1. The incision of the argument should be small. Argumentation should be demonstrated from a small angle, grasp the key points of argumentation, and see the big from the small.
2. The argument should be realistic. The argument should conform to the objective reality and ensure the correctness of the viewpoint, and there should be no aspects that are contrary to people's understanding of the suspended world. The opinions expressed should be acceptable to most people and can be justified.
3. The argument should be novel and unique. Pursuing novelty in argument is the sublimation of objective life, not the novelty divorced from objective reality; It is a new insight to solve problems, and it is not possible to pursue uniqueness unilaterally; This is a novel view of materials, rather than clarifying the innovation of "alternative views". The main ways are as follows:
(1) new angle, learn to avoid conformity angle;
(2) New viewpoints, mainly focusing on providing pertinent insights and understanding of things;
(3) New realm, changing old knowledge into new knowledge, making old topics new, and making the argument profound, novel and unique.
2. Write an argumentative essay on the topic of expecting children to succeed, and look at the logic of the dialogue between two parents and their children in the cartoon: "Because dad ... I hope you ..." The starting point of considering the problem is not the child's interest and specialty, but his own wishful thinking. Obviously, they didn't grasp their hopes.
Looking around, our parents have many disadvantages in their children's education, such as autocracy, paranoia, and the desire for perfection. In short, they expect too much. Undeniably, too high and too many expectations stem from the desire to "dream success". Some parents-
Regardless of the child's innate conditions, he is willing to ask the child to become a "dragon" of a certain standard. However, the high expectations of parents often make children feel at a loss, at a loss, and there is always a sense of frustration that they can't meet the standards. Over time, it will inevitably lead to boredom and even tragedy, and may eventually lose interest and initiative in pursuing knowledge. It is a terrible thing to lose interest and initiative in pursuing knowledge.
It suddenly occurred to me that a lawsuit had been tried by the new york District Court. The special feature of this lawsuit is that a 29-year-old single mother was accused of "improper custody" of her 9-year-old son, and the fundamental reason why she was suspected of breaking the law was that she "cultivated" her son into a "child prodigy". After the "child prodigy" was proved to be false, Elizabeth, the child's mother, said that in the past few years, in order to make Justin cope with all kinds of abnormal child tests, she had almost cruel education and training for her children. However, Elizabeth said that everything she did was out of maternal love. She also thinks Justin, please keep this mark when reprinting. When she was a child, she was really smart. As a mother, she sincerely hopes that her children will become geniuses. She couldn't help but take various measures on the Internet to make her children superior, and made up a big lie step by step by relying on her emotions and imagination.
It seems that things that can't adjust the balance of hope don't just happen in China. Under the control of love, it is difficult for parents all over the world to get out of this strange circle, so kindness often does bad things.
Correcting the balance of hope is a problem that family education in modern society must pay attention to. We should know that the ultimate goal of family education is to develop children's personality and make children's physical and mental health develop. Every child is unique, and it is impossible to be a "dragon" in the same way. Parents should fully understand their children's personality characteristics and smart types, create a good family environment for their children, and let them weave their own dreams, not their parents' dreams. "Let the tree grow into the best tree and the grass grow into the best grass."
The mother of American basketball prodigy Michael Jordan once said, "We have never set out to cultivate superstars. I think it is tragic and misleading for parents to take the cultivation of stars as their goal. In fact, I think any online parent who takes their children's achievements in any field as their goal is trampling on their children's future on a dangerous road. Parents' goal is to cultivate their children's excellent moral character and character! "
This is very intriguing.
This composition about Wang Zicheng has more than 600 words. Thank him for his deep memory.
It is another Mid-Autumn Festival, which is the sixth Mid-Autumn Festival I have spent in school.
A full moon rises and the shy bride slowly walks out of the boudoir. Silver light pours on silent valleys and gray paths; Sprinkle on the withered grass in autumn, and there are clumps of thorns, strange rocks and ancient trees that have begun to retire; Also spilled on me, a person in a foreign country. As a stranger in a foreign land, I looked up and found that it was moonlight, which seemed a little sad, but its light and soft brilliance brought me a little warmth and comfort.
The sight here reminds me once again of watching the moon with my father, and I don't know when tears will flow down my cheeks. If my father was not beaten, if my father didn't leave sequelae, why did my father suffer from illness and why did I go to such a distant school?
Memories brought me back to the scene six years ago.
It was Friday afternoon. After school, I went home early to help with the housework. I am a junior high school student in Grade One. Facing the new school and new knowledge, I have a great thirst for knowledge. My father is also particularly concerned about my study. In order not to worry about my tuition, he always goes out early and comes back late every day.
It's already 7: 30 in the evening, and dad hasn't appeared at home yet. Mother fidgeted, grabbed the flashlight and went out, leaving me and my brother.
