Confucius said that people should treat others with their own behavior as a reference.
When I first saw this sentence, I applauded. I use this sentence to exhort others in my life. I thought this was my goal. I have been shattered by reality countless times. When I really realized that I couldn't do this, scars became the only result.
People are always eloquent when comforting others, and similar situations come to you without telling others. Who can guarantee that they will not be persuaded? In this way, people constantly switch between the roles of comforter and advised.
I looked at these coldly, but I still couldn't escape. It surrounds everything like air.
Parents in the world can't do it.
When they are young or young, their unfinished dreams will always be grafted on their children, teaching them day by day and reminding them every night. This is the pressure of young people, which suppresses their wings, points out the future and is the last hope of parents' despair. Not every boy wants to be a prince in the eyes of others, cut off the thorns and only force the future for his parents. Not every girl wants to be a gentle Snow White, and all the resistance is only for the happy future of her parents. Every girl and every boy has a dream, even a bubble.
We won't do what you don't want us to do to others. When arguing, we may say, "Why don't you put yourself in my shoes?" However, no one has the obligation to think of you everywhere. You are not the boss, you don't pay him or her, and you have no right to ask others to be nice to you, even your parents. Everything is fine, because of love. So when you put others in your position, please calm down your boiling thoughts and ask yourself if you are imposing on others.
"Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" can only be my personal realm. I'm not sure whether Confucius can achieve nothing. After all, it is one thing to put forward a truth, and it is another thing to do it, even a saint!
I will bear it, my parents will want me to grow up, study, work and get married smoothly in their imagination, my siblings will want me to be sensible and sensible, and my teachers will want me to study and study again. I am like a funnel, putting down everyone's expectations, passing away silently, and then, I am still myself.
Similarly, I can't do it. I have known this for a long time. I feel lost, disappointed, sorry and confused. These feelings linger in my world like ferris wheel under the scorching sun.
We are not saints, and we can't do "don't do to others what you don't want us to do to you". The materialistic world is the only hope forgotten in the corner, and we can only wander far away.
2. Quote The Analects of Confucius to write a composition of about 700 words. "If there is a threesome, you must learn from me." "Sensitive and eager to learn, not ashamed to ask questions." This is "on"
Two things that impressed me the most. First, then, there must be my teacher among them. The latter tells us: be smart, study hard, and don't be ashamed to ask people who are not as good as yourself. Although these two sentences were written by Confucius more than 2000 years ago, they still have important guiding significance for our study today.
People are not afraid of making mistakes, as long as they have the courage to correct them. Confucius often admitted that he was inferior to his disciples in this respect or that; When words and deeds are inappropriate, once others point them out, he will apologize and correct them immediately. His disciple Zi Gong once said with emotion: The fault of a gentleman is like the food of the sun and the moon: everyone sees it; What's more, people went belly-up. ''
Confucius said, "Never tire of learning, never tire of teaching." In other words, teachers should study hard and never be satisfied with themselves; Teach students tirelessly. Confucius was quoted in The Analects of Confucius as saying, "How dare I be a saint and a benevolent person!" ! If you take pains to restrain it and teach others tirelessly, you can say that you have left. "He said, if it involves holiness and kindness, how dare I! I just never get tired of studying and working, and I never get tired of teaching students. You could say that.
In The Analects of Confucius, Confucius showed magnanimity to teenagers who made mistakes. He said, "If a person is clean, he can make progress, but if he is clean, he can't guarantee his future." This means that if someone has removed the stain and made progress, he should be praised for his cleanliness and should not be obsessed with his past. I think that if Confucius' seventy-two sages and three thousand disciples are regarded as seedlings, then Confucius is fertile soil. Together they create an oasis of life. We have been in China for more than two thousand years. This oasis has always been decorated.
Confucius believes that learning must have a clear purpose, but the key point is "applying what you have learned". Confucius said: "Recite 300 Poems and teach them to be political, not to achieve;" Make it everywhere, not just right; Although a lot, what do you think? " In other words, familiarizing himself with 300 articles of The Book of Songs and giving him political tasks failed. Send him to a foreign country, but he can't handle it independently; In this way, although the book has been read a lot, what is the use? He also said: "I am worried if I don't practice morality, don't talk about learning, and I can't migrate if I am not good at it." In other words, we are worried that we should not cultivate our own moral character, teach knowledge, do just things and correct mistakes, that is, we cannot combine theory with practice.
By studying the Analects of Confucius, I learned a lot about being a man and living in the world, and I also understood the methods and attitudes about learning and reading, which really benefited me a lot!
