He was 27 years old when I first met him. He is preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. After graduating from a famous university at the age of 23, I have never had a job, and I have been running around the world, euphemistically learning the culture and knowledge of various countries, and preparing for future graduate research projects.

Fortunately, his family is relatively well-off and can provide him with this.

After the contact, he talked about the future arrangement. After the graduate student finished reading, he found a job as a teacher and asked me to wait for him for two years.

I believe it. Later, because he went to England for postgraduate study, we got a certificate to accompany him for postgraduate study.

Because it is a short-term visa, I can't find a full-time job and can only work in the UK. He goes to school at home and writes papers.

Later, I gradually discovered that he didn't just love reading. Reading is his comfort zone. He can do nothing but read. I don't know how to be a man or how to make friends. For example, if he wants his paper to be perfect, he asks his classmates to help him revise it. After a long time, his classmates were unwilling, and he also had a paper to write. Why should I waste time on you? The result you got had nothing to do with me, and later he turned him down. He lost his temper at home, scolded that classmate and blacked that classmate. I said that others are also students, and I have no obligation to help you correct them. He called me crazy, right or wrong.

When he met some unhappy things, he called his mother, scolded her and scolded her sister, and insisted that his father was cheating (in fact, he didn't), blaming all the unhappiness on his family. After shopping outside twice, he suddenly thought of something unpleasant, called home and scolded his mother until he lay on the ground and called an ambulance.

When we were together, calling an ambulance was staged about four times.

I had a video call with the professor at home, and there was a little noise nearby. After hanging up the phone, I flew into a rage at home, saying that I would ruin his future and his life. The professor won't feel anything at all if I say a little noise. He was even more angry, thinking that I not only ruined him, but also didn't think he was wrong.

There are countless similar things.

During that time, I was very tired, but I still had illusions about him. I think he has no social experience and his mind is immature. Maybe he will change after work.

However, after finishing graduate school, I still don't intend to find a job after returning to China, saying that I will go back to the UK to study for a doctorate. I don't agree with ten thousand people. I was exhausted during graduate school. I work until 9 o'clock every day and go home. When I got home, the first thing he said to me was that I was hungry and asked me to cook quickly. Besides cooking, I have to undertake all the housework. According to his mother, he can't do any housework well. Instead of teaching him to do it, it is better to do it yourself faster and more worry-free. I'm tired of this life, and I just want to find a stable job.

Later, his family took turns to persuade me and promised me that I would go to graduate school if I was willing to accompany me.

I was weak-willed, so I gave in under their repeated persuasion, and we returned to England.

At this time, he is 3 1 year old and has finished reading 34-35 of the outline. Economic independence is far away. Although I didn't have any financial pressure at home, I was only 26 years old at that time, but the pressure was too great to accompany someone who didn't want to go out of society and take on family responsibilities. At this time, the idea of leaving him officially began.

He hasn't changed during his PhD. Before coming to England, he said that he could work for the school and earn money when he was studying for a PhD. When he did come, he still didn't want to do anything and spent a lot of money at home.

Later, I was admitted to the graduate school of the same school. After writing my graduation thesis and handing it in, I went back to China without looking back. I didn't bring anything, and I didn't want anything. Just leave him.

A lot of dog blood happened later. His parents want to keep me, give me money, persuade me to have a baby, and say that he will be responsible for it. At this time, I don't believe in any promises, and I don't want money or any compensation. His parents just want someone to take care of their son, and I don't want to give them any chance. When they found that they couldn't keep me, they got back the money I still left in England. The first time I was weak, I was scolded by them. I want to give it back to your worthless son, but I don't want to go to England. Besides, I'm working myself, so I won't let you compensate me for my loss. How dare you come to me for money?

After a year of seesaw, I finally got a successful divorce.

Two years later, my husband and I remarried. We all have stable jobs and incomes. We buy a house together and decorate our new house together. Now that we are pregnant with a baby, everything is fine in life.

As for my ex-husband, I heard that he fell in love with a little Filipino girl less than half a year after returning to China, and got married six months later, which is quite good. He won't leave himself alone.

I went to FB a while ago and saw his news. I finally graduated with a doctorate this year. I wonder if I have a job. He is 39 years old this year.