Of all the rains, the one that gets wet is the real rain. Maybe you will find the only one you want only by walking through Qian Shan. About love, it is always an ambiguous topic, and it is always very difficult to refine and summarize it with appropriate language. The bible says: love is patient and kind; Tagore added that it was raining in her eyes and she was holding an umbrella in her heart. This is love. However, such an idealized love may only exist in Plato's world, or it may only exist in the spiritual world far from marriage.
Love is romantic and full of fantasy; But the romance of marriage must be established in the real world, which is obviously restricted by factors other than emotion, so the road to love will become difficult. Love is ideal and marriage is realistic.