It is a kind of life wisdom to live with a normal heart and keep a calm mind at all times.
Life is only over thirty thousand days. How to live is the best way to live? Need to do the following three things.
Don't keep up with the joneses, live in the present role.
Read such a fable:
One day, the prince went for a walk in the garden alone. He was surprised to find that the garden was desolate.
It turned out that the oak tree was not as tall and straight as the pine tree, so it committed suicide and died; Pine trees died, too, because they couldn't stand on the shelf like grapes and produce beautiful and lovely flowers like peach trees.
Morning glory also fell ill, because it sighed that it did not have the fragrance of lilacs; The rest of the plants are also depressed and listless.
Only one grass grows luxuriantly.
The prince asked: Grass, why are you so brave, optimistic and not depressed?
The grass replied: Prince, I am not discouraged, because I know that if you want an oak tree, or a pine tree, a bunch of grapes, a morning glory, a clove and so on. You will naturally ask the gardener to plant them, and I know that your hope for me is to be a little peace of mind grass!
Xin 'an grass thrives because it is a good grass with peace of mind, and grass also has its own unique charm.
In real life, we often feel that life is very tired, a small part of which is due to the pressure of survival, and more than half is due to comparing with others.
As the saying goes, "people are more angry than people." In daily life, how many people envy others who can live in a bigger house, drive a better car and use more expensive luxury goods than themselves, but forget their original happiness.
People often turn a blind eye to their own beauty and uniqueness and think that the beauty of others is dazzling.
In fact, the beauty of others may not be suitable for you.
Uncontrolled comparison, without self-measurement, will bring too much psychological load to oneself, which will greatly reduce the happiness and beauty of life.
To survive in society, we must learn not to keep up with the joneses, and live in our present role, the wonderful life of live high.
Let go of stubbornness, flexibility is the virtue.
There are two young people going out to work.
After a year's hard work, they got nothing. They had no choice but to go home.
On the way home, they accidentally found several bags of cotton, and were overjoyed, so each of them carried a bag and continued on their way.
When good luck comes, God will care.
After walking for a few days, they found several big bags of silk on a remote road. Silk is more valuable than cotton.
A young man suggested throwing away cotton and taking silk home. The other guy disagreed, but thought he had walked so far with cotton on his back. If he gave up like this, wouldn't the previous days be in vain?
Later, in a mine next to a narrow path, they accidentally found a pile of golden substances that looked like gold.
The young man with silk on his back threw away the silk and replaced it with gold; The other hesitated, thought it might not be gold, and finally decided to carry the cotton back.
As a result, the young man with gold on his back became a local rich man and didn't have to worry about his life for the rest of his life. The young man with cotton on his back almost broke his head because of his stubbornness.
This story tells us: If we always look at life and work with the same wrong ideas and don't know how to change according to the changes in the environment, then life is doomed to failure.
In Li Kaifu's life, he wisely gave up twice.
His first abandonment was to change his major at university.
When he was in middle school, Li Kaifu wanted to be a lawyer, so the university chose to study political science and mathematics.
When he found himself unable to lift his spirits and find passion and motivation in professional classes, he resolutely transferred to his favorite computer major.
His second abandonment was after he got his doctorate. At that time, he could stay and teach at Carnegie Mellon University, where the computer science department is the top in the world.
However, Kai-Fu Lee believes that it is not in line with his ideal to spend most of his time on how to get tenure and how to issue papers. He hopes to do something directly beneficial to society.
As a result, he gave up this well-paid and stable job and went to Apple. Later, he developed widely used technologies and products.
We often think that human success lies in persistence, and giving up means losing; But in fact, before you insist, it is also important to see if your persistence is meaningful.
Sometimes, flexibility is a virtue, and giving up bravely is another persistence.
When faced with something that doesn't suit you, giving up doesn't mean failure. More like a new beginning, a choice of life.
Don't be stubborn about things that don't suit you, but be flexible, so that you can get the life you really want.
Simple life brings happiness.
Yan Ni and Marx are a couple in trouble, and they love each other very much.
In the gray period of Marx's exclusion, their family could only rely on sweet potatoes to satisfy their hunger. On a cold winter night, the family huddled in a small bed.
The paper written by Marx could not be sent to the city because of insufficient postage; Because there is no money, children have to drop out of school, and even because there is no money to treat diseases, sick children die at home.
But in this painful environment, Yan Ni said that her happiest and happiest time was sorting out scribbled notes for Marx under the lamp.
Fate made Yan Ni understand the sufferings of the world. She is a person who knows the true meaning of life and enjoys it. She can still feel happy and happy in a bad environment.
The bitterness or joy of life is completely contained in the breadth of vision.
It is the principle of our ancient philosophers to settle down.
Don't get carried away in a comfortable and pleasant environment; When you are in a bad and painful environment, I believe that tomorrow will come soon.
Modern people live in a complex society every day, and the tense and high-speed rhythm makes people seldom relax.
In fact, many people who have made great achievements in a certain field often hold a "simple life" attitude and treat life with a calm and indifferent attitude.
Some successful entrepreneurs are unwilling to be interviewed by the media, but implement new business plans in a down-to-earth manner;
Some researchers are not complacent because of their remarkable achievements, and they spread it everywhere. In order to complete the new scientific research project, they continued to work selflessly in the laboratory.
Many times, it is easier to succeed by simply doing things, eliminating external interference and focusing on what you are interested in.
Happiness often lies in simple daily life.
I believe you can easily find that a beautiful music and a favorite song will relieve people's depressed mood; A cup of tea or coffee on the table will make you feel particularly relaxed.
It is a kind of life wisdom to live with a normal heart and keep a calm mind at all times.
Happiness is what everyone is pursuing, and life is fair to everyone.
Don't climb up, live in the present role; Let go of stubbornness and know how to be flexible; Live a simple life and enjoy the hardships and little "luck" in life.
You will find that we have a good time every day.