Self-testifying prophecy: When people believe that something will happen (in fact, it may not happen), then it will really happen in the end. The operating mechanism of self-testifying prophecy is quite chaotic: good things are rarely regarded as quick success and instant benefit, but bad things can often be made out of nothing. But it is not impossible to explain clearly: perhaps this is also related to the deep-rooted "fear" psychology in the human brain. Relatively speaking, happiness will make a person stop acting to enjoy happiness, while fear, on the other hand, will trigger a person to take immediate action to avoid danger-although sometimes it is counterproductive (to put it bluntly, decisions made out of fear are almost always counterproductive). The way to get rid of this "curse" is not to tell yourself every day that "people will succeed!" Just telling myself "I will succeed" is a waste of time, because it is useless. So I think the apparent success is unreliable. The correct way is to forget it and stop thinking about it-let it go. My advice to students is that if you accidentally think of it, hum the Beatles' song "Let it be". Hum, I will go to work soon. Li Xiaolai

Self-fulfilling prophecy (English: self-fulfilling prophecy; Also known as "self-fulfilling prophecy" or "self-fulfilling prophecy", it is a social psychological phenomenon put forward by American sociologist Robert King Morton, which refers to people's preconceived judgment, whether it is correct or not, which will affect people's behavior more or less and make this judgment finally come true. In layman's terms, self-certification prophecy means that we will always make our predictions come true inadvertently. Positive feedback between belief and behavior is considered to be the main reason why self-realization prophecy comes true.