Suddenly, in a daze, there were footsteps in front. What happened? What's the hurry? My sleepiness was driven away without a trace
Opening my eyes, I was shocked. The father sitting opposite him was almost covered with gauze, only his eyes, nose and mouth were exposed, his eyes were swollen like steamed bread and his nostrils were bleeding. What happened to father? What the hell happened? I asked in my heart, I have become a tearful person.
When my father heard my crying, he quickly called me over and let me stand beside him. "Don't cry, you are usually the strongest. Today's tears are so worthless? " Father struggled to spit out a few words from his mouth. "I didn't cry, dad, but how did you get these injuries?" "Nothing, I was beaten by several impulsive boys." Father speaks easily, as if he was not the one who was beaten, but I can't stand it. "Dad, when I grow up, I will beat them for you." "How can a middle school student say such a thing and how to attend the usual moral cultivation class?" Father is angry. I have never seen my father so angry, and because of my words, I quickly admitted my mistake. "Dad, I was wrong. I will never think about it again. " "Yes, learn to forgive others, is to be kind to yourself. Hatred can only keep our hearts in darkness forever; On the other hand, forgiveness can make our hearts free. Forgiving others is liberating yourself. " "Dad, I remember."
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Looking at the full moon, my father's meaningful words echoed in my ears, reminding me how to be a man. Over the past six years, I have been strict with myself, especially being a man, based on my father's words. Learning to be a man is the foundation of a person's moral cultivation, which is what my father often says. He let me learn to get along with others after studying and integrate into the big family of society.
Facing the full moon, I burst into tears. A person in a foreign land just wants to enjoy the Mid-Autumn Festival with his father again and listen to his life again.
Today, with the rapid development of material civilization, people live in high-rise buildings and their living standards are getting higher and higher. However, there has been a phenomenon of pulling out the seedlings to encourage them, which has made us lose our colorful childhood. Although the country has continuously proposed to reduce the burden, it is getting heavier and heavier. Parents generally think like this: "If we want to be children, the more extracurricular classes the better, and we should learn from others."
In the face of indifference, we think deeply about what caused this phenomenon. In the final analysis, parents are too ambitious for their children, which is to pull out the seedlings and encourage them. Nowadays, parents treat their children by their own subjective feelings, which constantly increases the burden on their children.
They don't know that we have to open this heavy door and long for the outside world, the fresh air outside and the carefree green life and study. We don't want to be exhausted in the endless sea of questions, just want to enjoy the sunshine of knowledge with proper homework; We don't want to worry about getting high marks. We just want to walk through every beacon tower on the Great Wall of Wan Li. Parents, it is wrong to "pull out the seedlings and encourage them", so that withered grass can be revived. "I was born useful", don't expect too much, let the children have a colorful childhood.
5. An ambitious argumentative essay begins with three choices:
First, the introduction leads to the following series of discussions, conflicts and contradictions, which should make people think.
The second is to directly explain what the article is about, but this kind of beginning is often not wonderful enough.
Third, explain your point of view directly in this article, but in the following, we need to emphasize the reasons and facts that support the existence of this point of view.
In addition, I would like to mention here that the author's point of view is very important in argumentative writing, and the common expression is to mention it at the beginning, emphasize it below and echo it at the end; Or quote at the beginning, list various viewpoints, facts and reasons below, and finally draw a conclusion.
But this point of view is not necessary. The whole article may not have the author's own point of view, but how to write it clearly from all angles and let people think about what is right.
Again, argumentative writing is not too restrictive. Generally, you just need to think of it and say it. Of course, if some things are too unacceptable to others, it is better not to say them.
In the text, the theme of aspiring to be a dragon is still better, and there are many things to write. Let me tell you the time.
First, the source of the idiom "Looking forward to one's success" can be written in a paragraph, and the specific information can be found on the Internet.
Secondly, it can lead to the modern meaning of this idiom, that is, parents' expectations of their children, and then it can lead to the manifestations of this expectation, such as demanding children's grades, asking children to attend extra long classes, and asking children to take their own design path.
Thirdly, the question of whether the expression of this expectation is correct leads to this kind of pressure and bad influence on children, which in turn leads to children's personal wishes and interests.
Fourth, this can lead to more things, such as "whether the child's personal wishes are helpful to his future" and "how to cultivate the child's grades and interests is correct" and so on.
Above, purely manual, and finally wordy, personally suggest that the landlord write it himself. As for the use of words, format and other issues, you can refer to other articles and search online. After all, the article can fully reflect a person's quality, cultivation, personality and other issues. Who dares to say that you don't have to write articles in the future? Just like in the era of computer typing, many employers are still concerned about whether the applicant's font is beautiful.
