Be tolerant of others: 1
What is kindness? You can know whether to be friendly or tolerant by looking it up in the dictionary, and learn to be kind to others. Then talk about tolerance. Tolerance is a kind of character cultivation of understanding, understanding and respecting others. Tolerance is an open-minded, positive and healthy attitude towards life. Being kind to others means forgiving others and their mistakes. Of course, this forgiveness is not without principles.
Then why should we be nice to others? What are the advantages of doing so? Turgenev said: people who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others. Who can say that they don't deserve it and don't need tolerance? It can be seen that tolerating others is tolerating yourself! Let me tell a story about the benefits of being kind to others.
In the Spring and Autumn Period and the Song Dynasty, Zi Han was a generous man. His neighbor in the south is a shoemaker, and his wall is twisted into his hall. Zi Han originally wanted him to move. However, this family has been a shoemaker here for many years. Once they move out, the old customers who buy shoes can't find a new address, and the shoemaker's family can't live. Zi Han can't stand it, so he has to grieve himself. Zi Han's west neighbor has a high terrain, and the accumulated water keeps flowing through his house, which is both wet and ugly. The boy servant was wronged, and Zi Han didn't care. Zi Han's gentleman tolerance is widely circulated, and his junior middle school composition encyclopedia "Learn to be kind to others". Chu wanted to attack the Song Dynasty. When he heard Zi Han's generosity, he gave up the idea.
Tolerance can conquer people's hearts and gain others' respect and love. This is the advantage of being kind to others. It is because of Zi Han's tolerance and kindness that a war was quelled, which shows how powerful it is to be kind to others!
Maybe you will ask now, what should we do? Let's talk about it below. To be kind to others, we must first be tolerant, forgive others' mistakes, not haggle over every ounce, understand others' difficulties and care more about others. Secondly, treat others as yourself, and care for others as you care for yourself and protect yourself. Give more help and care to others and less indifference. I think even indifferent people will be tempted. I think it will be very good to do so.
Everyone wants others to be kind to themselves, not only you but also others, so the best way is to be kind to others first, and then to others. May each of us be treated well by others, then how beautiful the world will be!
Tolerance of others: Chapter 2
To be a tolerant person, tolerance is a virtue. However, tolerance has principles. It's not that right and wrong are indistinguishable, love and hate are unclear, and it's not indiscriminate and insensitive. Therefore, in principle, we must never compromise or give in. A tolerant heart is conducive to our physical and mental happiness. A narrow-minded and selfish person. All he thinks about is his own interests and wealth. He always thinks that his psychological pressure will gradually increase, become withdrawn and numb, and have no rest for a moment. Will cause unnecessary trouble. And an open-minded, tolerant and considerate person, his mood is always happy and relaxed. Will not lose happiness because of "small" interests.
A tolerant heart is conducive to promoting our interpersonal relationship. When others accidentally offend themselves, forgive others and be tolerant. Only in this way can others realize their mistakes, feel sorry and appreciate your character. Your mood will also change from worry to pleasure, and your interpersonal relationship will gradually become better and more intimate. A tolerant heart is conducive to growth and success. The more capable people are. He must have a tolerant heart. Tolerance is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation since ancient times. On the way of growing up, if you encounter persecution from people with "wrong ideas", you should have a tolerant heart to tolerate him and warn him, which is also to lay the foundation for your own growth. A tolerant heart is conducive to a happy life. Living together as a family means mutual trust and tolerance. Without one in life, there will be a lot of smoke and no peace. However, if the family can understand and tolerate each other, things will not be so bad. Tolerance is the guarantee and condition of a happy life. Having a tolerant heart is a rare and precious spirit and psychology.
As the saying goes, "Be patient and calm; If we can all tolerate each other and care about each other, it will also promote the development of our motherland. To be a tolerant person, the key is to tolerate selfishness and others with your heart. Only in this way can we do our best regardless of worldly self-interest.
Tolerance of others: Chapter 3
Tolerance moistens the earth like a drizzle in the sky. It blesses the tolerant and the tolerated. We should learn to be tolerant of others.
I remember once, the teacher taught us the text "Care for Your Heart" written by Jiang Guihua. Something like this: "I" accompanied my mother to the hospital for infusion. A nurse stuck a bright needle in her mother's blood vessel. My mother not only didn't talk about her, but also encouraged the nurses. As a result, the third needle succeeded. After the teacher finished writing the text, he also told us that if two people have conflicts, they should first understand and tolerate others. If you didn't think that he didn't mean it, the consequences would be very serious if you scolded him a few words. So everyone should learn to tolerate others.
