Mrs. woodchuck measures her happiness with her neighbor's wife's ruler, so of course she won't feel happy. Because different people's understanding of the meaning of happiness and the criteria for judging happiness are different, only by measuring yourself with a ruler suitable for your own reality will you find that you are actually very happy.
Happiness varies from person to person, and you must use your own ruler to measure it before you know whether you are really happy. If you measure yourself by the surprise of others, the result is often inaccurate. For farmers, harvesting food is great happiness; For workers, being able to produce high-quality goods is happiness; For teachers, being able to be full of peaches and plums is happiness; If you measure workers with the ruler of farmers' happiness and teachers with the ruler of workers' happiness, then they will get nothing and they will not be happy. But in fact, they have made gratifying achievements in their respective fields and are all happy. So we must measure ourselves with our own ruler, so that we can know whether we are really happy.
Measure yourself with your own ruler, and you will find that you are actually very happy. When the poor envy the wealth of the rich, he often ignores his own happiness. The rich can buy expensive drugs, but they can't buy the health of the poor, and the poor should be happy about it; The rich can buy delicacies, but they can't buy the poor's good appetite, so the poor should be happy about it. However, if the poor measure themselves by the standards of the rich and find that they are eating cheap drugs and inferior food, then the poor will never feel happy. So you must measure yourself by your own standards, and you will find that you also have a lot of wealth that others don't have, so that you will feel happy. Your salary has gone up this month. You feel happy and happy. But if you compare with people who earn more than you, will you still feel happy?
Use your own ruler to measure your happiness, and you can really find your happiness; Measure your success with your own ruler, and you will find that you also have impressive achievements; Measure your future with your own ruler, and you will find that you have a bright future. Remember not to measure yourself with someone else's ruler, or you won't have a trace of happiness. All you can see is the gap. Measure your happiness with your own ruler!
Lily blooms in my heart.
Dou Jinjin
I don't understand: "why is the life of others always sweet?" Why are flowers blooming everywhere in other people's lives? When will my life be happy? When will my flowers bloom? " Now, I finally find that happiness is not far away from us, but we have not found a ruler to measure it. When you find a ruler of your own, your happiness will come, and the lilies in your heart have blossomed.
If you are depressed and sad because of physical defects, how do you understand Hawking's life? The old man with high hemiplegia below the neck smiles at the arrival of sunshine every day, and walks firmly in the field of physical research step by step with a steady and steady heart. He never envies other people's tall and sensitive limbs, he never complains about his own defects, and he will not think that life is no longer beautiful because of this defect. Because he found his own ruler, he measured his life with this ruler, measuring satisfaction and happiness. With this ruler, Hawking jumps in the face of the rapid changes of others and looks for happiness waiting for him in physics. In Cambridge, touched by the sunset, a serene old man smiled and stared into the distance from time to time. The happiness in his eyes makes everyone see that the lily in his heart has never withered and is in full bloom.
If something happens to your family, you are so sad that you spend all day in Lacrimosa to drown your sorrows. Do you know how Luo Yingzhen came along? When two people walked together, they should have worked together to support a small world. However, Luo Yingzhen's marriage has brought all-weather care to her husband who has become a vegetable. Who will feel the word "happiness" from more than 700 days and nights of hard work? Our good police sister-in-law Luo Yingzhen never lacks happiness and love in her efforts. Because she found a ruler to measure happiness. In the tears of writing to her husband, she can feel the power of love, and she can feel the unusual happiness brought by this heavy love. At the moment when her husband finally opened his eyes, in Luo Yingzhen's excited tears, we can be sure that there is no shortage of happiness in her life, and the lilies in her heart are blooming in the storm.
As a clump of grass, we should not envy the stalwart of green trees, but should fully display our precious turquoise; Be a little star, don't envy the bright moon, let your mood shine with your own crystal lamp; If you are a woodchuck, don't envy the cleverness of the fox and the bravery of the eagle, but enjoy the hidden happiness in the plain life.
Don't always feel that happiness is too far away from us. As long as you find your own ruler to measure your happiness, in fact, it is not far away from us, and the lily in your heart will definitely bloom.
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