Whether it's freezing cold and snowy winter or spring with flowers and birds singing, lingering joy spreads around him, attracting friends to take the initiative to approach and share his happiness and happiness. Each of us has this "key to happiness" in our hearts. Many times, we often backfire and give this "key" to others without thinking.
A girl complained, "I am very unhappy because my boyfriend has no time to accompany me." She put the key to happiness in her boyfriend's hand.
A mother said, "My children have poor academic performance and are naughty. The teacher always invites me to school, which makes me very happy! " "She gave the key to the child. The man said with an unbalanced face, "I work hard every day and my boss won't give me a raise." "
The key to happiness is in the boss's hand again. Another busy afternoon, when I was busy, a little girl from our department came crying and said, "I can't do this job." If she is still here, I will leave. "
"I am young and can eat a bowl of rice everywhere." Look, youth is capital, and there are many opportunities to choose from.
I am very happy to see this situation, and I thought to myself: What happened is so serious, so incompatible. To tell the truth, this is the first incident I have encountered since I was promoted to do ideological work directly.
The quality of mediation will directly affect my future work, so I attach great importance to it. I chatted with them separately. It turned out that the two people were incompatible and didn't communicate in time at ordinary times, so contradictions would accumulate after a long time.
Find the crux of the problem, communicate separately, analyze the reasons and find a solution. Modern society is an era of individuality. Young people show their personality more, but don't be too accommodating to others. Uncompromising people will only get angry for no reason, so that virtually they all let others control their emotions.
Under my constant mediation, now the two little girls live in peace, have a harmonious relationship and their work efficiency is improving day by day. Don't worry when you encounter difficulties, you can control your emotions smoothly.
In fact, life is like this, you can be the master of your own mood, even if there are great difficulties. Otherwise, you will pay for it.
When we are inadvertently controlled by others, we feel that we are victims and can do nothing about the status quo. Complaining and anger become our only choice. We began to be dissatisfied with life, and pushed these sins to others, constantly sending a message: "The reason why this situation has caused me pain is all caused by you, and you are responsible for my pain!" We began to pass the buck and blame the people around us, just to ask them to give us happiness.
This proves that we can't control ourselves, we can only be pushed around in vain. If you accidentally become such a person, please think about it: will others like you and be close to you? I believe there is only one answer: such people can only be daunting.
A mature person will hold his key tightly. He doesn't expect others to give him happiness, but actively spreads happiness and happiness. A mature person is emotionally stable and responsible for himself and others. Being with him is a pleasant enjoyment without any pressure.
A mature person, his personality charm inspires us invisibly. Where are your keys? Everyone has a "key to happiness" in his heart, but we often give it to others unconsciously.
A lady complained, "I am very unhappy because my husband is often away on business trips." She put the key to happiness in her husband's hand.
A mother said, "My child's disobedience makes me very angry." She gave the child the key to happiness.
A man said, "The boss doesn't appreciate me, so I'm depressed." The key to happiness is in the hands of the boss again.
A mother-in-law said, "My daughter-in-law is not filial. I am really unlucky. " She handed the key to happiness to her daughter-in-law.
A young man came out of the stationery store and said, "That boss's service attitude is really bad, which makes my lungs explode!" " "This key to happiness has been put in the hand of the stationery store. These people all made the same decision, that is, let others control his emotions.
When we allow others to control our emotions, we feel that we are victims. There is nothing we can do about the status quo. Complaining and anger are our only choices.
We began to blame others and sent the message: "You have caused my pain, and you are responsible for my pain!" " ! At this time, we entrust a great responsibility to the people around us, that is, asking them to make us happy. We seem to admit that we can't control ourselves, and we can only be pitifully pushed around.
Such people make others dislike approaching, even daunting. A mature person holds the key to his own happiness. He doesn't expect others to make him happy, but he can bring happiness and happiness to others. He is responsible for his emotional stability. Being with him is a pleasure, not a pressure.
We should always rejoice, pray and thank everything. Where are your keys? Is it in someone else's hands? Go get it back.
