If you are not proud, you are proud, not arrogant. Author: Zhuge Liang
Smoke, forget the past, and be selfless at heart. Author: Tao Zhu
Only for plain people, life is empty and plain. Author: Chernyshevski
Night is the prelude to day. Author: Guo Xiaochuan
People who are full of joy and fighting spirit will always welcome lightning and sunshine with joy. Author: Huxley
When you are angry, keep your mouth shut so as not to increase your anger. -Socrates
Good temper is the best dress a person can wear in social activities. Dodd
No matter how angry you are, don't do something irreversible. bacon
We should be careful not to hurt other comrades with words, but when others hurt ourselves with words, we should also be able to bear it. Liu Shaoqi
People who have a modest, cheerful and sincere attitude and a patient spirit are very lucky. Seneca
The ocean is the widest on land, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky.
Tolerance contains the principle of being a man. Without tolerance, life is on thin ice. Son, if virtue can be chosen, please pick out tolerance first!
Franklin
Tolerance is not only a kind of tolerance, civilization and mind, but also a realm of life. Forgiving others means forgiving yourself, and at the same time creating a better life.
Emerson
Tolerance is a kind of light of love, a supreme blessing, a relief for others and a good street for oneself. How many people can a person's mind hold in order to win?
A tolerant story
Zi Gong, a student of Confucius, once asked Confucius, "Teacher, is there a sentence that can be used as a principle of being a man?" Confucius said, "This is probably forgiveness." "Forgiveness", in today's words, is tolerance.
A prime minister is big-minded-broad-minded/broad-minded/magnanimous.
Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".
Offer a birch and ask for whipping ―― Humble and sincere apology.
Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".
Renyi Hu tong
Dong was a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, and was an official in Beijing during the Ming Dynasty. One day, he received a letter from home saying that his house was built to lay a foundation, and he had a quarrel with his neighbor, hoping that he could use his power to solve the matter. Dong immediately wrote a book after reading it, saying, "A thousand miles to send books is just for the wall, and I can't help laughing and breaking my heart;" You are very kind to me and close to me. Why not give up both feet? "After the family saw it, they felt that Dong made sense. When building a house, they voluntarily gave up a few feet of land. Neighbors saw Dong Jia's behavior and felt something, so they followed suit. As a result, the two houses were eight feet wide, and after the houses were built, there was an alley called Renyi Hutong.
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Liszt accepts students
There is a girl who is going to give a concert. The poster says that she is a student of Liszt. Liszt appeared in front of the girl the day before the performance. The girl was frightened and sobbed, claiming that she had no livelihood and asking for forgiveness. Liszt asked her to give him her bullet and give him some advice. Finally, she said brightly: "Come on stage and act boldly. You are my student now. You can announce to the theater manager that the teacher will play the last program of the party for the students. " Liszt played the last song at the concert.
Legend of Liuchi Lane
During the reign of Emperor Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, Zhang, a native of Tongcheng, went to Wenhua Hall as a university student and a minister of rites. The neighbor is another big family in Tongcheng, and the owner is Ye Shilang of the same dynasty. The two families had an argument over the courtyard wall. Mrs Zhang wrote a book for Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying was deeply worried after reading the letter. She replied to the old lady, "A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall, so what's the harm if it makes people three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "So, Mrs. Zhang told the family to stand back three feet and build a wall. Ye Fu was so moved that he ordered his family to move the courtyard wall back three feet. Since then, Zhang and Ye's two governments have eliminated barriers and become family friends.
Peng measures magnanimity.
More than 30 people, including Peng, commander-in-chief of the Third Army of the Red Army, inspected the terrain ahead, and the messenger shouted out of the way while holding the red flag. Only one soldier sat still. Peng shouted a few words when he saw someone in the way. The soldier stood up and gave General Peng two punches. Mr. Peng told him to hurry. Later, the messenger tied up the soldiers and went to see General Peng. Manager Peng immediately told him to go back to the Great Xia, knowing that he was in trouble. He's scared. He was deeply moved to see Peng Zong's indifference. Later, he said to everyone, "The commander-in-chief is really generous!"
Jesus: You have heard that you should love your neighbor and hate your enemy. It's just that I told you to love your enemies. To force your prayers.
