The improvement of civilization in modern society naturally promotes the improvement of people's quality, and high-quality people pay more attention to etiquette culture. Learning modern social meaning of etiquette in today's society is far-reaching.

Learning etiquette is to meet the needs of opening up.

The national policy of opening to the outside world has broken the long-term closed environment and made people deeply realize that sitting in a well and watching the sky is a frog in the well, and it is difficult to adapt to the situation. Only jumping out of the well, going abroad and going to the world is the consciousness that modern people should have. If you want to get out of the narrow and closed environment, you should not only have some necessary professional skills, but also know the rules and norms of how to get along with people. These norms are social etiquette. The study of etiquette can help you go to the society and the world smoothly, better establish your own image, and leave a good impression of being polite and gentle.

Learning etiquette is the need to adapt to the development of market economy.

The development of market economy has brought about extensive division of labor and commodity circulation, promoted interdependence and cooperation between people, organizations and regions, and brought about fierce market competition. The situation that "the emperor's daughter is not worried about marriage" and "the wine is not afraid of the alley" is gone forever. For an enterprise or service industry, it is more necessary to actively adapt to this change from "seller's market" to "buyer's market", and this change always needs specific people to implement and operate. If these practitioners don't understand modern social etiquette, it will be difficult for them to gain a foothold in the market. For example, it is impolite and even misunderstood for suppliers to go in directly without knocking at the door in advance when selling products. In the atmosphere of market economy, people should learn more social etiquette not only for themselves, but also for their organizations, so as to help them go to the market smoothly and gain a firm foothold in the market.

Learning etiquette is to meet the needs of modern information society.

The rapid development of communication technology and means in modern information society is changing people's traditional communication concepts and behaviors. In particular, people's communication scope has gradually expanded from interpersonal communication to large-scale public communication, from face-to-face close communication to long-distance communication without meeting, from slow-paced low-frequency communication to fast-paced high-frequency communication. This change in interpersonal communication in modern information society puts forward higher requirements for the content and way of human social etiquette. How to realize polite communication under this communication condition and create the realm of "harmony between people" is another meaning of learning etiquette.

Learning etiquette is the need to be a modern civilized person.

We live in a big socialist family, and everyone is a member of it. China advocates that every citizen should strive to be a "four haves" new person, that is, a person with morality, education, discipline and knowledge. To be a "four haves" newcomer, then learning the necessary etiquette knowledge is also one of them. We often pay attention to a passing gentleman or lady, because their elegant temperament or chic behavior deeply attracts us. So how to make a good impression when interacting with others? At the very least, learning more social etiquette can avoid your timidity and shyness in the communication field, point out the maze in the communication field, add more confidence and courage to you, and make you polite, polite and popular as a modern person.

Functions of Modern Social Etiquette

As the norms and principles of human behavior, social etiquette must have its inherent functions. Social etiquette has four functions: the first is to shape the image; The second is to communicate information; The third is to contact feelings; The fourth is to enhance friendship.

Create an image

Shaping image is the primary function of modern social etiquette, including shaping personal image and organizational image.

Humans live in the world, and it is impossible to have nothing to do with the world, but there are all kinds of interpersonal relationships that are closely related. Interpersonal relationship is actually a kind of social relationship, which has two aspects: first, everyone lives in a certain country and belongs to a certain nation and class, so everyone is in a macro relationship; Second, everyone has their own interpersonal relationships, such as relatives, friends and colleagues, superiors and subordinates, so everyone is in a micro-relationship, and everyone gets along with others in social life with their own specific identity and role. Sometimes people treat people as individuals. At this time, it is purely a personal image, and sometimes people get along with people on behalf of the organization in the form of individuals. At this time, it is the organizational image. Therefore, people always appear in two images in modern social communication, one is personal image and the other is organizational image. As far as its function is concerned, social etiquette not only helps to establish a good personal image, but also helps to establish an excellent organizational image.

1. Personal image building

In most people's social life, people always appear in their own lives as individuals. Humans often represent their own meaning, such as living in a family and living among friends. People always live in their best image, but sometimes there are many obstacles when people get along with each other, such as so-and-so being informal, so-and-so being rude and having a bad attitude. So how can human beings make their existence more meaningful and be a popular and liked person? Standards and conditions are diverse. Some people like smart manners, some people like elegant temperament, some people like straightforward personality, some people like being orderly and so on. In a word, everyone has his own taste, but in any case, social etiquette can always help you shape a pleasant personal image. What's more, in today's society, under the premise that people generally attach importance to temperament, people also generally attach importance to many standards of the number of people. These standards are the norms of social etiquette, so what kind of personal image is popular?

