? We also firmly believe that the significance of reading a book a hundred times is self-evident. For most people with average qualifications, this is also a helpless way.
? The experience formed in childhood learning will naturally affect a person's way of thinking and behavior. In the battlefield of life, we always feel that as long as we work hard, our efforts will be rewarded.
? Actually, it is not. On the journey of life, choice is often more important than hard work. Moreover, the wisest choice in life is to give full play to your strengths, not to make up for your shortcomings.
? Writer Mai Jia wrote in "Strive for Genius": "Diligence can make up for stupidity. What's the use of clumsiness? If you insist on making up, it is equal to the south, which pot is not open, which pot is equal to discovering talents and then doing the opposite, which is equal to murdering yourself. " If people can't do what they can, the more they insist on "mending after the sheep is dead", the more they lose themselves, the greater the harm.
? Does the above passage give people a refreshing feeling? For those who are still obsessed with making up for their mistakes, is there an enlightening effect?
? In fact, making up for mistakes is a kind of perfectionism. Everything is born with its own merits. The most important thing is not to turn your natural shortcomings into something similar to others.
? People with art have a place anywhere. As long as you give full play to your strengths and do what you are good at to the extreme, you will have a foothold.
? The reason why people's mentality is unbalanced often lies in comparison. Stupid people always compare their inferiority with others' superiority, while smart people always compare their superiority with others.
? You can't get good grades if you struggle with your own shortcomings and don't talk about them. It is wise to use your own strengths to fight against the shortcomings of others.
? The horse racing story in Tianji is a classic case of two thousand years ago, which has profound implications.
? Sima Qian in the Western Han Dynasty, Historical Records? "Sun Tzu's Art of War, Biography of Wuqi" "Sun Tzu said:' This gentleman is better than him, better than him, better than him, better than him. "Three generations later, Tian Ji won again. He won Wang Qianjin."
? You see, Sun Bin's idea of Tian Ji is a vivid and long-term good plan.
? Today, there are still people who insist on their own opinions and insist on being better than others at any time, any place and anything. This is really against the sky!
? No one is perfect, and gold is not enough. It's normal. With a normal heart, calmly give play to their own advantages and achieve excellent results in a certain aspect, they will be very satisfied, that is, a happy life. Never expect to be better than others anytime and anywhere.
? A leopard cannot change his spots. Some people are born with superior intelligence, but they are not good at getting along with others. Some people are naturally versatile, long-sleeved and good at dealing with interpersonal relationships, but they can't do things.
? We should know and understand realistically, some are clumsy, and no matter how hard we try, we can't make up for them, and some are clumsy and there is no need to make up for them. Life is short, time is limited, and energy is limited. Why should we compete with our own shortcomings? Why not give full play to your strengths and study and work happily?