With the enrichment of college life, the increase of contact groups, the continuous maturity of psychology and physiology, and the germination of youth, students began to set foot in the field of love. With the change of people's concept and the revision of marriage law, college students' love has become a common phenomenon, which has been recognized by law, and love is also considered by many college students as an indispensable part of college life. The love of college students is like the blooming winter jasmine in a temple. Although it was beautiful, it opened a little early, because the soil in the wild was insufficient and it could not become the mainstream of the temple. It is fragile and withers easily. With the footsteps of youth, love will quietly come to young people. With the maturity of sexual psychology, the desire and pursuit of love will naturally sprout in the hearts of college students. University is the golden age of life. In this season, the bud of youth makes them start to set foot in another field-love. However, what is true love and how college students should examine love from the perspective of marriage law will be the problems that every college student faces. First, the current situation of college students' love 1, the proportion of love is large and low. 2. The way of love has changed from concealment to openness. 3. Pursuing the realistic view of happiness and romanticizing love. 4. Diversified love motives. 5. The survival rate of love is low, and tragedies increase. Second, the causes of college students' love problems have a long history, and some young people have joined together to form a happy family. But at the same time, we find that its negative effects are also very obvious and serious. In any case, we must realize that the phenomenon of college students' love is normal and inevitable, and we don't need to regard it as a scourge. Instead, we should treat it with a normal heart and objectively analyze the reasons. 1, college students' physical and mental development. 2. The need for emotional development. 3. The growth of college students' personality consciousness. 4. The influence of group social psychological factors. 5, social environment, living space. Three. The Legal Exploration of College Students' Love The Ministry of Education issued the "New Regulations on Student Management in Colleges and Universities" (hereinafter referred to as the "new regulations"), which cancelled the original provision that "if a student fails to go through the formalities of dropping out of school and get married, it will be treated as dropping out of school". For college students, marriage in the future is neither prohibited nor encouraged. There are no longer any restrictions on the marriage of college students, and such a "legal blank" embodies the proper meaning of the rule of law. As we all know, the Marriage Law and the Marriage Registration Ordinance do not restrict college students from getting married. As the subordinate law of these two laws, the new regulations naturally cannot conflict with the superior law. In the past, we prohibited college students from getting married. In essence, managers simply regard the management system of colleges and universities as a tool to "govern" people, ignoring the other side of the problem, that is, various management systems formulated by colleges and universities are mainly used to serve people, not to "govern" people. The order of colleges and universities should be formed mainly by protecting rights and stimulating students' consciousness and sense of responsibility. This order is dynamic and tense. At present, many people have expressed various concerns about allowing college students to get married. For example, college students are not yet independent and have no material conditions for marriage; Once college students form a husband-wife relationship, it will bring trouble to school management; The drag of marriage and family will affect college students' study. These views undoubtedly regard college students as minors. In fact, will contemporary college students lose their minds in college and enter the marriage hall early? The answer is obviously no, according to the data of the Ministry of Education, only one in ten thousand students registered to get married in more than 70 colleges and universities that canceled the restrictions on students' marriage. To say the least, after the restrictions on college students' marriage are completely abolished, there is no need to be nervous even if many students register to get married, which has caused great pressure on school management. Because the perfection of rights protection will inevitably lead to the improvement of civil liberties and the difficulty of maintaining order, which is the cost that a society ruled by law must bear. Compared with the consequences of prohibiting students from getting married, which is more important. It can be said that prohibiting students from getting married is undoubtedly the worst choice, because in every field of social management, any order established at the expense of depriving individuals of their freedom and rights lacks basic legitimacy. Although lifting the marriage restriction is not necessarily the best choice, it is definitely the least bad choice. In addition to no longer prohibiting marriage, other changes in the new "Regulations" are also of concern. For example, for the first time, a chapter on "rights and obligations of students" was added, stipulating that "the adjustment of students' majors by schools must be approved by students"; Cancel the stipulation that "the admission qualification shall be reserved during the suspension period, and other colleges and universities shall not be admitted"; Expulsion from school "without academic credentials" was changed to "learning credentials". From these, we can see that the new "Regulations" fully embodies the main line of "right orientation" and points out the direction for the future management reform of colleges and universities: as colleges and universities, their management should keep pace with the times and keep up with the pace of the rule of law, rather than passively waiting for the society to adapt. University management should not always think about how to make it easier for managers to use their power, but should think more about how to make it easier for the managed to safeguard their rights. However, we should be soberly aware that the single-center management structure of power transfer is widely implemented in colleges and universities at present. The operating law of this management structure relies on external rules to achieve internal order, which is not suitable for fully realizing the management concept of "right-based". However, the new "Regulations" pay attention to this problem, because it adds the content that "schools should establish and improve the organizational form of students' participation in democratic management, and support and guarantee students' participation in democratic management in schools according to law". It is suggested that education departments and universities can carry out relevant research and formulate a system to promote the democratization of university management as soon as possible. Conclusion 1. Visible love is a double-edged sword for young people. On the one hand, it helps the psychological development of young people to mature, on the other hand, it also brings various problems and adverse effects. This love blooming in the temple is beautiful, but it is also fragile. A school without love is a bit boring, but love without school is like a seed sown in the desert. Without a solid foundation and content, it will wither sooner or later. When it comes to marriage, students must meet the age and conditions stipulated in the Marriage Law and the Marriage Registration Regulations. There is nothing in the regulations that prohibits college students from getting married. From the perspective of educators, education departments or schools, there is still a difference between recognizing college students' right to get married and advocating marriage. College students are advised not to abuse the right to marry, but falling in love is advocated by most people.