Butterflies must struggle in pain until their wings are strong before they can break their pupae and fly high. A man's inappropriate love turns into a grave to bury it. Butterflies are like this, so are teenagers? Parents' doting is like a pair of cruel scissors, which will only kill children and make them never take off. As a famous poet said, "fear is fear, and love is also a kind of harm." There are many precedents in history in which spoil becomes harm. At the age of five, Zhong Yong was able to write poems and was brilliant, but with the praise and love of his parents and everyone, he finally "disappeared from everyone"; King Wuling of Zhao indulged his son and was eventually starved to death by his unfilial son. Emperor Wu of Jin indulged his son's extravagance, and his son ruled the country badly after he succeeded to the throne, and the Western Jin Dynasty went to extinction. Whether it is Zhong Yongzhi's "injury", Zhao Wuling's "sadness" or the "decline" of the Western Jin Dynasty, it is the evil result of love. "Pet" is a dragon under the cover of treasure. This dragon can't take off! Spoiling is also a beautiful pain.
On the contrary, being strict with children will not only do no harm to children, but also benefit their growth. When Wang Xizhi was a child, his father taught him to learn Chinese characters very strictly. As a result, Wang Xizhi eventually became EMI Bookstore. Barton's father asked him to study hard every morning and build an all-round character ... You know these parents don't love their children, because they know that doting is not the right love, and doting will only bring harm.
Sadly, some parents nowadays don't understand this truth. Children pretend to be innocent and lovely; The child is extravagant and says that he will make a lot of money in the future; Children talk wildly and say that they have great ambitions; If children want to pick the moon, these parents can find ladders. As everyone knows, doing so will only make children arrogant, laissez-faire, ignorant of their age and lack of collective concept. Then the "little emperor" who loves him will be a "bad king" who misses himself, his family and his country in the future!
It is beyond reproach that parents love their children. But this love should not be a cage, a honey pot or a safe. It should only be the stern eyes of parents when children indulge, the frequent exhortations of parents when children are lazy, and the inculcation of parents when children make mistakes. ..... Because only in this way can butterflies in pupae fly and naive teenagers grow up; Only in this way, love is not a kind of harm.