It is also a kind of tolerance for Christianity to break through the Jewish law of "an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth"
The philosopher Kant said, "Being angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others." The elegant Kant probably won't have a storm, and his mood will always be clear. If others make mistakes, we will be furious, so it is our own fault.
Modern Dale Carnegie does not advocate tit-for-tat. He said, "There is only one simple way to really hate others, and that is to give full play to their strengths." Hating each other and being cruel will only make you exhausted Carnegie's "hate" is another form of "tolerance". Hating others is not gnashing your teeth.
No matter how the wolf plays the role of "kind grandmother" and vows to be a vegetarian from now on, it is difficult to change the nature of eating sheep, but if it is completely killed, sheep are prone to plague; Fighting between two tigers is inevitable, but once the hero is lonely, he doesn't need to be locked in the fence, and even the fierce tiger will degenerate into a sick cat. Treating your opponent as a friend is a higher level of tolerance.
President Lincoln has always been known for tolerating political opponents, which finally caused dissatisfaction among a member of Congress. The congressman said, "You shouldn't try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become my friends, am I not destroying my enemies?" Yes, a more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend.
Who has made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project? Pan, a famous water conservancy engineer, said in response to a question from a foreign reporter: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges Project have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." The existence of opponents can keep a clear head and do things more comprehensively. It can inspire your courage to accept challenges and generate the potential to show your life. This is not simple tolerance, but sharpening your will and sharpening your life edge.
Although I don't agree with you, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak. As many people know, this sentence contains the tolerant democratic core. Bad words in June hurt people. If you have a tolerant heart, use it as an air conditioner to cool down in hot summer.
Tolerance is a kind of beauty. Only when the deep sky tolerates the temporary ravages of lightning storms can it be clear. The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are raging for a while; The vast forest temporarily endured the law of the jungle and was lush. A river can be great only if it doesn't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, and it is the rivers and lakes that accommodate all rivers and lakes.
When dealing with friends, tolerance is the gold for Guan Zhong. He doesn't care about Guan Zhong's selfishness and understands Guan Zhong's fear of death. He also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss.
Treating people with tolerance is the torch of Emperor Guangwu burning books to defect to the enemy. When Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang and invaded Handan, he found many letters that flattered Wang Lang, insulted Liu Xiu and even planned to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and ignored the opposition of all ministers. He let bygones be bygones, turned enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength and finally became emperor. The fire was put out.
You should tolerate other people's different opinions, exclude or even frame them, because you know that what scares your opponent is your strength. You should also know that grass growing in crevices can withstand wind and rain best. Cynicism can just "cold compress" your fiery mind; The little shoes given to you may make you jump out of the wonderful "ballet" on the stage; A blow to you, like a barbell in an athlete's hand, will only increase your explosive power. Well-meaning words are a double-edged sword, and eventually they cut themselves; Answer blows with blows can only show that your "teeth" are falling off; Blood boiling is the most likely cause of "hypertension". "One foot crushed the violet, but it left a fragrance on the heel, and that is forgiveness." andrew matheus said such an inspiring sentence in The Heart of Tolerance.
Forgiveness is fierce, fierceness is broad, and politics is harmonious.
The will is as strong as iron and the measure is as big as the sea.
Only by respecting others can people be respected.
People who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others. -(Russia) Turgenev
A great man has two hearts: a bleeding heart and a tolerant heart. -(Lebanese) Ji Bolun
Those who love others will always love others; People who respect others will always respect others. -"Mencius Li Lou"
The famous writer Long Fang once quoted the definition of tolerance in the Encyclopedia Britannica in his masterpiece Tolerance: Tolerance refers to allowing others to act or judge freely; Patiently and without prejudice tolerate opinions that are inconsistent with one's own or accepted views. China Modern Chinese Dictionary explains tolerance as: magnanimous, unconcerned and not pursued.
1. Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. Be more tolerant of others, in fact, our life will have a little more space. On the road of life with friends, there will be care and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; Life with friends will be less stormy and more warm and sunny. In fact, tolerance is always sunny.
2. Tolerance means forgetting. Everyone has pain and scars. If you open them at will, you will create new ones. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuse, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget and life will be sunny and happy.