Generally speaking, a person with noble taste, elegant temperament and elegant manners is always welcome.

High taste means that a person's temperament and taste are far from vulgar. If you want to cultivate your noble taste, you must know etiquette, and those who don't know etiquette can't be noble people. The so-called courtesy, and then the gentleman also. For example, only when one knows how to respect others can one be kind to others in life and think of others everywhere. In action, we can produce beneficial and unpaid behaviors. If a person thinks about himself all the time and has no one else in his heart, he will inevitably haggle over every ounce of money in his life, even at the expense of the public and selfish interests, and even become arrogant and evil. This kind of person is naturally a narrow-minded villain.

A person with noble taste must be an open-minded and selfless gentleman. He not only understands the cultivation of external etiquette, but also pays more attention to the tempering of internal quality.

Etiquette is a pearl in the treasure house of traditional virtues in China and the essence of ancient culture in China. Being in the state of etiquette should be the people of etiquette. Knowing books and being polite to people should be the basic qualities of contemporary college students. However, there are still many impolite, impolite and uncivilized behaviors in the university campus, and there are many phenomena that are extremely disharmonious with college students' etiquette cultivation and spiritual civilization construction. It can be seen that the social etiquette education of college students has special significance across the times and centuries. Because social etiquette education is not only the need of quality education, but also the strong requirement of social civilization and progress.

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I can give you some information about college students' etiquette, but you have to finish the paper yourself. You know you are a college student, and you can do well with this ability!

First of all, I'll tell you some basic etiquette knowledge.

1, what is etiquette?

A: Etiquette refers to the code of conduct and norms formed by people in social communication activities. Reflected in politeness, etiquette, appearance, ceremony and so on.

2. What is politeness?

A: Politeness refers to the mutual respect, friendliness and propriety that people should have in the process of mutual communication.

3. What is etiquette?

A: Etiquette refers to the customary forms and norms such as respect, congratulations, greetings, greetings and condolences expressed by people in the process of social communication.

4. What is a musical instrument?

A: Instrument refers to a person's appearance. Such as appearance, dress, posture, etc.

5. What is a ceremony?

A: Ceremony refers to the standardized activities with special procedures held on fixed occasions. For example, award ceremony, signing ceremony and opening ceremony.

6. What are the six basic characteristics of etiquette?

A: * * * Homosexuality, inheritance, unity, difference, class influence, and the development of the times.

7. What are the four principles of etiquette?

A: The principles of respect, compliance, moderation and self-discipline.

8. What are the four functions of etiquette?

A: Communication function, coordination function, maintenance function and education function.

9. Why is China "a country with an ancient civilization and etiquette"?

China is an ancient civilization with a long history. For thousands of years, it has created splendid culture, formed noble moral standards and complete etiquette norms, and is called "the country with ancient civilization and etiquette" by the world.

10, why pay attention to etiquette?

A: Paying attention to etiquette is not a trivial matter in personal life, but a realistic reflection of a country's social atmosphere and an important symbol of the progress of a nation's spiritual civilization.

1 1. What is the function of etiquette to society?

A: For society, etiquette can improve people's moral concept, purify social atmosphere and improve social and cultural quality.

12, what does etiquette do for individuals?

A: For individuals, etiquette can build self-esteem, enhance self-esteem, self-confidence and self-love, pave the way for social interpersonal communication and handle various relationships well.

13, how to strengthen personal cultivation?

Answer: (1) Consciously improve personal moral cultivation; (2) Have a sense of justice and principle; (3) Care, respect and help others.

14, how to cultivate self-sentiment?

Answer: (1) Strengthen the study of science and culture and make yourself a knowledgeable person; (2) optimistic, cheerful and generous; (3) Enthusiasm, sincerity, consideration, kindness and friendliness.

15, what is the principle of making friends?

Answer: Honest and trustworthy, kind to others, generous, neither supercilious nor supercilious.

16, what is makeup?

A: Make-up refers to people dressing themselves up with cosmetics and artistic descriptions in government affairs, business, affairs and social life, so as to achieve the purpose of inspiring spirit and respecting others.

17, what should I pay attention to in instrument etiquette?

Answer: Pay attention to the coordination of musical instruments, the matching of colors and the matching of occasions.

18, what principles should I pay attention to when wearing accessories?