2. Writing music on the theme of "the key to happiness" is a benign emotion and a gateway to people's hearts.
If this door is always open, there will be a bright sunshine in our hearts whenever and wherever. It is one of human nature to love freedom without too many constraints and interference.
But I don't know why, on the issue of happiness, people often step into a misunderstanding-give the key to happiness to others. Someone gave this key to the boss: look at the boss's face every day, sunny and cloudy; Someone gave this key to the environment. If the environment is not smooth and rainy, he will be unhappy and unhappy ... this kind of person is always in a passive state in emotional adjustment.
Smooth sailing, all one's wishes come true, and all the best, are just people's good wishes. Being in this situation all your life can be said to be "rare".
Therefore, people who give the key to happiness to others will never laugh all their lives, and they will be a "horse face" all day, making themselves even more unhappy! What is the key to happiness? According to my shallow life experience, I think happiness is plain and ordinary. Happiness itself is a normal state of mind.
Most of the troubles in life are caused by excessive pursuit of fame and fortune. If we are indifferent to fame and fortune, treat money, status and power with a normal heart, and take it lightly, we will be happy inside. Happiness is also calm.
Yu Xiansheng said that calmness is a beautiful state of mind and an optimism after setbacks. In this world, fortunes are unpredictable, and unpleasant things are common. Maybe you will encounter misunderstandings, attacks, setbacks, setbacks, and even natural and man-made disasters.
At this time, such as anxiety, sadness, resentment, regret, hatred, sigh, these will not help, and will only make your mood worse. If you can't get it, do stupid things and let the disaster "add fuel to the fire and make it worse." At this time, if you treat it calmly with a calm mind and believe that "what should come will come and what should go will go", you can't escape or stay.
That's it, the result will be much better. As long as you have a calm heart, you can hold the key to happiness; With the key to happiness, even if the sky is overcast for a while, the blowing wind will appear soon, revealing the blue sky of Lang Lang's mind.
3. The key to happiness is 1000 college entrance examination composition topic. You sit in a small yard and look at the night sky cut by the wall. You said, "I'm not happy. Every star is bright and shining. I'm just an ordinary person." Your eyes are full of melancholy and loneliness. You asked me, "Where can I get my happiness back?"
Don't worry, look at your day's life first. In the morning, you complain about the gloomy rain and wet your sunny mood. At noon, you curse the traffic and pedestrians in the street and block your way home. At night, you complain about this unfair world on the Internet, which makes your already heavy life darker. In the middle of the night, you wrote the sadness that shouldn't belong to you in a disease-free style ... The key to your happiness was thrown to the weather, traffic, society and other people's tragedies, but you always forgot it. It's my turn to hold it in my own hands.
Then, please close your eyes. Do you smell the long chrysanthemum fragrance in the night wind? That is the happiness of Tao Qian's "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely"; Even if the world is overcast and the bad king is in power, it is enough for me to remain innocent. The life of "getting rid of things in the morning and returning to the moon" precipitated his noisy heart into the fragrant soil. He holds the key to happiness in his hand and opens his own Peach Blossom Garden alone. Please listen carefully. Do you hear the blue waves in the night sky? That is the detachment and powerlessness of "painting after dragging one's tail" after abandoning fame and fortune: Born in troubled times, Iron Cloud Carving can capture his pen absurdly and get his body empty, but it can't disturb his sober heart. "depending on the difference between inside and outside, debate the realm of honor and disgrace." He seized the key to happiness and opened the door to ideal. He seized the key to happiness and opened the door to ideal. Have you ever heard of the beautiful crane wife and the monk forest? They all put the key to happiness in a stable heart, which makes the world dirty and can't destroy the purity and enrichment of the soul.
When you think of this, do you think of Guan Huiqun who was awarded the American Citizen Medal last year? He still sends food to the homeless in the morning light, and sends food to rare stars in his not rich life; There is also Guo, a character who moved China, who permeated happiness into the smallest details of life and wrote the warmest epic in the world with unremitting help ... They never entrusted the key to happiness to the hardships of life, but held it in their hands, opened the closed door to happiness in sharing and giving, and let warmth and sunshine surround others and sprinkle in their hearts.
