Chapter 1: Talking about Self-confidence
Confidence is more important than gold. Self-confidence makes us constantly strive for self-improvement, self-confidence makes us constantly pursue Excellence, and self-confidence makes us create miracles.
In difficult times, confidence supports us to persevere and not be crushed. When we succeed, confidence enables us to make bold efforts to start a career and achieve our career by going up a storey still higher.
Confidence is a clearer understanding of the development of the situation. Confidence without a clear understanding of the situation is blind and unfounded. This kind of self-distrust can not only help us, but also make us suffer a greater blow. Xiang Yu's confidence is arrogance. Arrogance led him not to accept good words and analyze the situation, which eventually led to defeat and suicide. He is still complaining that God can't help him, so he is not a joke.
Self-confidence requires constant self-examination. By examining ourselves, constantly discovering our own shortcomings, constantly comparing ourselves, and knowing the gap between ourselves and the times and others, after this self-knowledge, we will constantly improve and enhance our confidence, so that confidence will have a foundation and play its effective role.
Chapter 2: Talking about Self-confidence
What is confidence? Self-confidence is a psychological state in which you believe that your wishes or ideals can be realized. In real life, some people think that self-confidence is conceit and contempt for everything, so self-confidence is not good. But I don't agree with this view. I think confidence is good.
In our study or career climbing, we always have to cross the steep mountains and the vast sea, and self-confidence is to climb the ladder to cross the water.
People, only with self-confidence, can constantly strive for self-improvement and make people work hard for their own wishes or ideals. Only self-confidence can make people maintain the belief of winning in a difficult career and have the courage to climb the peak of science. People, if they lack the confidence to succeed in their careers, the ships on the road to success will run aground on the beach and will never be able to support the great ship of success.
In real life, self-confidence is the god of strength, which can make the weak stronger and the strong stronger. Madame Curie, the discoverer of radium, dressed in overalls full of dust and oil, turned over the ore and stirred the smelting pot, looking for traces of radium from the mountains of uranium asphalt. The conditions are very difficult, but she is confident and firm. After her success, she said to her friends, "No matter what you do, you must have perseverance, especially confidence." It can be seen that success in career is contributed by many factors, but self-confidence is an essential feature of success.
Of course, self-confidence is restricted by social conditions. It is necessary to understand the needs of society, what contribution you can make to society, and correctly estimate your abilities. If a person can't even draw drawings, but shouts to everyone, "I am a famous engineer in modern times, and I can build many tall buildings for the society." Isn't this arrogance and boasting?
The foundation of self-confidence should be rich knowledge and scientific attitude, not barbarism and arrogance. Not afraid to expose your stupidity and dare to face up to your shortcomings is a sign of strong self-confidence, and the hope of success begins here.
Chapter 3: Talking about Self-confidence
In this world, people always feel depressed, lose self-confidence and fall into emptiness, loss and fear because of some reasons and setbacks.
Then how can we get out of the shadow of this bad mood and rebuild our confidence?
Very simple, the next step is wide, and the mood can be adjusted by itself.
It's no use regretting and thinking about an irreparable mistake. Give up, get over it and start over. When you take a new step, people will admire your perseverance. When you make achievements, people will give you admiring eyes, and you will regain your dignity and self-confidence. For example, in junior high school, because you hurt someone, you are lost in thought and feel sorry for her, which eventually leads to mental trauma and a decline in your grades. At this time, regret and pessimism are useless, and they will only torture themselves more, wondering why God is unfair: I will always be injured. In fact, those are unnecessary! If you can't think clearly, don't think at all. Maybe this will help you get rid of the pain.
For the weakness that cannot be changed, don't force change, take a step back, admit the reality and let nature take its course. You know, there are people outside and there will be a day behind, which is more than enough. Compare your own shortcomings with the advantages of others, and the more you compare, the more depressed you are and the more inferior you are; Compare your strengths with others' weaknesses, and compare your strengths with others' weaknesses. The stronger you are, the more confident you are. For example, you may be physically weak and not as powerful as a policeman, but you are smart and can speak and write. Aren't you much better than those who can't express words and have skewed fonts? I may not be top-notch in studying culture, but I am strong, honest, brave and hardworking, which many people can't match! Isn't it more confident to think about it? In short, I was born to be useful, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and survive the fittest. Everyone can succeed as long as I have a clear goal and work hard.
Don't be impatient with the goal you are pursuing, just think about it overnight, succeed in one fell swoop, eat your meal bite by bite and walk step by step. According to the actual situation, divide your goal into several stages, from easy to difficult, from small to large. Step by step towards the established goal. In this way, every time you achieve a phased result, you will see the results of your own efforts, you will have the joy of success, your self-confidence will be established unconsciously, and your goal will be realized in steady progress.
Look on the bright side of everything. Drill less dark. Negative dead end. For example, you are in a confused state now. I don't concentrate in class, the teacher can't listen, I can't remember what I should remember, I can't sleep well all night, and I feel nervous and disharmonious with my classmates. These lead to tension and depression. You are in a hurry. What should I do? Of course, you want to clear the dark clouds and see the sunny day again, and Lu' an is another village, but how is this possible? There is always a process for things to change. How can it be as magical and fast as magic? Get rid of these unrealistic fantasies ... With a positive attitude to understand the problem, consider the problem, see progress, see the light and see the beauty, your confidence will be more and more sufficient, your mood will be better and better, and things will naturally get better faster.
In short, as long as you work hard, things will definitely develop in a good direction and life will be bright.
Chapter 4: Talking about Self-confidence
Life is a struggle, sometimes smooth sailing, sometimes rough and cruel, and no one can predict his own fate. If he wants to move forward and succeed, confidence is indispensable.