A: No matter what accessories you wear, they must match your figure, face and the beauty of your clothes.

19, what do you mean by wearing a ring with different fingers?

A: Generally speaking, wearing it on the index finger means proposing marriage; The middle finger indicates that you are in love; The ring finger indicates engagement or marriage; The little finger means celibacy; You don't usually wear a ring on your thumb. 20. What are the main factors to consider when choosing a necklace?

Answer: the choice of necklace, the price is not important, what kind of style a tube is, and the coordination with age, skin color and clothing is the main thing.

2 1, explain the role of earrings in accessories?

A: Earrings are not only decorative, but also have the functions of protecting eyesight, preventing and treating eye diseases and myopia.

22. What should I pay attention to when choosing bracelets?

Answer: If you only wear one bracelet, you should wear it on your left hand. When wearing two, you can wear one in one hand or two in your left hand; When you wear three, you should wear them all on your left hand, not one in one hand and two in the other; Bracelets should be coordinated with rings and clothing styles. 23. What kind of ornament is a brooch?

A: A brooch is an ornament that people wear on their chests. Broadly speaking, brooches include pins, brooches and brooches.

24. What should I pay attention to when choosing glasses?

Answer: Glasses affect the impression of the whole facial contour. When choosing to wear, we should pay attention to the balance between the shape of the frame and the face: the color of the frame should be coordinated with the skin color.

25. What does a woman's shawl do?

A: In addition to decoration, shawls can also cope with the large temperature difference between morning and evening.

26. What is the function of a lady's purse? How many kinds are there?

A: It is an indispensable ornament for women in various occasions. It has both decorative value and practicality. In terms of appearance and use, it can be divided into three types: shoulder hanging type, flat lifting type and flat holding type.

27. What is the role of stockings in women's wear?

A: A pair of beautiful stockings can set off the curvy beauty and mystery of women's legs, and stockings are necessary clothes for women.

28. What fabric gloves can make women look gentler and more feminine?

A: Knitted gloves.

29. What should I pay attention to when shaking hands?

Answer: (1) Between the superior and the subordinate, the subordinate can only reach out and shake hands after the superior reaches out; (2) Between the elder and the younger generation, only after the elder reaches out, can the younger generation reach out and shake hands; (3) Between men and women, men can only reach out and shake hands after women reach out. (4) When shaking hands, men should take off their gloves, and women can wear rings without gloves. (5) When shaking hands, extend your right hand and never extend your left hand; (6) The strength of shaking hands should be moderate, not weak, and not too hard.

30. How do people with cross-border cultural exchanges pay attention to the communication of silent language "gestures"?

A: Every country and nation has its own language and cultural customs, and silent language varies from nation to nation. In one country or region, a gesture may be very common, while in another country or region, it may be meaningless or even have the opposite meaning. Therefore, for people with cross-border cultural exchanges, the safest rule of action is to "do as the Romans do", so as to avoid misunderstanding and getting into trouble.

3 1, briefly explain the importance of reception etiquette.

A: Greeting and sending are the most basic forms and important links in social reception activities, as well as important aspects of expressing host friendship and showing politeness. Especially welcome guests, leaving a good impression on guests is the most important job.

32. Briefly describe the guiding methods of corridor receptionists.

Answer: Before the guest takes two or three steps, let the guest follow the pace and move in. 33. Briefly describe the guiding method of the reception staff at the stairs.

Answer: When guiding guests upstairs, let them walk in front and the receptionist walk behind. If you go downstairs, the receptionist will go ahead and the guests will go behind. The receptionist should pay attention to the safety of the guests when going up and down the stairs.

34. Briefly describe the guiding method of the receptionist in the elevator.

Answer: When guiding the guests to take the elevator, the receptionist should enter the elevator first, and then close the elevator door after the guests enter. On arrival, the receptionist will press the elevator door and let the guests go out first.

35. Briefly describe the guiding methods of the reception staff in the living room.

Answer: When the guest walked into the living room, the receptionist motioned him to sit down with his hand. When he sees the guest sitting down, he can nod and leave. If the guest takes the wrong seat, please ask the guest to change (the next seat is on the side near the door).

36. How to arrange the seat of the car?

A: If the driver is driving, the right side of the back row is the first, followed by the left side, the middle is the second, the right side of the front row is the back of the house, and the middle of the front row is the last. If the owner drives personally, the right side of the driver's seat is the first, followed by the right side of the back row, followed by the left side, and the middle seat in the back row is unoccupied, so it is not appropriate to arrange the guests in the middle seat in the front row.

