The teacher once asked: How do you get along? The same answer: friends get along with each other, but sincere friendship benefits me. Friendship makes up for each other's shortcomings and increases each other's wisdom and talent. They learn from each other, teach each other, improve each other, encourage each other and be honest with each other. I add color to make myself happier.
With friends, I do things more expensively, but I am not practical.
It is often said that equality will produce contradictions as well as contradictions. If I want to solve them, I will make the contradiction worse. If I want to be contradictory, I will let the same production distance pull the same friendship, which will make friendship a stumbling block. Disperse your own contradictions and reduce your performance.
I remember a long time ago, I witnessed a fear of eating. I washed the dishes, and I saw the hoses competing with each other. I flushed, and then I scolded more than twenty people. Two generations of office teachers made severe criticism, did profound ideological work, apologized to serious workers, and stopped fighting just because of physical injuries. Please remember: how to deal with contradictions is the key.
What should I do if I have the same contradiction? I have some opinions:
, adjust the state
The contradiction between several people is something that causes anger or just tone. The more I think about it, the more angry I get. The contradiction intensified. I advocate: solve contradictions face to face. In Rada, Zhou and even February, it was really worthwhile to ruin two friendships at the beginning of the Cold War.
Second, cold treatment.
As the saying goes, we should first consider where to start, self-reflection, self-reflection, self-awareness and self-desire. Put yourself in the other's shoes, think about comparison, put yourself in the other's shoes, think about the main direction, send out a series of tentative signals, and solve independently can eliminate the mistake of looking for a friend to mediate or a teacher.
Third, remember the advantages.
Always bumping into all kinds of things, it is inevitable to bump into each other. Always look at other shortcomings with a mirror. The Football Association is full of resentment, and it is easy to let go of what it should have. Look at other advantages, praise, and don't remember others, so you can move forward happily and easily.
In addition, if you want to respect others, you must first respect others. I want to have a conflict with my colleagues. I want to get rid of self-prejudice. I should think for myself, not think about it, respect my family, respect my teachers and respect my colleagues. There is no contradiction between colleagues. My friendship is purer.
Tolerance can make me get along and understand, let me connect and unite with each other, and let my campus laugh and laugh everywhere.
Believe that we believe that friendship is long.