3. Confucius wrote a famous article "11". Confucius said, "It is all right to learn from time to time. Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? Ignorance and dissatisfaction are not gentlemen? " 1. 2. 1. A Confucius said, "He is also a filial brother, but few people like to make mistakes; It's not easy to make mistakes, but it's not easy to make mistakes.
Gentleman's business is based on inheritance and Taoism. Filial piety is also the foundation of benevolence! "⒈ 3" Confucius said: "Clever words make color, fresh and righteous!" Ceng Zi said: I save myself three times a day-are you unfaithful to others? Make friends with friends you don't trust? Can't you learn? "5. Confucius said," A country has thousands of times, respecting things and believing, saving money and loving others, making people timely. "
6. Confucius said, "A disciple is filial when he enters, and a younger brother is a younger brother when he leaves. They are sincere and believe, and people who love many people are kind. I have spare capacity to study literature. "
7. Xia Zi said: 1. A virtuous person will change color; Parents can do their best; As a gentleman, you can pass through him; Make friends and keep your word. Although I haven't studied, I will call it learning. "
1. 8. Confucius said: 1. A gentleman is not arrogant if he is not heavy; Learning is not solid. Lord is faithful.
A man without friends is worse than himself. If you pass, don't be afraid to change. "
1. 9. Zeng Zi said, "Be cautious at the end, pursue far, and people's morality will return to thick." ⒈10 ⒈⒈ Qin Zi asked Zi Gong: As for state affairs, the Lord will hear about their politics and seek peace. Depressed? Zi Gong said, "Master is gentle, courteous and frugal.
What is the master's wish and what are the requirements of others? ""⒈ 1 1 "Confucius said:" The father is there, and his will is observed; Father didn't, observe his actions; It is filial piety not to change your father's ways for three years. "1.12 1. A Confucius said that 1. Harmony is precious for the purpose of ceremony.
Wang Zhidao is the first, Sri Lanka is beautiful; Small and big. It is not feasible to do things, and it is not polite to know and make peace. "
1.13 1. A Confucius said, "If you believe in the truth, you can answer it. Politeness is closer to politeness than shame.
Because you don't lose your loved ones, you can still live in it. ⒈ 14 ⒈ Confucius said: ⒈ A gentleman can't eat enough, and he can't eat well. If he is sensitive to things and careful about what he says, he will know the truth and be eager to learn. "
⒈15 ⒈⒈⒈⒈⒈⒈⒈⒈⒈ said: "Poor without flattery, rich without arrogance?" Confucius said, "Yes; If you are not poor, you will be happy, and those who are rich and courteous will also be. " Zi Gong said, "What does the poem mean if it is as sharp as a probe and polished as a mill?" Confucius said, "If you give it, you can tell the past and know who came."
1.16. Confucius said, "If you don't suffer from people, you don't know people." 4.14. Confucius said: 4. Rule the country by virtue, and swear that Polaris will occupy its place and the stars will * * *.
2. Confucius said, "There are three hundred poems. In a word, it says' thinking naively'. " 3. Confucius said: 93 Tao is virtue, courtesy, shame and qualification. "
4. Confucius said, "Five out of ten, I am determined to learn, standing at thirty, not confused at forty, knowing my destiny at fifty, listening to my ears at sixty, and following my wishes at seventy, not exceeding the moment." "Asked xiao meng.
Confucius said, "No violation." Fan Chi told him: "Sun Meng asked me about filial piety, and I didn't violate it." Fan Chi said, "What is it?" Confucius said, "People are born with courtesy; When you die, you will be buried and sacrificed. "
"Asked filial piety into" 6 meng. Confucius said, "Parents only worry about their illness."
"7" Ziyou asks filial piety. Confucius said, "Today's filial piety means that it can be raised.
As for dogs and horses, both can be kept; Disrespect, why not? ""6. "Xiao Xia asked.
Confucius said, "Color is difficult. If something happens, the disciple will handle it; There is wine and food, sir. Have you ever thought that this is filial piety? " Confucius said, I talk back to you all day, and I don't disobey you, just like a fool.
It's enough to retire and keep your private life, but it's not stupid to come back. "6 5438+00" Confucius said, "Look at what it is, what it is and what its security is for.
What about people? What about people? "6.5438+0. 1" Confucius said: "Looking back, you can learn new things, so you can be a teacher. "4.12. Confucius said, 4. A gentleman is useless. ⒉
(4)13 (4) Zigong asked the gentleman. Confucius said, "Speak before you act."
