Finding someone to marry can't get rid of her emotional role. What used to be beautiful has suddenly become cruel, and the person who loves you the most has become the person who hurts you the most. All the changes make people doubt the truth and reliability of love. Women are always afraid of losing. Without men's eternal commitment, they will feel insecure and feel that men's love is not deep enough. Commitment is a guarantee that men can't afford. Men make such promises because of love, while women are happy only when they know it is false. But after the separation, those promises turned into lies. A mature man will prove it with actions rather than words. When in love, everyone wants to grow old together, and not everyone can do it. No one can predict what will happen in the future. We can only work in this direction, and we can't guarantee it with promises. Commitment is beautiful. If you love it, you will believe it. If you don't love it, you will stay away.

I can't bear to hate or forget. When I forget, I am afraid that the other person will forget me in the same way, so I have to remember. If you are destined not to have something, then the best way is not to forget it. It's just that this memory has turned into a faint miss, just like missing a friend far away, and there is no more pain that I lost at the beginning. Even if you forget me, I will remember you. Perhaps it is my happiest thing to be remembered by you occasionally. It is not my intention to give up and stay away, nor does it mean that I should forget you. I treat you as a distant friend, and I deeply bless you. It's just that some things are as natural as breathing every day, and you don't feel anything when you get used to it.

A friend said that his classmate told him that his ex-girlfriend had gone on a blind date, and he felt relieved, but he didn't know until he heard her news that he was still sad. I just asked him why and when he broke up. The reason is the fundamental problem that prompted the breakup, and time is the only antidote to the wound. He said that he broke up with her last year165438+1October 27th because her mother wanted her to get married as soon as possible, but if he stayed with her, he wouldn't get married for at least two years because he didn't think it was there yet.

He is very sad and doesn't want to do anything. Feelings are not easy for anyone to let go. If the other person feels so good, bless him. Since we can't give each other what they want, why not let them fight for it? He said he hated her, which made him sad. Feelings are what you want, and there is nothing to hate. If you really love her, you should think that her happiness is your happiness. If you don't love her, it doesn't matter whether she is good or bad for you now. So whether you love it or not, you should know how to respect each other's choices and leave. He said it was too great for him to do it. Actually, it's not that Wei is not great, just comforting himself. At least if you think so, your heart will feel much better and warmer. Otherwise, your heart will be filled with hatred, which will only make you feel uncomfortable. Men always want to wait until their careers have a name, while women always want to get married early and have a sense of belonging. In fact, if a woman really loves a man, she doesn't want much, she just wants to look at him silently. Maybe everyone should understand each other's ideas. Many times, it is not a question of love or not, but a realistic question. Maybe love can't reach reality after all. Feelings are not worth it, only you are willing or not, and there will always be only you and me emotionally. If you like, you can live a lifetime of wishful thinking. If you don't want to, turn around and leave, no matter how much people love you. There is no way to blame others for failing your efforts, or to criticize yourself for not being rewarded.

People's memories are varied, and some things will never be forgotten. Maybe our lives are repeated too much, day after day, year after year, which is equivalent to just one day, which will make people feel that those things happened yesterday, so near and so far away. Love happens to everyone in the same way, and many people may not let it go after no amount of time, but it conflicts with that deep love over time. Now I think the process is far more important than the result. Love each other when you are in love. Life is just a formality. Maybe once is enough. There are at least people you love in this world, and love is not possession, so it is meaningful to think about living. The interesting thing about love is participation, even if it fails, it is very tasty. Because, when you fall in love with someone, you will always stay in your heart. This moment is the courage of life and a bright light in the dark. Life is more about happiness, no anxiety, no dryness, no complaints, no anger, you will have it, and time will prove everything. It's not mine. At a certain bifurcation point, you will naturally leave. You should know how to treat all gatherings and departures with a normal heart!

There is only a thin line between love and hate, not insurmountable. It depends on how you look at this love. The energy of love is limited. When you pay too much for a person, your energy will be exhausted. Many people love so desperately only once in their lives. I only hope that there will be more true love and less harm in this world. Learn to love and be loved. Good love can dig out the power beyond one's instinct, and a life with love is meaningful. Russell said, "The three most irrational things in the world are love, war and religion." Hegel said, "The three stupidest things in the world are love, marriage and war." Perhaps love is the most irrational and stupid, but life without love is incomplete. If a person has no feelings, it is terrible to be too rational and indifferent, but people need to have a forbearing heart. Whether it is movies or music, love is an eternal theme. Whether men, women and children, love or not, love is an eternal topic. Love is annoying and sweet. It's just a pity that time is not enough. People who once loved, no matter whether they can be together in the end, will always remember. Those wonderful past occasionally remind me of how wonderful it was, a little touched and a little sad, because those can't be reversed. Buddha said: Just put it down, but can some things really be put down? Don't ask me if I really put it down, the answer will break me down.

Men and women are inseparable from the world of mortals. In the rivers and lakes of love, there is no right or wrong, and there is no victory or defeat. Even people who don't want to love anymore still have someone who once loved or deeply loved in their hearts. Although the world of mortals is bitter, I still miss it. Buddha said that a relationship, even if it has no result, will bloom a flower on the other side. Feelings are so, personnel are so, and things are so. The highest state of love is: I hope the other person can remember me forever.