Yu Dafu lost his father at the age of three, and his family has undergone great changes. The old grandmother (Yu Shengshan's wife) is still alive. Two brothers: eldest brother Yu Hua (word) is twelve years older than him; Yu Hao, the second brother, is five years older than him. Sister Yu Fengzhen is two years older than him. Plus my mother and adopted daughter Cui Hua, seven people, old and young, two generations of widows, lost their only support for a while. Among the three major sources of family income, the first income is gone; Second, Uncle Zhuang lacked management personnel, so he had to hire an old gentleman named Yu for many years to handle official documents, and his income was reduced by more than half. The third is that the income falling from the sky has been bullied by the families of orphans and widows, such as theft, embezzlement and so on. In less than three years, there are only three houses, six acres of fertile land, and half of the net income has dropped sharply. The whole family depends on the virtuous mother's hard work, which not only provides Luo Zhang farmers with contacts and farming, but also is responsible for publicity and personally going to the countryside to collect the "Autumn Valley" in autumn. Big brother and second brother have started school, and family expenses have increased. During the day, she will try to do some needlework in the alley at home to earn a piece-rate salary. However, despite working hard all day, the family economy declined rapidly, so that the young Yu Dafu's "first feeling was hunger". Since he was born, he has always been hungry because of lack of breast milk. Because he was the last son who lost his father in childhood, his mother kept him from weaning, which increased his hunger time. According to his childhood classmates, he didn't go to school until he was seven. Every morning, his classmates come to visit him, and he always makes them wait and suck a few mouthfuls of milk beside their mother before they go to private schools. Later, I was really laughed at by my classmates, but I weaned myself. This is a few years after my father died. How does the busy mother take care of him? Tea, rice and meals are neither punctual nor often enough. Even on the annual New Year's Eve, my mother is busy going to various stores to repay or postpone intercession, and often can't go home until after midnight. He can only wait on an empty stomach, so he is too tired to sleep and can't sleep. The children next door came to see him after dinner. He was lying on the table just complaining that it was worse than the New Year! Of course, these scenes were deeply left in his young and innocent mind, so he said that his first experience since he began to feel was "the horror of hunger."
Due to the difficulties of life, his only sister, Yu Fengzhen, was given to the Ye family in the country as a child bride the year after his father died. But his mother has always insisted that her three sons go to school in such a poor situation. Not only do they go to school in general, but they also go to colleges and universities, and all of them go to Japan to study. I can't help but say that this rare and insightful mother is so tenacious and different! The eldest son, Yu Hua, studied in Japan through official expenses. While the second son and the youngest son continued to study in Hangzhou and the local area, they even mortgaged three houses, six acres of fertile land and a semi-village book, that is, all his possessions, and borrowed money to live. Many well-meaning relatives really worried about her and advised her that there was no need to take such risks when she had plenty of time. Even the grandmother chattered against her eldest grandson's going abroad to study. But she flatly refused, saying, "My family has no property to keep, and they are not allowed to go out to study and do something. They are all squatting on Fuyang Street' counting stone slabs' (local irony means idle and boring). How can they be worthy of their ancestors! " This is probably the tradition of so-called "scholarly family". Some people say that this is Yu Qi's last wish when he died. According to Ding Si Diary written by Yu Dafu 19 17 when he was studying in the eighth Japanese institution of higher learning, it was recorded on February 25th that "Yu Sheng lost his father at the age of three. Although he tried to be the first in the exam when he was young, he couldn't imagine that he was alone. Your father's integrity, so there is your generation. If he is the son and grandson of your generation, you should also inform him. " The grandmother's words are the same. Your father is honest and sincere, so if your father were here, your generation would not be here today. This mother Lu's words are also. Give the brain a test first, that's all! The so-called "not today" subtly shows that in the eyes of Lu's mother, who is also a "scholarly family", she is more determined and courageous than her father to accept and implement the tradition of "scholarly family"!