6. The composition of parents' ambition children In this world, who has not bathed in the love of parents and who has not experienced the care of parents? Still think of me all the time and care about my parents.
Strict father is the best description of my father. He is very strict with my study and life.
He made me a timetable and urged me to finish my homework carefully. Besides, my father often lets me read some extra-curricular books to let me know about the scientific knowledge outside the textbooks.
Therefore, my playing time is greatly reduced. Sometimes, other parents ask me, "Is your father strict with you?" Naive, I nodded hard to show that "it is particularly powerful, not just ordinary!" "Now every time I come to the first and second place in my class after every exam, I gradually understand that my father did all this for my own good.
For this, I really appreciate him! My mother is a typical "loving mother". She is very concerned about my food, clothing, housing and transportation, and always takes care of me in every way.
In order to make me eat well, she racked her brains to cook delicious food to satisfy my appetite. Every weekend, she can't rest, so she starts washing my dirty clothes and puts clean clothes on my bedside the next morning.
Especially when I was sick, my mother poured water and handed me medicine. I had to get up in the middle of the night to see if the quilt was covered ... Now my parents and I are in two countries, and when I read in their letters, "Is everything all right?" The familiar and gentle tone of "remember to wear more clothes" came from the phone, and I immediately felt their concern and love for me. Indeed, parents' love is like air, invisible and intangible, but I feel it all the time.
7. Expect your children to succeed. Every parent expects their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed.
My math score is 102, Chinese ... alas! 79.5 points is too little, and 54 points in science (out of 60 points) ... I came home depressed and my mother asked, "How many points did I get in the exam?" I said timidly, "I failed in the exam." Chinese 79.5, science 54, math 102. "
Just finished, my mother's face turned from sunny to cloudy, and she immediately went on the rampage. I know that storms are inevitable. Mother said angrily, "What's the matter? Aren't you always good? " I was at a loss for a moment, looking at my mother and saying falteringly, "Because I was too careless, my composition was off topic."
..... My mother began to nag again: I read books every day, how come my composition hasn't improved at all? I told you your reading didn't work. You just laughed off the joke, which didn't help your composition at all. Don't watch it in the future. What are you looking at ... Mom said that maybe she was tired and stopped suddenly, and didn't talk for a long time. I stood there in fear and didn't dare to move.
"Take out the Chinese paper and let me see how the composition is off topic?" Look at mom. Her anger seems to have subsided. I quickly took out the paper and showed it to my mother. After reading it, my mother said earnestly, "You are beside the point because you didn't write an outline of your composition first. I will teach you how to write an outline. "
For example, today's exam: topic: children with poor grades have more troubles 1. Explain the point first. 2. Give an example: troubles at home; Trouble in school 3, summary; You can tell your parents, teachers and classmates what you think. Everyone has a bright spot. Have you learned? "I said confidently," I learned. "
Mom finally smiled with satisfaction ... but I couldn't laugh. Because I am afraid of every exam, I often get food rewards, but sometimes I fail. At that time, no one could understand me and comfort me.
Mom, I want to say: how I hope you can comfort me today! Do you know how sad I was when I learned that I won the 26th place in the Chinese exam in my class? I want to cry, but men don't flick when they cry; I want to run and avoid all the people, but I am in class; I want to find a gap to drill down, but there is nowhere to find it ... alas! I have to face the reality, face the teacher's face, face the eyes of the students around me, and face your accusations when I get home ... Alas, "if you are poor, you will think about change". Whose parents don't want their children to succeed in the future? But you ignore our feelings: I sincerely hope that our parents can understand us, tolerate us and let us develop healthily.
8. It is wrong for a hen to do so. Just like some parents in real life, they just want to "wish their children success". What other children do, they force them to do what they can't do, and it backfires.
When a running African leopard catches its prey, it doesn't kill it immediately, but lets it go, and then lets the cubs chase it. If the leopard stops chasing for a while, the mother leopard will bite the leopard mercilessly until the leopard chases its prey again. Cheetah, a strict and unyielding method of educating children, is worth learning by parents.
Just let the children learn the skills they should have, and don't ask too much. Nowadays, parents treat their children by their own subjective feelings, which constantly increases the burden on their children.
They don't know that we have to open this heavy door and long for the outside world, the fresh air outside and the carefree green life and study. We don't want to be exhausted in the endless sea of questions, just want to enjoy the sunshine of knowledge with proper homework; We don't want to worry about getting high marks. We just want to walk through every beacon tower on the Great Wall of Wan Li. Today, with the rapid development of material civilization, people live in high-rise buildings and their living standards are getting higher and higher. However, there has been a phenomenon of pulling out the seedlings to encourage them, which has made us lose our colorful childhood. Although the country has continuously proposed to reduce the burden, it is getting heavier and heavier. Parents generally think so: "The more extracurricular classes, the better, and we will learn what others can do." In the face of indifference, we think deeply about what caused this phenomenon. In the final analysis, parents are too ambitious for their children, which is to pull out the seedlings and encourage them.
