It seems a little far-fetched to prove my point of view with this conclusion, and it is easier to be accused of falling into the social Darwinism. But when you think about it, it's not like this.
We are dialectical materialists and historical materialists, and we look at problems in a historical, developmental and dialectical way. We often say that truth is concrete and relative. As Stalin said: Everything depends on time, place and conditions. We often say that no matter what problems we deal with or what work we do, we should seek truth from facts. Because of people, things, times and places, we should analyze specific problems and treat specific problems. This is the living soul of Marxism. In fact, all these viewpoints contain a truth, that is, we are required to act according to objective laws and adapt to the ever-changing objective environment, so as to develop ourselves better. For us personally, the same is true.
As individuals living on this planet, each of us has different or even quite different specific circumstances in social status, family conditions, physical quality, knowledge, personal ability, life experience, social relations, living environment and so on, which will have such and such effects on our personal survival, development and even all aspects of real life. This determines that each of us needs to find our own position according to the actual situation we are facing, determine the most suitable lifestyle and mode of life, and choose the life path that is most conducive to our survival and development.
People are different, so are families. Life under different circumstances, normal life under normal circumstances and abnormal life under special circumstances will inevitably lead to different survival modes and lifestyles. However, the only difference is their lifestyle and mode. As the essential attribute of human life, there is no fundamental change. For everyone's different choices according to their different interests, hobbies, environment and conditions, others may find it difficult to understand, do not fully agree with them, or even consider them as a substitute, but as long as they do not harm the quality of life of society, others, families and individuals, and even are more conducive to personal physical and mental peace and overall quality improvement, then this is undoubtedly the best choice for their own survival and development.
There is no best in this world, only what suits you is the best!
Being creatures, the lifestyles of different species are quite different; As primates, apes and humans have very different lifestyles; As human beings, the lifestyles of the East and the West are very different. As China people, the rich and the poor have very different lifestyles. But no matter how different, there is only one conclusion: it is the wisest and most correct choice to adapt to the ever-changing objective environment and living conditions and establish a lifestyle and survival mode that conforms to one's own reality and environmental conditions and is suitable for one's own survival and development.
Just like physical exercise, its purpose is to enhance physical fitness, stay away from diseases and achieve the purpose of prolonging life. Under this precondition, some people can climb Mount Everest, some people can run marathons, some people can boxing, Sanda, hiking and swimming, and some people can engage in fierce ball games such as football, basketball and volleyball. However, some people can only engage in peaceful sports, such as walking, jogging, gymnastics and Tai Chi. This is not only influenced by economic conditions and personal interests, personality and hobbies, but also by age, venue, physique, physique, economic strength and environmental conditions. Therefore, everyone can only decide what kind of exercise mode and exercise mode to choose on the premise of his hobbies, the purpose he wants to achieve and all the conditions permit. Although these sports and exercises are strong, weak, high and low, they are not good or bad. In the final analysis, it is just a way to keep fit and prolong life. Although there will be different life experiences, life experiences and fun in the process of sports, the ultimate goal is still to benefit physical and mental health, improve the quality of life and prolong life. Therefore, as long as we can achieve this goal, weigh the pros and cons, comprehensively consider and objectively determine, and realistically choose the fitness method that really suits us, instead of blindly comparing and strengthening beyond our own conditions or environmental restrictions, it is undoubtedly the most rational, wise and correct choice. It can not only achieve the ultimate goal, but also meet the reality of your own conditions in all aspects. This kind of exercise method and mode that suits you is really the most suitable for you personally.
Everything is the same. Anything, including the choice of one's own life path, lifestyle and survival mode, does not need to be forced to be similar to others, or to do things beyond one's reality. Even if this similarity is recognized as the most ideal and normal behavior pattern in the world, it is beyond a person's objective permission, and even brings unnecessary pain and burden, losing the original meaning of life. What suits others may not suit you, and what suits you may not suit others. When determining the choice of related issues, especially major issues in life, we must base ourselves on our own reality, comprehensively consider various variables, and determine our own choices realistically according to the changing environment, conditions and other specific situations and development trends. Remember the story of grandparents carrying donkeys, and don't be influenced by other people's irresponsible specious remarks. Others may just talk casually and be irresponsible, but you have to take full responsibility for the consequences of your choice. Besides, whether it's right or wrong, it's all your responsibility. Therefore, we should live our life in the way that suits us best, make all kinds of life choices that may be crucial to us, and take our own life path in a down-to-earth manner. This is not only responsible for yourself, but also for the family, future generations and others. People should be worthy not only of themselves, but also of their families, children and grandchildren, society and others! This is the key to the problem that each of us must face. Who can take this responsibility for you? Obviously, there is no one but ourselves!
Nothing in this world is the same and the best for everyone. Only what really suits you can be said to be the best! Everyone is like this. In life, we must have a cool head and a clear understanding on this issue.