Only by believing in yourself can you realize your dream. At the same time, life is like a steep mountain. Only when we climb up with confidence can we have a panoramic view of the infinite scenery.
Self-confidence is the secret of success, even the facts may change. Confidence is a kind of power, an existing, precious and extremely powerful power. With it, we can do some earth-shattering things.
Madame Curie once said: "We should have perseverance, especially confidence. We must believe that we have enough ability to do one thing, no matter how much it costs. " Madame Curie said so and did the same. She has always believed in radium. In order to prove the existence of radium to the world, she used to wear dusty clothes all day and look for traces of radium from pitchblende mines. Despite the difficult conditions and numerous failures, she never wavered in her confidence. With this, she finally succeeded.
Self-confidence is necessary for people. One can't do everything smoothly. No matter what difficulties we encounter, we should try our best to overcome them and stand proudly like fearless pine trees!
Self-confidence is a kind of courage and a strong perseverance. With this power, we can open up our own life path and paint a clear and colorful world.
American inventor Morse used to be a painter, but later he became interested in electromagnetism. When he decided to develop the telegraph, he was laughed at by many people, but with super perseverance, he finally succeeded six years later.
Self-confidence is the basic point of success. It was a fiery sun, which made me feel its warmth. It is a pearl in my heart. When I use it, it will glow. It is a beacon light that guides me to cross the difficult threshold.
We should also have confidence in our study, so that we can overcome difficulties and make continuous progress in our academic performance. Otherwise, when we encounter difficulties, we will be depressed, but this confidence is based on mastering rich knowledge and down-to-earth efforts.
Chapter 5: Talking about Self-confidence
Facing the difficulties brought by the international financial crisis, Premier Wen put forward an important conclusion that "confidence is more important than gold". But the author's thinking is: Why? Under the background of Premier Wen at that time, we have to say that only confidence can overcome the financial crisis. But what is confidence? Or why is self-confidence so amazing? Baidu Encyclopedia's explanation of confidence is that a person's firmness in his own beliefs can include religious beliefs and non-religious beliefs. Self-confidence is the belief and proof of what has not been seen, which includes two levels: believing and daring to trust yourself completely. So generally speaking, confidence belongs to a higher intelligent creature, because confidence is a firm belief in what may happen in the future.
Take human development as an example. In the initial stage of hunting and picking, the role of confidence is not significant. In the animal husbandry stage, the role of confidence is not obvious. After all, the breeding of sheep and cattle is just around the corner. But the significance of confidence in the farming era has been extraordinary, because you have to buy the food in your mouth into the soil, and you can't see the results until the first half of the year. This requires not only the promotion of great men, but also the knowledge of the whole nation. However, farming civilization cannot be formed categorically. Later, commerce appeared, barter was not important, and the emergence of money was actually a revolution of confidence. If the group has no confidence in the same exchange currency, then commodity circulation and business revolution will be out of the question. The important means to promote the development of modern human economy is finance, and the essence of finance is to finance the present by overdrawing the future currency, so its essence is the process of monetizing confidence. The so-called economic crisis and stock market crash are all manifestations of the collapse of confidence in the whole society. This is Premier Wen's theory that "confidence is more important than gold".
The role of confidence in economic theory has been analyzed, so what is the role of confidence in the field of social management? At this time, confidence has evolved into a series of nouns, such as hope, dream, strategy, planning, goal and so on. In short, confidence is a prediction of the future consequences of citizens' current behavior. Trust in social management includes citizens' trust in government and policies, so it is an important measure of social stability and development.
Since confidence plays such an important role in economic development and social management, how can a country, an organization and a department establish their own confidence system? This system should consist of three parts: first, the fulfillment of previous commitments; Second, whether the steps and methods leading to hope conform to people's past experience; The third is whether the pie in the future is attractive enough. Fulfilling previous commitments is the most important step in building a confidence system. No matter how high the IQ of anyone is, the basis for his judgment of the future will always come from the past. Remember when studying the dispute over Cao Gui, Cao Gui asked Duke Lu why he was fighting? Lu Gong's answer is: "Food and clothing are sufficient, and if you dare to specialize, you will divide people." Cao Gui replied: "This little kindness cannot be extended to the people, and the people will not obey you." Duke Zhuang said, "I never dare to exaggerate the number of pigs, sheep, jade articles, silks, etc. for sacrifice. I must tell God the truth." Cao Gui said: "Mix's credit cannot be trusted by the gods, and the gods will not bless you." . "ZhuangGong said," even if you can't see all the lawsuits in Mix, I must also be based on facts. "Yes, he said," Loyalty belongs to you. You can fight a war. Please pay attention to this war. "Although the first two points of Lu Gong's answer did not satisfy Cao Gui, its essence contained the fact of winning the trust of the people and God in the past, especially the third point, which realized the most important value of a government and brought hope to the people with the fairness and justice of the government. This defeated the powerful state of Qi. The second step of establishing trust system belongs to the operation step in management, and its basic element is pragmatism. It's like telling everyone that you want to make a cake. You must plan how to find money to buy noodles, when to make noodles and where to make pancakes. If you don't have these measures, but tell everyone that your cake is not made of flour, you can have a bite and the whole family is not hungry, then only ghosts will believe it! The third point is how attractive the pie is, that is, how many attractive factors it contains. It's like when everyone has eaten the cake above, the pie in the future will at least have meat to fill, but no one wants to expect another one.
The author explains why confidence is so important, and establishing a confidence system can be used as a management tool. However, if we simply equate confidence with hope and think that it is painting cakes to satisfy hunger, then the price of using hope in this way is to get the despair of others quickly. The author especially emphasizes that the construction of social credit system depends on the "sincerity" of the government in the past, and people will have "trust" in the future.