3. tolerance means not caring, even if things have passed. Everyone makes mistakes. If you cling to their past mistakes, you will form an ideological burden, distrust, resentment and reluctance, which will limit your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. The person who can bear betrayal is the strongest person, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong mind. With majesty, he can give people confidence and motivation, so he can prevent or reduce betrayal.
4. Tolerance is chic. "There are poplars everywhere, and every family has Chang 'an Road. "Being generous to others and tolerant of criticism is the way to success in your career and happiness in your family. Everything is haggle over every ounce, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and live a tired life. It is rare to go there once in the world, and chic is the most important thing.
Tolerance is a kind of strength, not weakness. Tolerance should retreat to advance and actively defend. The concession embodied in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in your own hands. Helplessness and necessity are not tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings.
6. Tolerance means that when others disagree with your point of view, don't force it. From a psychological point of view, any idea has its origin. Any motive has certain incentives. Only by knowing the root of the other party's thoughts and finding the basis of their own opinions can we put ourselves in the other party's shoes and put forward a plan that is more in line with the other party's psychology and accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We should respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence between them, and do a good job of sublation.
7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstanding from friends, too many arguments and "counter-attacks" are really not enough. Calm, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe this famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain that grows in thorns." If we can take a step back, the world will naturally be broad.
8. Tolerance also requires skill. Giving opportunities is not connivance, nor is it exempting the other party from responsibilities. Everyone needs to be responsible for their actions; Everyone has to bear the consequences. Otherwise, the other party will repeatedly violate the prohibition (mistake) and show weakness.
9. The motto about tolerance:
Violet left its fragrance there and squashed its ankle. This is forgiveness. "-Mark Twain
The way of a gentleman is loyalty and forgiveness. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to me, and I want to do it without others. (Analects of Confucius)
Taishan does not let the soil, so it can become big; Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can become deep. (Reese)
"Tolerance is like a drizzle in the sky, nourishing the earth. It blesses the tolerant and the tolerated. -a line from Shakespeare's famous play The Merchant of Venice
Tolerance is the only test of civilization (asking for help)
The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (william james)
Generosity is the greatest thing (Irving)
● There are many occasions in life: what you intend to achieve with resentment, what you can achieve through forgiveness, and what you can achieve through forgiveness. -(Sidney Smith)
Forgive sincerely, and then forget it (UK)
Forgiveness is human and forgetting is sacred (James Glenn)
● Tolerant people are the most impatient, and tolerant people are the most intolerant (bernays)
The noblest revenge is forgiveness (Hugo)
● People who have not tolerated others are not worthy of being tolerated by others. But who can say that there is no need for tolerance? (Turgenev)
God of justice, tolerance is our most perfect behavior (Wordsworth)
Only brave people know tolerance; Cowards will never tolerate it. It's not in his nature (Stern)
Tolerance is either good or bad for people (Burke)
● Never approach a person who hurts others' teeth but opposes revenge and advocates tolerance-(Lu Xun)
● Want to be warm and smooth, don't want to observe, and cut it clearly.
● Let a hundred flowers blossom and a hundred schools of thought contend
● Strictness is love, looseness is harm, and it will deteriorate if you are not careful.
● Pet is harmful, and strictness is love.
● Cultivating you is to love you, and spoiling you is to harm you.
Love is deep, but responsibility is severe (France)
● The family is not strict to recruit thieves, and people are not strict to recruit risks.
● Poor teaching leads to teachers' laziness.
● If you want to be a party, the rules must be strict.
Gentlemen love virtue, while villains love tolerance.
● Be lenient with others and be strict with others.
● Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others.
Forgive others with affection and reason with law.
Be hard on yourself and be nice to others.
Treat others with spring breeze and treat yourself with cold wind.
● Be generous to others and humble to yourself; The responsibility should be thick and the responsible person should be thin.
● Blame yourself with the heart of others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself.
Try to forgive others, but never forgive yourself (Silas)
When you have to let go, you must let go, you must forgive and forgive.
● People who are not as good as themselves cannot be sick (Xue Mingxuan)
People should be tolerant of each other: everyone has weaknesses, and in his weakest aspect, everyone can be cut and mashed (Keats)
In order to live in harmony with all men and women, we must allow everyone to keep their individuality (Schopenhauer)
Low width and fierce, fierce and wide, wide and fierce combination.