Now, we might as well take back our wandering thoughts and look at the bright starry sky above you. "The little prince" said, "The distant star that we can see burst and died tens of thousands of years ago. Now his light reaches my pupil, which is the most mysterious accident. Look at those broken stars, your sky will never be absent because of your ordinary. Might as well use a pair of eyes to discover beauty, let happiness and miracles rise from the dullness of this world. The key to beauty should only be in your own hands.
"Have you found the key to happiness?" I asked softly under the stars. When you turn around and smile, your eyes are no longer dim, only bright stars are flashing.
4. Writing, with "the key to happiness" as the topic, can't be online. If found, it will be the key to happiness.
The sky, boring; Green trees, boring; Honghua, boring. Like the sunshine that I tripped over, it's really boring.
Unwilling to wear headphones to listen to those foreigners nagging; Unwilling to sit in a chair and recite "π = 3.14 ..." over and over again; Unwilling to pick up a ballpoint pen, struggling with piles of problems. ...
The sun shines softly on the earth, and I casually walk to the playground. On the playground, some students walk around at will; Some students chase and run, some students play yo-yo skillfully, and some …
Go for a run!
I said to myself. Then, a girl ran wildly on the playground.
I don't know why I have such a fidgety mood. I don't know, I don't know why I have been burdened with so much study recently. They are stress! All kinds of exercises and papers make me breathless. I want to find my happiness, I want to be happy ... The original open door is slowly closing, and I have lost my key. ...
I don't know. I've run a few laps. I was tired and exhausted, leaning under that tree, holding my waist in one hand and panting heavily.
……
Slow down, I sat on the edge of the flower bed and glanced at it casually. Under a golden osmanthus tree, there was a pen that looked very delicate.
Hey, pen?
I admit that my curiosity has been aroused. I reached for my pen, dusted it off and studied it carefully. This is a light blue pen with a happy smiling face on it. Suddenly, my eyes lit up and a trace of inexplicable joy spread in my heart. ...
who is it? Who would hide a pen in such a hidden place?
I gently unscrewed the pen cap. There was no refill in it, but a piece of paper fell out. The note danced and fell to the ground like a happy elf. I bent down to pick it up. I opened this little piece of paper with osmanthus flowers painted on it, and there was a beautiful sentence written inside: It's a beautiful day today. I wish those who see this note will always be happy! -Sincerity comes from Sunshine Girl. My heart is much clearer again. ...
I looked at this pen lying quietly in my hand, and the more I looked at it, the more I felt deja vu. I'm looking for memories ...
Ah, I found it!
In an instant, the vague memory suddenly became clear. That was last autumn. I wrote such a note in the tone of an article, put it in a pen without a refill and hid it under the laurel tree. ...
I never thought that until now, no one has found it, and the blessing of "happiness forever and happiness forever" still belongs to me.
I smiled. At that time, I was so naive. Now I am maturing, but I forget to be happy and give a good blessing to the people around me. Lost the key to happiness ...
Happiness is as simple as that. It can be a note with warm wishes. At the moment of recalling things, I found the key to happiness again, and found the surprise of the past in this season of sweet-scented osmanthus.
Osmanthus fragrans continued to float, slipping into my heart with the key of happiness and opening the door of my long-closed heart. At that moment, my whole heart was bright, sweet and happy, warm and satisfied, and beautiful beyond words. ...
5. I am happy in the composition with happiness as the topic.
The sky is used for white clouds, especially blue; The flowers with green leaves are particularly beautiful; The sea has waves, which makes it more energetic ... me? I have ordinary, if ordinary is also a kind of possession.
Because of the ordinary, I don't have to pursue too much, stop and enjoy one meter of sunshine, and sit and enjoy the flowing clouds in the morning when I hope to fly, or in the evening when yellow flowers pile up all over the teacher's floor; Because it is ordinary, you don't have to taste the ups and downs. After all, I don't have the courage to go out with a smile after Li Meng broke, and I don't have the "300 litchi erosion" after Su Shi's relegation. Transcendence; Because of the ordinary, I have a normal heart to understand that "the heart is far from self-biased." beautiful
The eagle has wings, so it fights the sky; Horses have healthy hooves, so they ride the grassland; Whales have flippers, so they swim in the ocean ... me? I have a disability, if disability is also a kind of possession.
