People are always full of hope and longing when they are alive!

Some people want to find their own happiness, some people want to live their ideal life, and some people want to realize their dreams. ...

When people find their own happiness, live an ideal life and realize their dreams, many people will think that they must be happy!

But is this the case?

When we sincerely bless our friends, we will express our best wishes with "I wish you happiness"! So! What is happiness? Where is happiness? Why is the younger you are, the less happy you are?

"Water flows downwards and people go upwards." People always like the superior environment and always hope that they can live a better life, so many young and promising strugglers have exhausted all their strength to build and build their decadent tomorrow! In the process, some of them forgot themselves! Some forget to eat and sleep! Some are even crazy!

But throughout the ages, does it mean that everyone who goes all out and tries his best will surely achieve his goal? Is everything all right? Do they all live the life they want? Of course not! Because the reality is cruel! If you want to succeed, you must have two conditions: ability and opportunity! As a result, there are countless underachievers who have been struggling and struggling, but in the end they are reduced to Sun Shan for various reasons and are unknown on the list ... In their consciousness, they are not happy themselves. However, those successful people, are they happy?

People's desires are always endless. Even when those successful people reap certain fruits of victory, they can't feel-or can't calm down-that it's too late to feel happiness!

Because when victory is before them, they will think of more and more gains ... so they start to be busy and nervous again, and they don't realize the existence of happiness.

So what is happiness?

In fact, happiness is easy to understand! "Happiness" refers to people's mental state and mentality. ...

For example, when you are in a hot summer, the heat is unbearable. Suddenly there is a cool breeze blowing, so when you lie in bed, you will feel "cool" is an unparalleled enjoyment! Because before that, you have been enduring the heat!

For another example, when you work continuously for more than 20 hours and suddenly say that you can sleep, you will feel how comfortable it is to sleep in bed! Because before that, you have been suffering from fatigue!

For example, if you are hungry for two days, suddenly you will be given a table of food and wine. Then, at the moment you eat, you will feel how delicious the food is! Because until then, you have been starving!

Let's understand "happiness" like this! That is: after all kinds of hardships and bloodshed, after the contest and wandering between life and death, you finally got rid of the pursuit and temptation of material things! I found my original self again, and really realized the moment when everything was true and sincere. ...

The feeling of that moment, we call it "happiness"!

"Happiness" is actually very simple. As long as you can put aside all desires and luxuries, feel truth and sincerity with your heart, and feel the existence of things, then "happiness" is easy to get!

For example, when you are in a particularly bad mood, one of your friends sincerely asks you, "What's the matter? Why are you unhappy? Can you tell me what you are thinking? I will help you! "

Then, at that moment, you must feel grateful and warm. Then, at that moment, you already have "happiness"!

For another example, when you are wandering on the road, you suddenly see a scenery that can please you. That scenery can make you linger and give up your troubles. Then, when you appreciate it, you already have "happiness"!

Happiness is that simple!

"Happiness" is really out of reach! Things are always like this-right in front of your eyes, but you never know!

Because true happiness always comes from those heartbreaking pains-that is to say, a person who knows happiness always has to experience many things that make him timid, chilling and unbelievable-to be more specific-it is when a person loses many beautiful and irreparable things-that he can truly realize what "happiness" is!

Because, only when people lose a lot of beautiful and irreparable things-he will really know how to cherish what he has not lost. At this time, they don't value and care so much about their desires and extravagant demands! With this mentality-he will truly realize what "happiness" is!

So, dear friends, if you are suffering from pain and destruction at the moment, please remember that it is today's pain that will bring tomorrow's happiness!

Pain and happiness coexist. When we are in pain, we firmly believe that happiness is coming!

