1, don't care too much about people around you, and don't deliberately care about other people's affairs. In this world, there will always be people who make you sad, jealous and gnash your teeth. Not how bad they are, but because you care. So if you want peace of mind, don't care. If you don't care about something, it won't hurt you; If you don't care about others, they won't make you angry.

If you care, you have already lost. People who don't care about anything are invincible ...

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Never show your weakness to outsiders except your relatives and friends. Never tell your embarrassment to outsiders; Because no one will think you are pathetic at all, only that you are incompetent and useless.

Many times, you should learn to help yourself, because no one will help you. Learn to be strong in everything, because everything depends on yourself!

Sometimes, you will inevitably be oversensitive.

If you have more eyes, many small things will be allergic, so if others look at you more, you will feel that they are hostile to you; Look at you less. You think he snubbed you on purpose.

People who are overly sensitive are doomed to have a hard life because they are too easily influenced by other people's emotions.

Paranoid people are always thinking, and the result is that they are trapped in a mess of thoughts and can't move.

Sometimes, it is better to care less than to care more.

4. When an old monk saw a scorpion fall into the water, he was so anxious that he decided to catch it ashore with his hands to save it! Who knows, the scorpion stung the old monk's finger severely. Undaunted, the old monk reached out and lifted the scorpion out of the water again, but I was stung by the scorpion again. A man nearby said, "It always stings. Why do you want to save it?" The old monk replied: "it is the nature of scorpions to sting;" Kindness is my nature; Can I give up my nature because of its nature? "

5, be a faint person, don't float, don't rush, don't care about flashy things, don't pursue, don't be reluctant.

6. We like to discover our troubles and pains with a microscope and look at the happiness of others with a magnifying glass. So, we tied a knotty knot for ourselves in the depths of our spirit, which is doomed to be an inescapable robbery in our life. We don't need to look up to the happiness and happiness of others. Everyone has disappointment and despair. For your own troubles and pains, you don't have to make much ado about nothing, as long as you are willing, it will eventually pass! …