Confucius said, a gentleman cannot compare with others, and a villain cannot compare with others. Confucius said, "Learning without thinking is useless, and thinking without learning is dangerous."
Confucius said, "If you attack heresy, you will hurt yourself." 1.17. Confucius said, 1. Shit! Teach your daughter to know! Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, but knowing. "
(4)18 (4) Zhangxuegan Road. Confucius said, "It is rare to listen to doubts more and think carefully about the rest.
If you see more dangers, if you are cautious about others, you will regret it. If you don't say anything, you will regret it, and Lu is one of them. "
⒉19 ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ ⒉ * * * refuses to accept the mistake. " Kang Zi asked, "How can we make people respect, be loyal and be diligent?" ? Confucius said, "When you are near a village, you should respect it;": Filial piety is loyalty; If you can't teach good deeds, you will be diligent. "
21or Confucius said, isn't Zi Xi a politician? Confucius said, "The book says,' Filial piety is only filial piety. You are friends with your brothers and take charge of government.' Is it also the government, and it is the government? Confucius said, People don't believe and don't know what they can do.
Without a car and a car, what can it do? Zhang Zi asked, "Do you know the tenth one?" Confucius said, "Yin gains and loses, because, so you can know; Obviously, Zhou's gains and losses are due to. Its successor, though immortal, can be named. "
24. Confucius said that offering it is a compliment unless it is a ghost. Be brave and do nothing, be brave and foolhardy. "
13. 1] Confucius called Ji. 〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉〉ԑ12297 Confucius said, "Look at each other and see the crowd, and the son of heaven sees it." [13] Confucius said, "Where is the unkind ceremony?" What's the fun of being heartless? ""4 "Fang Lin asked this gift.
Confucius said, "What a big problem! Li, who is extravagant with Qi, is quite frugal; Sad, and Qi Yi also, Ning Qi. " 13.5] Confucius said, "It is better to die in the summer than to have a monarch in the land."
[13] 6. Visit Mount Tai. The son said, "Can a woman save you?" Yes: "No."
Confucius said, "Alas! I once said that Taishan is not as good as Fang Lin? " [13] 7 There is no dispute between gentlemen in Confucius. Will shoot! Give up and drink.
Its struggle is also a gentleman. [13] 8 "Xia Zi asked," I looked forward to it with a smile, but I always thought it was beautiful.
What is this? Confucius said, "Draw hindsight." Say, "After the ceremony?" Confucius said, "Giving is also business! You can start with poetry. "
13.9] Confucius said: "Li Xia, I can say it, but I can't prove it; Li Yin, what I can say is not enough in the Song Dynasty. Lack of literature.
That's enough, then I can collect it. ""13. 10 "Confucius said," I am the one who gave up on myself.
Quote The Analects of Confucius to write a composition of about 700 words. "If there is a threesome, you must learn from me."
"Sensitive and eager to learn, not ashamed to ask questions." These are the two things that impressed me the most in The Analects.
First, then, there must be my teacher among them. The latter tells us: be smart, study hard, and don't be ashamed to ask people who are not as good as yourself.
Although these two sentences were written by Confucius more than 2000 years ago, they still have important guiding significance for our study today. People are not afraid of making mistakes, as long as they have the courage to correct them.
Confucius often admitted that he was inferior to his disciples in this respect or that; When words and deeds are inappropriate, once others point them out, he will apologize and correct them immediately. His disciple Zi Gong once said with emotion: The fault of a gentleman is like the food of the sun and the moon: everyone sees it; What's more, people went belly-up.
Confucius said, "Never tire of learning, never tire of teaching." In other words, teachers should study hard and never be satisfied with themselves; Teach students tirelessly.
Confucius was quoted in The Analects of Confucius as saying, "How dare I be a saint and a benevolent person!" ! If you take pains to restrain it and teach others tirelessly, you can say that you have left. "He said, if it involves holiness and kindness, how dare I! I just never get tired of studying and working, and I never get tired of teaching students. You could say that.
In The Analects of Confucius, Confucius showed magnanimity to teenagers who made mistakes. He said: "If a person is clean, he will be promoted. If he is clean, he will not be guaranteed to leave."
This means that if someone has removed the stain and made progress, he should be praised for his cleanliness and should not be obsessed with his past. I think that if Confucius' seventy-two sages and three thousand disciples are regarded as seedlings, then Confucius is fertile soil. Together they create an oasis of life. We have been in China for more than two thousand years.
