claus has always existed. I like the beautiful lies my parents made up for me.
Every Christmas Eve, my father will help me hang a red Christmas stocking on the bedroom window. The next morning, I can always receive two or more presents from Santa Claus in Christmas socks as promised. I have never seen those gifts, but they always make me fondle admiringly. It is conceivable that mom and dad are so careful when choosing gifts! On Christmas Day 20xx, I accidentally received a letter from Santa Claus. In the letter, I am convinced of the "snow circle" fabricated by my parents pretending to be Santa Claus. Whenever I make a mistake, the first thought in my mind is whether Santa Claus will erase my "snow circle" in the snow; When I get my grades, I want to know whether Santa Claus added a "snow circle" for me in time ... The "snow circle" constantly urged me to correct my shortcomings and make positive progress, which added many fantasies to my childhood.
As I grew older, my suspicion of Santa Claus gradually increased. Now, I'm sure there is no Santa Claus in the world, only my parents who have always loved me wholeheartedly. A little lie, a beautiful lie, filled my heart with great emotion, because it contained the full love of my parents.
The world is full of love, the love of parents, the friendship between classmates, the kindness of teachers, and even the care and help of an unknown person. Love doesn't have to be earth-shattering, maybe it's hidden in a string of ice cream. I remember a year ago in the summer, there was a serious drought.
One morning, the sun scorched the earth. Many people are hiding at home to rest, while my parents are still doing farm work in the fields. The sun is like fire, and the tobacco fields are full of tobacco oil. My parents, in this scorching sun, broke off the sticky tobacco stubble. I can only stay at home, and they won't let me go. At noon, they came back with a string of "five rings in the middle street". I asked them, "Have you eaten?" Mom said, "Let's eat!" But they gulped down water, which made me wonder: can't a bunch of ice cream quench my thirst? Maybe they are too tired, so they need to drink water. I don't know how many nights, my mother bought me a dollar of ice cream. Whenever I ask them, they always say, "We have already eaten." Once or twice, I believed it, but after many times, I couldn't help wondering: Why do they always finish eating first? Are you too thirsty? Or is there something else?
Once, I waited for them to come back at the grocery store. When they saw me, they bought three strings of one-yuan ice cream. Give me one, and I'll finish it. I am relieved that they didn't lie to me. But when I was playing the next day, I passed by a small shop and saw my mother eating a pile of ice cream with fifty cents. I have an unspeakable taste in my heart, but my nose is sour. ...
Since then, I have developed a habit: when my parents are around, I eat one yuan of ice cream; When my parents are away, I eat 50 cents ice cream. I gradually found out how much money I can save in a month by doing this. Summer will soon pass, and we will part with our parents again. Although the time and distance of separation is so long, even though thousands of miles apart, several concerned hearts are always linked by something invisible and intangible, that is love. I swear from the bottom of my heart: without a successful day, there will be no time to return to China.
I have a cousin who is a model of honesty. One day, cousin's classmate Xiaozhen came to her house to play. Xiaozhen saw a paper-folded flower basket in her cousin's room, so she said to her cousin, "Silver, can you teach me how to fold the paper-folded flower basket?" Cousin readily agreed and agreed that Xiaozhen would come to see cousin the next morning. Early the next morning, my cousin's father said to her cousin, "Silver, go to Uncle Wang's house and play with her big sister!" " Cousin had long wanted to play with her sister, but she decided not to go at the thought of her date with Xiaozhen yesterday.
Dad advised my cousin: "Go! My sister only comes back once a year, can't you go and spend time with her? " No matter how my father advised me, my cousin insisted on waiting for Jane at home. Nine o'clock, ten o'clock, eleven o'clock ... It's already two o'clock in the afternoon and Xiaozhen hasn't come yet. Although she didn't go to Uncle Wang's house, her cousin was very happy because she kept her promise. There are two kinds of lies, one is a white lie and the other is a malicious lie. I remember once, on my mother's birthday, I bought a bag of apples for my mother. Apples were very expensive at that time. I only bought ten apples, all of which were more than ten dollars. My mother said she didn't like it, so she gave it to me. At that time, I just thought my mother didn't like apples!
In retrospect, everything my mother did was for me. I have a younger brother, in the third grade of primary school. Once, his mother promised him that she would buy him toys if she got 95 points in the exam. But my brother only got 93 points out of 9 1. My brother wanted toys so badly that he changed 9 1 to 97 and 93 to 98. As he wished, his mother bought him a toy. But will he be ashamed of taking that toy? Clear conscience? Yes! We must have honest and white lies in our life, so that our tomorrow will be better! ! !
I remember when I was in the first grade, my mother often said to me, "Cheng Ling, my aunt is a doctor. No matter what you do at school, she can see it through the microscope, so you can't desert in class. If my aunt calls one day to complain, my mother will hit you. " Since then, I have become very careful. I listen carefully in class, don't go out to play after class, read books in the classroom, and do well, for fear that my aunt will see me doing something wrong.
Because of this, I am more and more curious about the microscope, and I always want to see if I can see the school in the microscope. When I was in the second grade, it happened to be my birthday, so I called my aunt to show me the microscope and said, "The microscope can really see your school and your every move." "Can you really see my situation at school?" I nervously. Aunt said, "Are you reading after class?" "hmm!" Wow, the microscope is really amazing, I thought to myself silently.
In the evening, I ate it, and I had no mind to eat that beautiful cake at all. "Silly boy, the microscope can only see bacteria, but it is impossible to see your school." "Then how do you know ..." I asked in confusion. "GengJun didn't tell me?" "Oh, it's that guy!" I suddenly realized, grabbed a fast food cake and stuffed it into my mouth, and suddenly turned into a big face. Now, I am in Grade Three, not in Geng Jun's class. I don't have to worry anymore, but my mother told me that the teacher often calls her, so now I'm still very cautious. Occasionally, one day, the teacher asked my home phone number, huh? Mom lied again.
I have known since I was a child that lying is bad and will be eaten by wolves. But I think my mother's lies are all well-intentioned, and she is really well-intentioned. I am determined to study harder consciously in the future to repay my mother's good intentions. Mom! Daughter, I worried you!
Lies 15 White lies are a way of life and a manifestation of caring for others.
Relatives and friends of terminally ill patients always tell their illness lightly with white lies and encourage him to cooperate with doctors. I'm sure none of you here will accuse them of dishonesty, will you? ! On the contrary, it is malicious and true. A prisoner was lured by the enemy to tell the number of his troops. Does anyone think he is honest? Sincerity to the enemy is betrayal to the country!
A lie that rejects love without directly hurting the suitor; An expressive lie that is unwilling to disappoint the inviter under the attentions of men is indispensable in interpersonal communication. It makes us more handy when dealing with the world, instead of cutting off other people's heads and scratching ourselves like a hard stone with many edges.
It can be seen that people need a layer of protective color and lubrication. Since being expelled from the Garden of Eden, people are not naked but surrounded by bark and grass leaves, aren't they?
Although a white lie is a kind of lie, it will definitely hinder honesty if you don't lie, so it is necessary to analyze the specific problems.
Honesty is respected by everyone because it is kind and does not cheat. On the surface, white lies seem to hinder the principle of honesty, but in essence, they exist because telling the truth hinders the principle of good faith.
White lies and honesty are actually the relationship of unity of opposites, and the so-called violation only provides a useful supplement to honesty, not an obstacle. For example, it is stipulated that pedestrians in the same direction can only occupy half of the road, which does not hinder everyone's passage!