Life is always faced with the challenge of despair. To live is to struggle with life. The meaning of success lies in turning despair into hope.
In desperation, only oneself can save himself. There was once an admirable American mountaineer. When climbing Mont Blanc alone, my right hand was pinned down by falling rocks. In the face of desperation, he resolutely cut off his right hand and went down the mountain for help. It may be unwise to wait when there is no way out. Many times, after being cornered, you can only do nothing. When you are desperate, you should learn to rely on yourself and look for hope by yourself, just like a donkey falling into a dry well. The condition of fighting in life is to prove yourself by yourself, because you are the only guide out of the corner!
Remember Hemingway's San Diego in The Old Man and the Sea? The old fisherman was lonely, unhappy, poor and old, but he said, "People are not born to be defeated." His words are simple but full of power, and his eyes are "blue as the sea, happy but not depressed". Even if he didn't catch a fish for 84 days in a row, even the only boy who accompanied him left him. No one believes that the old man will get anything again. But he's at sea again, and he's going out of this desperate situation on his own. He found the big fish, but he couldn't catch it by himself. He endured hunger and pain and tried his best to fight marlins and sharks. He wants to prove himself with himself, and also wants to find the hope of life with his own efforts. Although Santiago finally brought back only a fishbone, he proved himself and struggled tenaciously with the difficulties of life to get him out of the predicament. His optimism, self-confidence, courage and tenacity are a perfect release when he is cornered, so he still issued the oath of "Fish, I will accompany you until I die". The biggest shock of Santiago's literary image to readers lies in his fighting spirit in the face of despair. The taste of fighting in life lies in the potential fighting spirit in the face of seemingly insurmountable despair!
Some people say that the terrible thing about despair is that it erodes hope, and once fresh hope becomes blurred in the shadow of despair. The great spirit of mankind is the driving force to guide us out of the predicament, but this spirit comes from those seemingly hopeless situations. Romain rolland said: "I will dare to face up to the pain and respect it! Happiness deserves praise, and pain deserves praise! They are great souls who train human beings. " Despair is the source of hope. Michelangelo, Beethoven and Tolstoy in Who's Who are all brave men who dare to fight against life. Michelangelo's hardship and despair inspired his art, Beethoven's ill-fated fate made his fate, and Tolstoy's anxiety about life gave birth to anna karenine. On the road of art, they all suffered from despair, but despair has become a great force in their artistic life, which makes their faith in life and art so magical. In despair, I seized the hope of fighting against life!
The taste of life lies in fighting despair and never giving up in the face of despair. This is the indomitable great spirit of mankind. More importantly, despair creates hope, which leads us to higher achievements and makes us real life gladiators!
In desperation, find yourself an exit.
There is a story in the Bible: two travelers got lost in the desert. One of them went to look for water, left a gun for the other, and asked him to fire one shot every hour to guide him back. Six hours later, seeing that there was little hope of his companion coming back, the gunman shot the last bullet into his head. At this moment, his companion is driving back with water. ...
I am deeply sorry, because this story has the reality that the same tragedy keeps happening. Ruan, San Mao, Haizi ... There are many famous and unknown people who feel that they are in a desperate and isolated situation, so they choose the same ending in different ways.
Indeed, when people encounter setbacks and difficulties, it is easy to fall into a fabricated so-called "desperate situation." However, who can draw a line under "despair"? Who can be sure that there is no turning point in the "desperate situation"? I believe everyone can find an exit for themselves in a desperate situation.
Looking for an exit in a desperate situation, always believe in the land of hope. If you walk in the desert, tell yourself there is an oasis ahead; If you are in the dark, tell yourself that there is a lighthouse ahead; If you are hungry and cold, please tell yourself that there must be a wisp of kitchen smoke ahead. Life is always a joke, and no one can always smile. However, some people have cried and laughed, and some people can't laugh after crying. "As long as the stars in the sky are still shining, we don't have to be afraid of the ups and downs of life." In order to pursue his ideal art, Miller gave up the money of art, so that he once fell into the abyss of poverty, distress and despair. However, he did not shrink back in despair, but went to the countryside to find creative inspiration in the beautiful nature and simple farm life. Sower and gleaner were born in despair, and Miller's art was reborn.
Looking for an exit in a desperate situation, we must explore the land of hope with our heart. The existence of hope is inevitable, but it is hidden. Finding it requires extraordinary wisdom and courage, extraordinary patience and will. Beethoven, in the desperate situation of deafness in both ears, inspired a strong desire to create, and the magnificent and tragic Ninth Symphony resounded for centuries and continues to this day; Van Gogh, in the loneliness and despair of losing the understanding of relatives and friends, shines with brilliant light of life. Sunflowers like fire have been blooming for hundreds of years and are enduring for a long time; Marx expelled him from all governments, whether autocratic or * * * and the government; The bourgeoisie, whether conservative or ultra-democratic, are scrambling to slander him and curse him. In desperation, the producer's manifesto finally broke the historical haze. They are the embodiment of wisdom and courage, and also the proof of patience and will.
The history of human progress is like advancing in the wilderness, and despair may occur at any time. But please believe that the dawn will eventually break through the blockade of the night; Rain and dew will eventually moisten the dry land. With the strength of human beings, we will certainly find a bright exit!
The power to reverse life and death
No setback comes with a smile, but some setbacks can be conquered with a smile. Some people can't walk out of the shadow of frustration all their lives because they forget to smile with a calm heart.
Thousands of years ago, Lao Tzu said, "Misfortune is a blessing; Blessed, disaster is just around the corner. "Destiny can be transformed into each other under certain conditions, that is, the emotion of never giving up supported by optimism.
Nineteen years of humiliating imprisonment can be regarded as a setback, but Gou Jian finally made a comeback with perseverance. It can be regarded as a setback to be imprisoned when advice is most unpleasant, but Sima Qian completed his masterpiece Historical Records with extraordinary will. Everyone will encounter setbacks in life. Some people can go down in history because they don't give up on themselves in the face of setbacks, but turn them into motivation to succeed with the right attitude.
Han Xin ordered people to fight back, but the result was a surprise attack. In a sense, everyone has the potential to surpass himself, and this potential is often stimulated in desperation. But this does not mean that adversity is more conducive to people's growth. Without a quiet heart to think, many people often choose to give up.
Unfortunately, Sun Bin lost his patella, but he never gave up because he had self-knowledge and self-confidence. He knows that his physical defects will not affect his outstanding military talents, and he is confident that one day he can be a gentleman and use his own travel to get justice for himself. Finally, he finally succeeded.
No one has the obligation to help you at any time, and no one needs to put you first at any time. Life is about being responsible for yourself. It's just that many times, external factors will interfere with people and make people unconsciously rely on them. People who can really succeed are often those who can abandon these dependencies and work hard on their own.
How easy is it to face up to the crisis without chaos? The ancients said, "Give up one's life and be born later", which contains profound mystery. Reversing the powerful source of life and death is an optimistic and calm state of mind.
Always face life with a smile, and life will eventually give you the same happiness!