Month, the most beautiful is the waning moon; Water, the most beautiful is a pool of water, breaking through the calm. Venus's beauty is reflected in her broken arm. Helen Keller's beauty blends with her natural disability. God took away the beauty that should have belonged to them. I believe that God is fair to everyone and I can't be perfect. Therefore, I have a disability. Because of this deformity, I lost the most beautiful thing I should have. But I know more clearly that this deformity makes me different, because this deformity can make me become my true self. This kind of incomplete beauty is the most profound beauty and the most beautiful.
The four seasons of nature are extremely rich; The mountain peak is steeper because it is steep; Neon is especially beautiful because of its colorful colors ... me? I have leisure, if leisure is also a kind of possession.
The pleasure of life is greater than leisure, because leisure does not need to climb mountains and cliffs without flowers and applause, and there is no need to have the luxury of intrigue for power. Have time to appreciate this beautiful world, instead of thinking about Tao Yuanming's sentence, "Pick chrysanthemums under the east fence and see Nanshan leisurely." Wonderful life. Green mountains and green waters, a small room, snow-white window paper, slightly soaked in green, sitting alone at this time, idle, but also happy.
Life is a blank sheet of paper, with colorful colors and a full life, but for me, full is not a life of feasting.
Life is a glass of clear water, delicate particles will make it fragrant and sweet, but in my case, fragrance and sweetness are not as dull and bitter as tea.
Life is the night sky, with brilliant starlight, which is magnificent, but here, splendor does not mean applause and dazzling crown.
I don't despise pursuit, I don't deny perfection, I don't despise enrichment. I just think quietly about what I have and feel happy for what I have.
Bees are hardworking and willing to make honey; Silkworm pupae have tough and happy broken cocoons; Swallows have a clever heart, so they nest happily ... me? I am happy because I have it, the purest and happiest love.
6. Appreciate the interesting composition.
Appreciation makes me understand the cycle of everything in the world, and appreciation makes me enjoy beauty from the beauty of nature; Appreciation helped me find the source of beauty in the landscape. I like to appreciate and appreciate the beauty in nature.
The rain beat on the roof tiles, making beautiful music, soft and sonorous, far away and close. Tintin party, like countless pearls falling on a jade plate; Just like a player playing an ancient song, the bleak rhythm is ringing intermittently, listening to the rain reminds me of it. Are these God's tears? Does God like to cry? Why is it crying? I don't like it crying, because when it cries, my parents will frown and I will be unhappy.
I feel a little sad in this cool rainy season. Why? No one will tell me why. But a voice in my heart told me that I was thinking about "home".
I enjoy the pleasure of appreciation all the time, but at the same time I feel a little sad, but even so, I am still very happy, very happy, and have a heart that will appreciate. Many people have this heart, but they all give up. They don't want to enjoy the fun it brings us, and they can only spend their lives in a numb life. When the storm comes, they will only complain and not appreciate it.
I've always loved it. Sometimes I wonder why appreciation can bring fun, make people forget all their troubles and make people feel relaxed. Later, I learned that when people appreciate something, they always concentrate on observing its characteristics and appreciating its value, so at this time, you will feel happy for yourself, feel successful and full of sense of accomplishment, and will not think about those annoying things at all.
So I always look at the running water when I am unhappy or confused.
7. Write a composition on happiness and happiness.
The sky is particularly blue, there are many white clouds, flowers are particularly bright, and there are many green leaves. The sea is more energetic with waves ... Me? I have poverty-if poverty is also a kind of possession.
Poverty makes me, a child of a poor family, an early master. Poverty urges me to change my destiny endlessly. Poverty taught me to cherish and appreciate. Poverty makes me clear-headed and indifferent.
In my eyes, having poverty is also a kind of happiness.
