Feng Zikai once said to his youngest son, Mei Xin, "Don't complain about depression, loneliness is a blessing." It's too hard not to complain about depression. Masaaki Shirakawa of Beichuan said: Writing is a symbol of depression. If a person even gives up the right to complain, how big is the world in this belly to accommodate all the evils in the world.
The world often says little fresh meat and big warm man, but I regret that the world knows too little. The warmest male god, Mo Ruo Feng Zikai. He is the first warm man in the Republic of China. In today's words, it is "someone else's father."
The child's meticulous observation is really the ultimate. Another example is:
There are countless cartoons that vividly outline the children's world.
I used to think that anyone who has great love for children must have read all the evils in the world of mortals before he can look back and see the unpolluted childlike innocence from the children's plays.
But Feng Zikai is not such a routine. He didn't write and draw children after saying "Don't complain about depression, loneliness is bliss". The children in his works are all based on their own children, namely, Po, Ruan and Zhan Qian.
He who can hide great compassion will be merciful. Feng Zikai's obsession with children's world is not groundless. When he was young, he was also a warm-blooded young man, looking out of the country. When he was young, in order to learn western painting well, he sold his ancestral home, raised foreign debts and spent a lot of money to study in Japan. However, shortly after returning to China, he put away his oil canvas, picked up a brush, spread out rice paper, painted ink and wash, inscribed ancient poems, grew a beard, tasted wine and wore long hexagrams, and spent a lot of money to build a temple full of classical flavor. 1928, Feng Zikai converted to Buddhism from Master Hongyi, whose legal name was "Ying Xing". Feng Zikai once carved a poem with eight fingers on his pipe: "I love that boy, and the lotus leaves no dust." Scold is just for laughing, and fighting will not produce anger. Always stay calm and start over with everyone. It can be said that the years are long and the material desires are naive. "
Some people criticized Feng Zikai for fleeing to the children's world to escape from the real world. He responded: "I admire the innocence of this child's life and envy the vastness of this child's world. Or some people laugh at me for deliberately seeking absurd utopia in the fantasy world of untrained children, thinking that I can escape from reality, but I also laugh at them for surrendering to reality and forgetting human nature. "
I believe in his childlike innocence. Especially when I am a mother myself, I understand that a man can only spend so much time and energy on his children if he is soft-hearted. How many people say to their father the most is the sentence "Dad, where is mom?" Father, for many people, is a title. From the perspective of ordinary people, I was warmed by Feng Zikai's cartoons and children's literature. From my mother's point of view, I was moved by my father Feng Zikai's patience and kindness. Widowed parenting is becoming more and more common nowadays. Can there be anything warmer than such a "other people's father"?