During the Warring States Period, the King of Chu gave a banquet to entertain his deputies. The light suddenly went out, and a drunken general pulled the clothes of Princess Chu. The princess tore off the general's hat and let the king of Chu trace it. In order to save the general's face, the king of Chu ordered all the people to tear off their hats and tassels in the dark, then light the lamps again and continue the banquet. Later, the tolerant general fought for Chu with extraordinary courage. It can be seen that to learn tolerance, we must learn to forgive a person's small mistakes and give people a chance to repent.
Tolerance is a generous and noble sentiment. Tolerance contains a kind of modesty and sincerity, a kind of tolerance and respect for others. Learn to be tolerant, and you will get peace of mind. Only when you learn tolerance can you live an open-minded life. Many times, tolerance will bring people a beautiful feeling of life, make us feel happy and warm, and there will be less resentment and troubles in life, so that we can feel the richness of "happiness" in life, not the lack.
Tolerance is a noble virtue. "Meet with a smile and forget the enmity" is the highest state of tolerance. In fact, not many people can do this virtue. Even so, we should not give up this pursuit, because forgetting other people's mistakes and repaying the society with a tolerant attitude is a good cycle of benefiting others and society. Turgenev once said: "People who have not tolerated others are not worthy of being tolerated by others." Therefore, when you forgive others, you can often get forgiveness from others when you are wrong or wrong.
If you learn to be tolerant, you will learn a useful responsibility and a good way to be a man. Tolerance is powerful in life. Because criticism will make people dissatisfied, abuse will make people disgusted, humiliation will make people angry, and threats will make people angry. Only tolerance, can't avoid, can't retreat, can't stop, can't resist. Lin Xiangru's tolerance for Lian Po's insolence finally influenced Lian Po to offer a humble apology, leaving an eternal beauty to make peace, so that Zhao Xiao, no one dared to commit it; Premier Zhou pursued the policy of seeking common ground while reserving differences and seeking peace in diplomacy with his broad mind, which forged his great personality and set up the great country demeanor of the Chinese nation. Similarly, the unity and harmony between neighbors need tolerance, the husband and wife can not do without tolerance, and a healthy, civilized and progressive society can not do without tolerance everywhere. If there is no tolerance, the country will meet with each other, the people will fight with each other, and society will become gloomy.
Some people boast that they are clear and considerate, but they are petty and selfish in front of fame and status. Some people can't accommodate other people's habits and opinions, which does not mean safeguarding the truth, but being narrow-minded; Some people are angry with other people's behavior verbally, but they don't make any efforts in their behavior. This can only be called hypocrisy. However, each of us should review ourselves, grasp life with tolerance and repay society with tolerance.
Of course, learning to be tolerant is not unprincipled indulgence, nor is it to submit to humiliation. Tolerance is a beneficial attitude towards life and a gentleman's wind. Learn to be tolerant, and you will be good at discovering the beauty of things and feeling the beauty of life. Let's treat life with an open mind and an open mind, and let the original dull, irritable and angry life radiate charming brilliance.