The main essence of a girl's rich upbringing is to take her in and out of various occasions from an early age, broaden her horizons and increase her ability to read the world, thus greatly enhancing her knowledge. In this way, when she is the same age, she will not be easily captured by the prosperity and vanity of various floating worlds. Because she has seen too much, she will not be easily tempted.
For example, a girl who has never seen the world, under the sugar-coated cannonball of a dude, is likely to be tempted by material things and defeated by gorgeous rhetoric, which rashly decides her life and leads to some irreparable tragedies. The "rich" girl, because she is well informed, independent, opinionated and intelligent, knows exactly what she wants and what she really deserves to pursue.
As for boys, we should cultivate their hard work and simplicity, hard-working style, kindness and filial piety from an early age. Here, of course, it means that there are material restrictions on him. Despite the harsh living environment and cruel social competition, he can still stand proudly and create his own sky. Spiritual cultivation is indispensable. Secondly, the idea of respecting the old and loving the young must be instilled from an early age. Don't look at his beloved relatives coldly just because he has heard too much pillow talk.