An opponent is an opponent, no doubt. They are as talented as us, even more talented than us. They are competing with us to catch up and compete with the Central Plains. They are the people who compete with us for tickets to the other side of success. They are the people who ran to the winning end with us. They are the people who fought with us for the top of the tower of hope. Sometimes, because of their existence, the tortuous course of realizing our dreams may be full of more difficulties and obstacles.

What is a friend? A friend is someone who waits silently for us forever and watches us. A friend is someone who can always stand up in times of crisis. A friend is someone who is on the same iceberg with us and goes deep into the sea. A friend is someone who can always cheer you up when you are depressed. A friend is someone who cheers you on when you are stagnant. A friend is someone who lights up your life. Because of their existence, our originally difficult life journey has a richer, brighter and more vivid color. It can be said that friends are the palette of life and the brush for painting rainbows.

Some people will feel the cold wind even when they hear their opponents' voices in hot June, and they will feel warm when they see their friends in the dead of winter and December. Opponents and friends seem to be two incompatible opposites, but opponents are also friends.

I want to ask, friends are people who make us progress. Isn't the opponent such a person? Yes, they do set up many obstacles to our progress and put us under mental pressure. But from another point of view, it is precisely because of such obstacles and difficulties that we will spare no effort to break through it and surpass it, so as to gain the joy of success. At this time, the so-called pressure will not become a kind of motivation. Friends always open a door for you when your life is at a low ebb, while opponents will leave you alone in the dark at this time. You can only rely on your repeated or even broken collisions to find the way to the light in the dark. In this sense, a friend is a person who helps and encourages you, and an opponent is a person who helps you-he makes you learn to be independent, persistent and patient, and he can make you "be patient and reap what you can't do".

Life needs friends as well as opponents. Opponents are friends in another sense, because with them, our life will not be lacking. Without an opponent, the realm of "going to the west wing alone without words" is a kind of loneliness. Is it also a kind of sadness? Enjoy life, regard your opponent as your opponent and your friend, and the bleak journey of life will be lit up at this time!