It is happiness to have friends, and it is happiness to be happy with friends. It is painful and lonely to lose friends and stay away from them. Loyal friends bring us stability and trust, and we can send him a distress signal at any time.
The relationship between people lies in mutual management, mutual trust and honesty, so as to gain the trust of others. To exchange an open mind for a friend who helps you wholeheartedly is to exchange sincerity for sincerity.
The opposition of friends often stems from the conflict of interests. If you lose your sincerity to your friends in the face of interests, you will abandon more precious friendships. In the history of China and foreign countries, in life and work, from time to time, someone will step on a friend's shoulder, or step on a friend's foot, thinking that they have cleared the obstacles on the way forward and get carried away.
In the history of China, it is well known that Pang Juan and Sun Bin both studied under Guiguzi. Pang Juan vowed to take good care of Sun Bin before inviting his senior brother Sun Bin out of the mountain, otherwise, Sun Bin was greatly moved. Sun Bin's outstanding talent is beyond Pang Juan's reach. He is thoughtful and well versed in the art of war. Pang Juan was narrow-minded, pursued power vigorously, and was greedy for money for his own purposes. He killed his friend Sun Bin and made Sun Bin suffer inhuman torture. Finally, he reached the peak of his career and became the commander-in-chief of Wei, arrogant and domineering. Sun Bin went through all kinds of hardships, escaped with the help of Tian Ji, and was used by Qi, which enabled him to display his military talents. Later, a military classic was staged to save Zhao from Wei and defeat Maling Island. Pang Juan finally went to be spurned by everyone. His pursuit of career and future is understandable, but on the issue of friends, he has made an intolerable move. If he can be honest with his friends, he will get the opposite result, which may produce a much-told story.
As friends and classmates, Zhang Yi and Su Qin, like Pang Juan and Sun Bin, have opposite strategies. Su Qin extended a warm hand in order to give Zhang Yi a chance to show his talents. Help Zhang Yi get rid of low-level desires, stimulate and inspire Zhang Yi's fighting spirit in his own unique way, give up his ambition for small profits, constantly encourage him to work hard, hint at Zhang Yi's development direction and strategy, and constantly take pains to give powerful help secretly. Pulling Zhang Yi out of the trough of life has created a platform for each other to display their talents, so that their friends' lives can shine brilliantly and get on the right track of life, thus making contributions. In the end, they all became outstanding representatives of military strategists in the history of China, reaching the peak of their lives and shining brilliantly in history.
Bai Min and Hobaki are good friends. Bai Minzhong was born in a famous family, and He Baji was born in humble poverty. Both of them went to Chang 'an to take the imperial examination. Wang Qi is the examiner, and Wang Qi knows Bai Min's background. He knows that Bai Min's ability and political integrity are top grade, and he appreciates it. He intends to take Bai Min as the top scholar, but he is too close to Bai Min's neutral and poor Hobaki. He hesitated a little, so he privately sent someone to suggest that as long as Bai Min cut off contacts with Hobaki, the position of the top scholar in Bai Min would be determined. Bai Minzhong was unmoved and said, "What is the champion? What's so strange about it? You can't help without friends. " Someone sent Bai Minzhong's words back to Wang Qi. He reversed his original intention and went to Hobaki with Bai Minzhong. Bai Min's spirit of asking his friends not to become champions influenced Wang Qi's heart, which was full of secular prejudice.
Loyalty to friends brings stability and trust. Friends are a kind of fate, cherish the fate, loyalty to friends is the defense of friendship, and it is paving the highway of life for yourself. Betraying a friend is a blasphemy against friendship, a defilement of emotion and a trampling on loyalty. It is rare to have a bosom friend in life. If you get friendship, you can become a spiritual aristocrat, and loyalty is the symbol of friendship. Loyalty to a friend is loyalty to oneself, in exchange for a friend's heartfelt return to himself.