This oasis has always been decorated with Confucius' belief that learning must have a clear purpose, but the key point is "applying what you have learned". Confucius said: "Recite 300 Poems and teach them to be political, not to achieve;" Make it everywhere, not just right; Although a lot, what do you think? " In other words, familiarizing himself with 300 articles of The Book of Songs and giving him political tasks failed. Send him to a foreign country, but he can't handle it independently; In this way, although the book has been read a lot, what is the use? He also said: "I am worried if I don't practice morality, don't talk about learning, and I can't migrate if I am not good at it."
In other words, we are worried that we should not cultivate our own moral character, teach knowledge, do just things and correct mistakes, that is, we cannot combine theory with practice. By studying the Analects of Confucius, I learned a lot about being a man and living in the world, and I also understood the methods and attitudes about learning and reading, which really benefited me a lot.
5. Middle school students should pay attention to the arrangement of structure and the tempering of language in writing, because what is the key to high score in college entrance examination composition is 1. Obviously, due to the time, the marking teacher of the college entrance examination can't read the article carefully, and can't clearly understand the writing skills of the candidates. Candidates should pay special attention to the word "obvious".
First of all, the main idea of the article should be clear. In the usual writing, some students like to write some implicit words in order to achieve the implicit beauty of literature, which has also won the favor of teachers and even published many articles. However, it is too implicit to do so in the college entrance examination, which will lead the article into a dead end and make it difficult to understand in a short time. It is easy for the marking teacher to mistake it for digression and enter the cold palace. Secondly, the arguments of the article should be clearly explained in chapters, and the sentences reflecting its central idea should be taken into account at the beginning, middle and end. The most obvious way is to put them at the beginning of the paragraph so that the reviewers can see at a glance.
For example, in 2003, the composition "Eyes on the sidelines" with full marks in Fujian college entrance examination took seven paragraphs. There is such an obvious viewpoint sentence in the first sentence of the middle paragraph: "It is conscious to look at others with a bystander's eye." "Looking at things from the perspective of a bystander is the transcendence of ideas."
There is also a passage that focuses on this point: "With the eyes of onlookers, Gu Kuang's sincere appreciation of" waiting for the easy "has made Bai Juyi, who has just shown his talent, eliminate his worries; Xu Beihong helped Fu Baoshi and strongly supported him to go abroad for further study, which made him famous. Under the watchful eye, Picasso had a heart-to-heart talk with Zhang Daqian and played a swan song of the integration of eastern and western paintings! " Do you feel uncomfortable reading such a clear and insightful article? In addition, you should also pay attention to putting the sentence you think you are most proud of at the beginning of the paragraph, or highlighting it with an inscription, or simply starting a new paragraph. 2. Fiction is fiction.
It is good to be realistic in college entrance examination composition, but it is difficult to find real and touching stories in life, because we have been living in a school-family lifestyle for a long time. The composition of the college entrance examination requires innovation, which will inevitably turn the original humble things into vivid twists and turns.
For example, in 2003, the perfect composition "Nanny and Family Education" in Hunan College Entrance Examination made up a story in the form of a short story. Based on the psychological feelings of a sociology professor, the author puts her in a skirt storm, which truly reveals her trust in the hardworking and practical nanny and her suspicion of the enthusiastic and lively tutor, but the result of the storm is beyond her expectation, thus vividly mocking the wrong tendency to recognize things with emotional intimacy.
Of course, fiction should conform to the reality of life. The nanny in Nanny and Tutor is a country girl, which seems simple. Tutor junior, love beauty. Not to mention the professor, we ordinary people should suspect that the tutor stole the skirt. Besides, the nanny is in good order and the tutor has a good chat. However, it is worth noting that novels cannot live without a foundation. 1999 The composition topics of the college entrance examination are Perseverance-the Character I Pursue and Overcoming Vulnerability. At that time, many students made up the story of "parents died" in order to win the moving eyes of the marking teacher, and also lost the morality of being a man. In 1999, they were also dubbed by the marking teacher as ". 3, the whole is the combination of the article echo, giving people a sense of wholeness.
The reader's psychology attaches great importance to the beginning, middle and end of the article, especially the structural echo of the end or the sublimation language of the theme. For example, in 2002, the composition "Red Dancing Shoes", which scored full marks in Shaanxi college entrance examination, organically arranged two clues: ① "I" took part in the composition contest with once glory and pride, and failed; Karen put on beautiful red dancing shoes and danced so selflessly that the shoes reached her feet that she had to ask for them to be cut off.