What will change human nature is tolerance. When playing football, if you accidentally kick someone else's football into your newly bought pants, don't yell at him, but tell him to be careful next time. This is also tolerance. When I bought spicy kebabs, I waited for a few minutes because too many people bought them. Just as you were about to buy it, a child came in from the outside. Not only did you not say anything about him, but you also gave him a position first. This is also tolerance. If everyone can learn to tolerate others, then you will naturally have more friends. If everyone does not tolerate others and scolds others, the contradiction between the two people will become bigger and the consequences will be more serious.
Tolerance, like a light rain, gives people a refreshing and passionate feeling. Even if the earth is polluted, it will still be scattered all over the earth. Let tolerance fill our lives!
Tolerance of others: Chapter 4
Tolerance is a virtue, a cultivation, a knowledge and a bridge for people to live in peace. ...
I remember when I was in the second grade, one afternoon after class, Zhang Tiantong asked me to get his ruler because he forgot to bring it. After I lent it to him, something unexpected happened: he broke the ruler as soon as I lent it to him. When he told me what happened, I was so angry that I really wanted to give him a good beating. Just as the bell rang, I suppressed my anger. Then, after this class, I told the teacher about it. In class, the teacher told Zhang Tiantong to hand in my ruler tomorrow. After school, Zhang Tiantong said to me, "Sun Haoran, I'm really sorry that I broke your ruler. I will pay you a new ruler tomorrow. " I said, "What's the use of being sorry? This is the ruler that my mother bought me for five yuan. Why do you want to break it for me? " I said that and left. When I got home, my mother looked at me and asked me what was wrong. I told the whole story. My mother said, "Son, learn to tolerate others." The next day, Zhang Tiantong asked me, "I can't buy a ruler like you." Can you tell me where I bought it? " I said, "You don't have to pay." After hearing this sentence, he quickly said, "Thank you, thank you." I quickly said, "You're welcome." Therefore, we became good friends.
Through this incident, I learned what tolerance is.
Tolerance of others: Chapter 5
Wildflowers are ignored by passers-by, but still fragrant; The flower has withered, but it still wants to be red; Epiphyllum is short-lived, but still amazing; Haitang stayed up late, but still very moved. What makes them commendable? It is tolerance, because they tolerate the indifference of the world to them and remain unchanged, so they are appreciated in colorful poems.
The reason why Buddhas have extraordinary realm is that they can transcend the secular world and be tolerant of others. This is the genius of Buddha. Walking with a person who insults you all the way, you may be disgusted, and you may confront him in the same way, but the Buddha just said to that person, "If someone gives you something and you refuse it, whose gift is it?" The answer is simple. It certainly belongs to the giver. And the Buddha is just telling him that as long as I ignore your insults, it is equivalent to rejecting the gift.
The Buddha tolerated other people's insults and safeguarded his dignity. Maybe this is where the Buddha caused the dust!
Wild flowers are trampled under their feet, but the fragrance is left under their shoes, which is also tolerance. How can it be said that forgiving others is not a virtue? Be kind to yourself, how can you say it's not a harvest?
Coincidentally, Socrates, an ancient philosopher, met a man who hated himself on the road. The man said to him, "I never give way to stupid people." Socrates said calmly, "I am just the opposite." He leaned over to let the man pass. Socrates defended his personality and self-esteem with a tolerant heart. Instead of hitting back at the man with more sarcastic words, he generously said that it was the opposite of me.
Tolerance is a virtue and a charm. Tolerance is not to endure for a while, but not only to forgive others' mistakes, but also to safeguard their own interests. This is true tolerance. Yes, to forgive others is to be kind to yourself.
Because Lin Xiangru tolerated Lian Po's rudeness, he won the peace and prosperity of the country and won people's admiration for him. People saw in him the bearing of "the prime minister can punt in his stomach". As a result, his deeds have been passed down through the ages. Anyone can become a Buddha, Socrates, Lin Xiangru, because we can all learn to tolerate others. Why should we hate others when we can take their mistakes lightly? Why not let yourself and others live in peace of mind? Tolerance is the noblest soul and the most beautiful quality of human beings.
No matter who you are, remember that forgiving others means being kind to yourself. ...