Parents, it is wrong to "pull out the seedlings and encourage them", so that withered grass can be revived. "I was born useful", don't expect too much, let the children have a colorful childhood.
9. It is a phenomenon for parents to hope that their children will become dragons. Combine your point of view and write a composition. I once read such a cartoon called "May their children become dragons". The young man in the picture is Zhang Qiang, a top student in Grade Two, or a "three good students"! What he does all day is to bury himself in his desk and do his homework. It was his dear mother who washed his feet. Because of the fatigue of life, although I am only in my 50 s, my hair is already gray. She devoted all her efforts to the child. I hope he can become a dragon. Look! She even washed her feet. While washing, his mother said, "As long as you study hard, take an examination of a university tomorrow, be a graduate student and be a scientist, not to mention washing your feet, I will give you stars." "I know, don't worry, I will be admitted to the university, become a scientist, do great things like Hua and Chen Yingrun and make great contributions to the country." The child added, "but I don't want to do these little things." These things are too meaningless to do! " Mother said, "Good boy, I'm relieved to have you. You must study hard, and I will take care of these little things. " Xiao Zhang said, "It's the 1980s, and we young people are pressed for time. Doing these chores every day is a waste of time and makes people look down on us. The students in our class are like this. "
Yes! What a profound social problem this cartoon reveals to us! The poor carry on the family line, and they have paid a lot of price. They are eager for their children to do great things and contribute to the country when they grow up. Parents contract everything their children can do, such as washing feet, folding quilts and washing clothes. They don't let their children do it, but only ask them to concentrate on their studies. Hope, hope! Can these children really become "dragons"? Can they really make a career for the motherland? I think this is problematic. This reminds me of a story: In the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a young man named Chen Fan who lived alone in a room with a filthy courtyard. Qin Xue, my father's good friend, saw it and criticized: "Why doesn't this boy sweep to entertain guests?" He replied, "When a man is a man, he should get rid of the world and settle down at home?" Qin Xue immediately asked tit for tat: "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" Chen Fan didn't answer, just stood there.
Yes, "if you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" Like Chen Fan, Xiao Zhang has the ambition of "sweeping the world" and wants to be a scientist and do something vigorous. However, Xiao Zhang thinks that "sweeping the house" is a trivial matter. As everyone knows, big undertakings often start from small things, and "small" things have the foundation of big undertakings. So broaden your horizons and purify your mind. Only by cleaning a house can we enthusiastically clean the world.
Xunzi said in "Persuasion": "If you don't accumulate steps, you will be thousands of miles away; Without a trickle, you can't become a river. " The little housework in my life is a trickle, one step at a time. Only by starting from small things can we be "complacent and prepared" and make great contributions to the motherland and do something vigorous for mankind in the future. Confucius put it well, "Don't do it with kindness and smallness". If those ambitious young people are determined to do things for the motherland, then those parents in the world will never look down on these little things in life.
10. I am eager for my mother's composition. My mother is in her thirties this year, and she has a pair of nearsighted glasses on her nose. She is quiet, upright and generous. Because of various reasons, she didn't go to college, and now she is always dissatisfied with her work and feels that she has not become a success, so she places her hopes on me and cares about all aspects of my study. She is a typical ambitious mother. In order to realize her wish and make me successful, my mother has to do homework, roll paper, exercise, read, copy words, make sentences and so on. Sometimes I feel tired and bored when I write these homework, and I don't want to write.
Once, I said to my mother, "Why do you make me so tired and bitter?" Mom: "I'm trying to make you successful." So whenever I feel tired of writing my mother's homework, I remember what my mother said, so I just bite the bullet and stick to it. Needless to say, my mother has really played a certain role in my study, and my academic performance has been greatly improved, making my study more energetic. I have no secret determination and must work hard for my mother's hope. My mother bought me a piano for my success and sent me to the piano teacher's house to learn piano every Saturday. Once, it was cold and snowy outside, and I didn't want to learn piano. My mother patiently said to me, "son, if you want to learn the piano well, you must endure hardships and overcome difficulties, no matter how cold the weather is." That's nothing. You must keep studying, you are a good boy. " After listening to my mother's words, I put on my down jacket and left without saying anything. Every time I come back from studying piano, my mother urges me to practice. I played again and again until my mother was satisfied. I also took part in English remedial classes and oral composition classes. For my study, my mother takes great pains to pick me up and drop me off every day. Although I am only nine years old, I have understood my mother's painstaking efforts, so I will use practical actions to realize my mother's wish of "wishing her children success".