Gain and loss are known by people.

The most common mistake people make is to trust themselves too much and not listen to other people's opinions. There are two reasons: first, I am the only one at work, and second, I only see what I can and want to see.

Most emperors in ancient times were unbelievably cruel to loyal ministers. Even a wise emperor, Emperor Taizong, sometimes hated Wei Zhi and gnashed his teeth.

What about us ordinary people? On hearing objections, people will blush and get angry with each other. On the other hand, they were angry, retorted and even punched and kicked each other, from "fighting with words" to "fighting with weapons".

No wonder I want to hear opinions, but I can only hear hymns.

China has a saying that "three heads are better than one, make a Zhuge Liang". How popular and profound! Even if one has three heads and six arms, he can't conquer the world. One's ability is limited, one's thought is limited, and one's creation is limited.

When talking about the "mass line", Comrade Mao Zedong once said a thought-provoking sentence: "The wisdom of the masses is infinite."

Praise is not an opinion, and echo is of little value. The most useful thing is to point out the wrong views. The decision-makers of the Three Gorges Project told reporters a simple and profound sentence: "For the construction of the Three Gorges Project, the most valuable thing is the opinions of opponents."

Many foreign entrepreneurs, in order to let employees speak freely, often organize some "gossip meetings" to encourage everyone to "talk nonsense" and find the spark of thinking. They stipulate that no matter who comes up with an idea, no matter how absurd or incredible, everyone must applaud and shout "Very good, very good".

In order to listen to opinions, they have good intentions!

We should look in the mirror every day to see if we are dressed properly and if there is dust on our faces. So, how do we find the moral dust? How can I find my own ideological deficiency? How to avoid our creative mistakes? Not difficult. Others are the best mirrors.

You can learn from others.

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This topic is highly speculative. In the face of all kinds of statements, do I believe what others say or myself? In fact, the topic tells us that "believe in yourself and listen to other people's opinions" also includes other viewpoints. If you want to listen to others' correct comments on yourself, adjust and improve yourself, such as "Emperor Taizong takes Wei Zhi as a mirror". It's easy to turn a blind eye if you don't listen to others' correct comments. For example, "Zhou Liwang created two famous idioms for China culture during his administration, one is' Keep your eyes on the road' and the other is' Nothing is better than preventing Sichuan'." Listening to other people's false statements is easy to mislead people and the country, such as "Tang Xuanzong favored Yang Guifei in his later years and listened to Yang". Don't care too much about other people's wrong comments, and so on. When designing, we must consider two aspects "others' evaluation and our own performance" to write. Be careful not to be too absolute when making arguments, but to think dialectically. Regarding "believing in yourself" and "listening to opinions", we can't completely deny the former just because we emphasize the former, nor can we completely deny the former just because we emphasize the latter. You can write an argumentative essay full of literary talent and philosophy, or you can make up stories to reflect philosophy.