Beginning: Emotional matters should not be used to force yourself and others like this. After all, the other person's situation is different from yours. The other person's personality. Your way of dealing with things is different from yours. Regarding happiness, we would rather "see the sage Si Qi"; Introspection without seeing a saint ",instead of sending the unfortunate cases you have observed to your mind. Luck and misfortune are often only between thoughts. Look at happiness and misfortune from another angle! When you see others happy, you might as well ask them the way to success in running a happy life, so that you can have a chance to learn. When you see other people's misfortunes, in addition to sympathy, calm down and look on coldly, find out the clues that cause these misfortunes and deal with them yourself. Happiness is a habit. A small gesture, a way of thinking, a reflective action ... for a long time, you unconsciously approach happiness. Relatively speaking, unhappiness is also the accumulation of negative habits. It makes you farther and farther away from happiness. What is happiness? What is happiness? Everyone has been pursuing happiness for thousands of years, and people with different experiences have different feelings about happiness, but there are many ways to be happy, and the feeling of happiness is the same. "In fact, each of us lives in happiness, so don't expect too much from happiness. Happiness lies in the plain life. The ancients said that "contentment is always happy" is actually a kind of happiness. As long as you live happily in the plain, this is the greatest happiness. Happiness goes both ways. In the pursuit of happiness, everyone should care about others and give them happiness. If they blindly pursue their own happiness, they may hurt others. Therefore, happiness is relative and equal. For a long time, I didn't know what happiness was. I understood the meaning of these two words when I was very young, but now, I can't feel them. As usual, I lead a dull life. I am in a hurry to go to and from school every day, plus heavy homework and pressure. I don't even have the usual calm mood, and my mood is really depressed, let alone the feeling of happiness. Although I have parents' care and excellent teachers around me, I can't be happy. Looking at people coming and going in the street every day, smiling faces, I always wonder why they are so full and happy. Are they happy? I have never understood what happiness is. I have always longed for happiness, and I am eager to enjoy the happiness that others say and touch. I always thought that I had never enjoyed happiness, but I didn't know that happiness had been patronizing everyone, including me. Life is like a winding path, surrounded by fragrant flowers, butterflies flying and delicious fruits, but many of us would rather go far away to find happiness than enjoy the happiness in front of us. We all long for the "golden jar" of perfect and eternal happiness in life, but we turn a blind eye to the details that are not enough to be realized, and turn a blind eye to the bits and pieces that cannot be achieved in one step. In fact, happiness is around us, but it often appears bit by bit. When we collect it grain by grain, we will soon fill a basket. Happiness exists in subtleties, so you should feel it with your heart. At this moment, what little happiness are there around me? The end: happiness is so simple. As long as you are good at discovering it with the eyes of discovery, experiencing it with a calm heart and storing it with a contented mind, you can complain less about life and be more calm, and the feeling of happiness will always be around you. Think about it, happiness is actually very shallow. Maybe we can really do something. Bring the warmth that others want in the details that are within your reach, in the life that you never care about. Happiness has no bottom line, and happiness has no limit. Stand up straight, take control of your own destiny, fight it and declare war on it! There is no end to struggle, and there is no end to pursuit. Create and enjoy real happiness in struggle and pursuit! When we are happy, we should say to ourselves: Please remember this moment! Happiness will accompany us for a long time. Then we will be happier! Therefore, in the harvest season, don't think about the possible disaster year, we still have a long winter to think about. We will dance and sing with our friends to express our joy. Now that the seed has repaid the sweat, we have the right to immerse ourselves in happiness. Never mind the future wind, frost, rain and snow, let's grind wheat into flour and bake a delicious bread first. So, when we meet from the ends of the earth, please don't hesitate to leave after a while. In the long years to come, there will be countless lonely nights to taste sadness alone. Now every minute, let it burn into a happy light blue flame like pure alcohol, leaving no residue. Let's raise our glasses and say: We are happy. Therefore, when we are waiting at the knees of our elderly parents, you should have the courage to say to yourself: I am very happy, even if their temples are gray, even if they are old. Because heaven and earth are impermanent, one day you will lose them and regret this moment infinitely. Happiness is not synchronized with wealth, status, prestige and marriage, it is just your inner feeling. Therefore, when we have nothing, we can also say: I am very happy because we still have a healthy body. When we no longer enjoy health, the bravest people can still smile and say: I am happy because I still have a healthy heart. Even when we are connected with each other, the best molecules of human beings can still say loudly to the universe: I am happy because I have lived. Always remind