A world without complaints is a successful book. It changed the minds of a large number of people with concise words and vivid examples. More importantly, its "Purple Bracelet Movement" made people complain less in practice, effectively controlled "hearing pollution" and made the world a better place.
Complaining is a bit complicated, after all, a group of people are constantly updating and upgrading every day. Generally speaking, complaining can be divided into four stages: unconscious incompetence, conscious incompetence, conscious competence and unconscious competence. When I get up in the morning, I will mutter, "Why don't you let me sleep a little longer!" "When I got home in the morning, I couldn't help sighing" boring ". When eating, I will "blame" my mother's food for not liking me. When I do my homework, I think it's too complicated ... At the end of the day, complaints start from my mouth and reflect back when I meet the cold and pale wall. In this way, a chain reaction happened, quietly, not easy to be found. If you complain, you will encounter more things you want to complain about.
Most people, like me, are still in the first stage of "unconscious incompetence". What does this mean? In other words, we haven't realized our incompetence and don't know how many times we have to complain a day. All objects have inertia, and this law is really widely used. If you count carefully, you will complain unconsciously at least ten times a day. Resetting the mental hard disk is difficult, but it is not impossible. There are so many people who actively respond to the "Purple Bracelet Movement", don't they just want to change? There are also many successful ones. According to statistics, it takes 4-8 months to successfully complete this game. This is neither short nor long, and it will make you reach the fourth stage of "conscious incompetence" smoothly.
Complaining is a natural preset reaction of human beings without resistance, which is written in the book. Complaining is like bad breath Only in others can we be keenly aware, but we are unconscious. Complaining is like catching a cold. It's contagious. When a group of friends are happily talking about an interesting and positive topic, the authorities will not find those subtle changes. Over time, it will become a complaining contest.
Complaints should not happen often. If we are honest with ourselves, there are few things we can complain about.