37. How to arrange the seat of the station wagon in the riding etiquette?

A: The first row behind the driver's seat is the front row, and the rear row is smaller in turn. The rank of seats decreases from the right side to the left side of each row.

38. How to choose gifts for gift-giving etiquette?

A: First, please ask people who are closely related to the recipient to understand what the other party needs; The other is to observe his hobbies, pay attention to what he says he needs, and surprise him with a long-awaited and very suitable gift.

Secondly, I will tell you about the significance and influence of college students' learning etiquette.

1, social etiquette education is conducive to college students to establish good interpersonal relationships with others, form a harmonious psychological atmosphere, and promote college students' physical and mental health. The communication activities of any society are inseparable from etiquette. The more human beings progress and social life becomes more socialized, the more people need etiquette to adjust social life. Etiquette is the premise of interpersonal communication and the key to communicative life.

With the growth of age and the change of living environment, the self-awareness of contemporary college students has made new progress, and they are very eager to get real friendship and have more emotional exchanges. College students are generally far away from their parents in their hometown, live a collective life, and are on an equal footing with other students, losing their previous dependence on their parents' "blood relationship" and "unconditional". Therefore, it is necessary for college students to get friendship through interpersonal activities, adapt to the new living environment, develop from a "dependent" person to an "independent" person, and successfully enter the society. In fact, during college, whether you can establish good interpersonal relationships with others has a very important impact on a person's growth and study. Longing for friendship and emotional communication is an important psychological feature of college students. But there are also many college students who show the tendency of "self-isolation" to varying degrees. There are often emotional experiences of "loneliness" and "no friends". There are many reasons for this. There are two common reasons. On the one hand, I didn't really understand what friendship is, and I didn't really get out of the interpersonal communication mode of "dependence on others" and "inequality" formed in the early interpersonal communication process. In the process of interpersonal communication, I show the tendency of "attaching to others", "using others", "taking the individual as the center" and "seeking perfection and blame", which deviates from the fundamental principles of friendship "selflessness, equality and respect". On the other hand, they lack social skills, are not good at expressing their feelings and ideas, are not good at understanding others' feelings and ideas, and lack the same hobbies, which leads to frustration or narrow communication scope. The result of long-term development is loneliness, lack of friends, and some psychological obstacles, which are not conducive to the healthy development of psychology. Let college students learn the basic norms and knowledge of social etiquette, help students master communication skills, accumulate communication experience, learn to follow the principles of mutual respect, honesty and sincerity, and moderate words and deeds in communication, so that they can quickly approach the communication object and feel your familiarity, understanding and respect for them.

Practice shows that good interpersonal communication helps to improve college students' self-confidence and self-esteem, reduce frustration, relieve inner conflicts and anguish, vent anger, depression and pain, and reduce loneliness, loneliness, emptiness and praise. These are very beneficial to the physical and mental health of college students, and will also enable college students to avoid the generation of bad emotions to the maximum extent. If they have bad emotions, they can effectively persuade them to leave.

At the same time, social etiquette itself is a special language. If college students learn and master the basic knowledge and norms of social etiquette, they can successfully open the door to various communication activities and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships with them. In this way, it is not only the main way to form a good social and psychological atmosphere, but also has an extremely important psychological health care function for college students.

2. Social etiquette education is conducive to promoting the socialization of college students and improving their social psychological endurance.

People need to learn a lot in the process of socialization, and social etiquette education is an indispensable and important content in the process of socialization. Because etiquette is a compulsory course in the whole life journey. Anyone who lives in a certain etiquette, customs and normative environment is consciously or unconsciously bound by etiquette. People who consciously accept social etiquette constraints are recognized as "mature people" who meet social requirements. On the other hand, if a person can't abide by the etiquette requirements in social life, he will be regarded as a "heresy" by people in society and will be rejected by people, and society will restrain him by means of morality and public opinion. College students can be called "quasi-social people", but they are not real social people. They have a strong need to go to society, but at the same time there are some psychological puzzles, such as how to get along with leaders and colleagues, how to establish good interpersonal relationships, how to design self-image, how to adapt to social life as soon as possible and other social communication problems. However, the social psychological endurance of college students directly affects the quality of communication activities. A person with good psychological endurance can always maintain a calm and stable psychological state when encountering various situations and difficulties in communication activities, and quickly take the most reasonable behavior according to the information he has, so as to avoid danger and strive for initiative. On the contrary, some people lack good psychological endurance.