yourself to pay attention to happiness, just like watching the sun on a cold day, your heart will be warm and bright unconsciously. Viewpoint: Happiness is the feeling when people's desires are satisfied or partially satisfied, and it is a kind of spiritual pleasure. There are many kinds of happiness. For example, family harmony is called happiness, mutual care between lovers is also called happiness, and an environment rich in material life can also be called happiness. Happiness lies in the plain life. Happiness is your feeling, not others' evaluation. Happiness is to send a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand. Happiness is a piece of cake in poverty, and it is a soul mate in adversity. Happiness is dancing and singing with friends to express happiness. Happiness is that we get together from the ends of the earth. Happiness is waiting at the knees of elderly parents. Happiness is having a healthy body and a healthy mind. Happiness is living. Happiness is the courage to support people to live. Happiness is the fruit of hard work. Happiness is the compass for vagrants to go home. Happiness makes people see the guidance of hope in adversity. Argument: Happiness lies in a plain life: a young man mopes all day and laments the misfortunes in the world. He doesn't have the wealth of the rich. One day, an immortal said to him, "Young man, give me your hand and I will give you a lot of money." The young man thought for a moment: how can I cook and do things for you myself? No way! The fairy said, "Then give me your leg and I will give you a lot of money." The young man thought for a moment: can't walk, can't move, or can't. The fairy smiled and said, "Young man, you are so happy! Your hands and legs can't be bought by your rich family! " "Yes, the young man is very happy. Not only does he have "great wealth", he just doesn't realize it. Many times, just like this young man, we lack the discovery of happiness around us. Happiness is helping others: there is a fable that there are four rich children. Although their family was rich, they didn't feel happier than others, so they began to look for happiness. They ask everywhere what happiness is. Someone replied: living in a luxury villa is happiness; Someone replied: driving a famous car is happiness; Others replied: It is happiness to eat delicious food without labor every day. Obviously, these answers are not what they want. They were disappointed and had to keep looking. Finally, they came to a desert island and found an old man. The old man didn't tell them what happiness was, but asked them: Children, do something for me. The children said that as long as you can tell us what happiness is, don't say one thing, ten things will do. So the old man said: I have lived here for half my life and want to go outside to see what the world is like. So the children began to cut down trees and tie rafts together. On the way away, the four of them paddled and sang with Qi Xin. At this time, the old man asked them: children, are you happy? The children said in unison: I am very happy! The old man asked again: Do you feel happy? The children still replied in unison: very happy. At this time, the children realized that helping others is the foundation of happiness, and happiness is around us. A man was very lucky to get a huge and beautiful pearl, but he was not satisfied because there was a small spot on the pearl. He believes that if this dot can be deleted, it will definitely become the most precious wealth in the world. So he cut off the surface of the pearl, but the spots were still there; He peeled off one layer after another, until finally, the spots disappeared and the pearls did not exist. The man's heart ached and he couldn't afford to get sick. Before he died, he said to his family with great regret, "If I hadn't cared about that at that time, I would still be touching a beautiful pearl in my hand. "True happiness is not that we can risk lifelong regret to get rid of the tiny flaws in each other's bodies, but that we should grasp the real pearls in our hands, learn to tolerate and cherish them, and then we can feel real happiness from each other's heartstrings! Happiness is the fruit of hard work: if you want to be happy, you must pursue it and struggle. The meaning of life lies in continuous struggle, continuous pursuit and continuous progress. When you lack this spiritual quality, the meaning of your life does not exist. If the meaning of life is gone, there is no happiness. Emperor Taizong was prepared for danger in times of peace, refrained from extravagance and frugality, and constantly strived for the position of emperor, so he enjoyed the happiness of all subjects in the world during the reign of Zhenguan. Lu Xun struggled all his life and held a pen on his deathbed, so he had immortal happiness in literary works and spiritual thoughts; Beethoven was physically disabled, determined, and struggled for art all his life, so he had the happiness that the Symphony of Destiny resounded around the world. Madame Curie worked tirelessly in the front line of science and made great contributions to the scientific cause of mankind, which is why the lasting happiness of "beauty spanning a hundred years" is not satisfaction, not relaxation, not stagnation, but pursuit, struggle and perfect display of life value. Although the comfort of reality can bring temporary happiness, it is by no means true happiness. Because behind the short happiness is emptiness, and before the happiness is pain; Although occasional success can bring temporary happiness, it is not real happiness, because that kind of success means termination, and the terminated life loses its vitality. Of course, if a person only has a body of soul, there will be no permanent happiness.