Some people scoff at the "wolf father and tiger mother" parenting style, thinking that this seriously suppresses the child's nature! Some people praise it as a "magic weapon for parenting". In fact, to a certain extent, I agree with the "wolf father and tiger mother" parenting style, because parents keep their children in captivity today for tomorrow's stocking, and now they don't let go for the future. Therefore, from this perspective, we can't kill with a stick, but we should treat it dialectically, take its essence and discard its dross, so that good parenting methods can be used by us. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that strict father gave birth to a dutiful son and a loving mother lost more children. In the process of raising children, I agree with some principled things, but when I say strict, I don't mean beating each other with sticks and corporal punishment, so I don't agree with the "wolf dad" parenting style. However, I quite agree that "wolf parents and tiger mothers" set rules and strict timetables for their children! They stipulate when and what children should do, and stipulate that children must finish their homework to have fun. Seemingly harsh, it is actually a process of cultivating children's good habits. At the same time, the "wolf father and tiger mother" stipulates what children can and cannot do. Many people say that it is not conducive to the cultivation of children's sexual ability, but in my opinion, it is also necessary because children have no concept of right and wrong, do not know what is right and what can be done, and parents have not taught their children to know right and wrong. In addition, the "wolf father and tiger mother" has clear rewards and punishments, which is actually a parenting method worth learning. Therefore, from this perspective, the "wolf father and tiger mother" parenting style is worth learning. Too strict education limits children's right to choose, which will lead to the tension of parent-child relationship. Some children live in the schedule arranged by their parents for a long time, which may lead to difficulties in communication between parents and children and produce rejection. What's more, it may make children "obedient" because children know that they can't get benefits from their parents and turn to people who can meet their own requirements. But there is a problem that has been bothering parents: children are too young to make their own judgments. In fact, parents should not interfere too much and limit their children's choices. Instead, observe children more, give timely guidance and communicate well before children have problems. The starting point of tiger mother and wolf father's educational thought is good, but restricting children's freedom and behavior is too harsh, which is not conducive to children's personalized development. In education, parents should relax themselves, there is no need to demand perfection of their education, and children's physical and mental health is the first. Being admitted to Tsinghua Peking University does not mean that the child is successful. Who can say that a cleaner who lives a happy life every day is unsuccessful? 2013-05-0512: 52:19 supplement: as the saying goes, "strict father is a dutiful son and a loving mother, but many children are defeated. I really admire the wisdom of the ancients. Many aphorisms and aphorisms taught to children are concise and concise, which have been confirmed by people of different times in the long life. There are many middle-class parents who take good care of their children on weekdays. Maids take care of everything in and out. Men are like playboys, and women are like good girls. In fact, this is understandable. Parents always give their children the best living conditions when they can afford it. However, this is often a blind spot. To be a good parent, you really need a good educational concept. 2013-05-0512: 52: 25 supplement: character education should be the most important, but it can also be the most difficult to practice. Parents can't instill a set of theories into their children (in early childhood, power is the last word, and instillation is still necessary). More importantly, they should pay more attention to the details of daily life and help their children slowly. This process is subtle, but it has great potential.

Discuss how loving mothers fail.

Tiger mother is too strict, and scholars talk a lot.

Nothing is absolute.

Choose half each. ................ s loving mother is even worse: Have you ever heard of loving mother's filial piety? Tiger mother is too strict: Have you ever heard of a dutiful son?