Eagles have wings, so they fight in the sky, horses have healthy hooves, so they gallop on the grassland, whales have limbs and fins, so they swim in the ocean ... me? I have ordinary-if ordinary is also a kind of possession.
Because I am ordinary, I can do what I like anytime and anywhere: rest, shopping or reading; Because of the ordinary, I can save a lot of time to dress up, obediently give up attractive vanity, down-to-earth life; Because of the ordinary, I don't have to intrigue and cheat for power, and I won't be devastated after ups and downs; Because ordinary, even the most ordinary things will touch my heartstrings and touch my heart.
In my eyes, ordinary is also a kind of happiness.
The four seasons of nature are particularly rich, the mountains are steeper and steeper, and the neon is particularly colorful ... me? I have a pure heart-if a pure heart is also a kind of possession.
Pure heart, let me always try to help those who suffer around me; A pure heart enables me to live in harmony with others forever; Pure heart, let me know love and respect; Pure mind, let me understand that even a grass can decorate the whole spring.
In my eyes, having a pure heart means having happiness.
Life is a blank sheet of paper, with colorful colors, we can have a full life, but for me, enrichment is not a life of feasting.
Life is a glass of clear water, with refined granules, it will be fragrant and sweet, but here, fragrance and sweetness do not exclude the lightness and bitterness of green tea.
Life is the night sky, and only brilliant starlight can be magnificent, but here, splendor does not mean applause and dazzling crown.
I don't despise the scepter, I don't deny wealth, I don't despise beauty, and I don't even envy the shining halo on his head.
I just think quietly about what I have and am happy that I have myself.
Bees make honey happily because of diligence, pupae break their cocoons happily because of persistence, and swallows nest happily because of cleverness ... me? I have the purest and most transparent happiness, because I am myself.
8. "I found the key to happiness that day" has a composition of 1 500 words. My room is separated from my father's bedroom by a door.
For a long time, I didn't take the initiative to open that door, because my father and I have little in common, and the distance between hearts seems endless. In this regard, I stubbornly believe that this is the performance of the generation gap.
It was a few days ago, and there was a class meeting in the class. The theme is how to open the door to happiness, and everyone is asked to make a more detailed investigation. This is embarrassing for me. I don't want to ask my father what to do, but as a class cadre, we are not allowed to perfunctory.
Back home, just in time for dinner, a family of three sat together. I tried to open my mouth several times, but the thought that every conversation would end in discord and I couldn't even eat my meal forced me to swallow it. It's no big deal, sometimes I feel incomprehensible. Why are my father and I angry about something that has nothing to do with us? Dad will stare and say, "It's all for your own good!" " "Is good for me just don't allow me to have the freedom to think! Today put off tomorrow, tomorrow put off the day after tomorrow, and the time for handing in this discussion paper is getting closer and closer. All I can think about is the picture of quarreling with my father.
Father's door is within reach, and several people have stood at the door, but they have no confidence to open it for themselves. On the other side of the door, my father doesn't know what he is writing. I wonder if he noticed. The next day, because the adult exam would occupy our classroom, we went home from school early.
Passing by the vegetable market, I saw my parents buying food. Before I stepped forward, their words reached my ears like legs: "The child doesn't like this thing very much, so don't you buy it?" Mother took the fungus, some embarrassed to say. "Buy, buy, the newspaper said that there are many rare elements in it, and it is good for children to eat properly."
Say that finish, dad took out the money. I know fungus is expensive, but my father doesn't buy it because I don't like it. He is considering whether I need these nutrients, but when I eat these things, why not consider the factor of "nutrition"? From this, I think, my father's sermon is not very pleasant to listen to, but there is the "nutrition" I need in it? In the evening, I opened the door again and took the initiative to open it.
That day, my father and I talked a lot. My father told me: "The key to happiness is mutual understanding, and then mutual understanding …" Later, I successfully completed the manuscript. I clearly remember the first sentence of the manuscript: "Open your heart and feel with your heart. Happiness is not something high above and out of reach. Happiness is a state of mind, a state of mind of life ... "I am very happy. That day, I finally found the key to open the door to happiness.