The subtlety of the article lies in skillfully advancing these two clues in parallel, alternating light and shade, and the story connotation is self-evident, forming a patchwork and complete artistic conception beauty. Finally, I used "Yes, honor is a thing of the past. Why should I be bound by it? " ? Say goodbye to the unrealistic "red dancing shoes"! Success is beckoning to you! "It tells the reasonable choice in the face of the past and reality, and buckles the topic, thus putting the two clues together completely.
It is natural for this article to get full marks. 4. Jane is a simple pen outline.
Generally, the argumentative essays or narratives of the college entrance examination should be a collection of various materials, which are informative and meet the requirements of "substantial content", so it is not welcome to describe some materials with time, place, characters, occurrence, development, * * and ending. Narrative writing in general, especially essays in the form of prose, is especially taboo to simply describe one person and one thing (except for ingenious short stories, of course), so as not to make the article go into a shallow abyss.
For example, there is such a wonderful saying in a perfect composition "Facing the Sea" in the 2002 Shanghai college entrance examination: the sea is different from the river. The river flows slowly, such as Lao Dan's "quiet and subtle, keeping mysterious and holding one"; Moreover, the vicissitudes of life have changed a lot, such as Zhuang Zhou's "Let the hole reach and escape".
The majestic potential of the sea, the pride of the sea, and the tranquility of the sea-in the face of such a sea, what I heard was Meng De's "Martyrs in their twilight years are full of courage"; What I see is a white "solitary sail from the sun"; I think of Zi Shou's "the moon is now full at sea, and the horizon is * * * at this time". Such wonderful words come from the careful tempering of materials, and the words are rich in connotation. Why not? As for the simplicity of argumentative materials, it is a well-known feature.
The stories written in the examination room should be summarized. First, it can increase the capacity of the story and explain it from multiple angles.
6. Write a 600-word argumentative essay with Confucius' famous saying: "Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, and knowing is also." This quotation is about Confucius' attitude towards learning, and of course there are other things. Confucius believed that everything should be treated with humility, sincerity and honesty. Knowing is knowing, and not knowing is not knowing. Don't pretend to know and deceive yourself.
Yes, if a person hides what he doesn't understand, pretends to understand in front of others without asking others, then he is "ignorant" and hypocritical. It is not terrible that people don't understand. The terrible thing is that they don't pretend to understand. In this world, no one is born with astronomy, geography and the past. People constantly enrich themselves in constant learning and exploration. Only by learning from others with an open mind and not being ashamed to ask questions can we make continuous progress. Seeking truth from facts has always been the consistent style advocated by our party. Ancient China is facing severe challenges. Only when we face the reality can we catch up with it and take the lead in history. Otherwise, if we are like Mr. Nan Guo, we will only be laughed at by future generations and eventually eliminated by society.
Come on! Let's study hard together, study honestly, do things in a down-to-earth way, and prepare for the challenges in the future!
7. Quote the Analects of Confucius to write a composition. The Analects of Confucius quotes five or more sentences with sincere feelings, and the number of words is about 700 words. My opinion on the Analects of Confucius.
Learning from time to time is not as good as feeling.
It can be said that "it's good to learn from time to time", which is known to everyone who has basically studied in middle school, and will be familiar to those who have not studied. Because it is the first sentence of The Analects of Confucius, it has also been included in middle school textbooks, and it has also become a golden advice on how to convince students and how to form learning methods in life.
The general meaning of this sentence is that if you review in time when you are studying, then you will enjoy your study.
But as we all know, learning is a very painful thing. No matter whether your grades are good or bad, I believe you will get more and less.
Since it is a very painful thing, I believe Confucius has also experienced it. We can see from Confucius that even if he is not completely miserable, he sometimes suffers.
When reviewing, learn the original content again. Since the original study was already painful, wouldn't it be painful to study again? I think it's better this way. It's like rubbing salt on an old wound, and there are infinitely many new troubles. How can this be happy enough?
There are several ways to be happy about one thing: 1, my own choice is what I want to do; Although it's not what I want, I gradually formed a habit and finally became a conditioned desire, just like smoking. In fact, just smoking is very painful.
So my understanding of "learning while learning is not bad" is: make it a habit when studying, so that it will not be painful and will be very happy.
The so-called habit becomes nature, and nature is happiness.
This is how we study, and so is our life and work. It is very comfortable to sleep for a while in the morning, especially in the cold morning, and it is very enjoyable to hide in a warm bed. I have a friend who is a woman and never sleeps late. She is also very busy at work. No matter how late she sleeps, she will get up early in the morning. Of course, if you sleep at dawn, that may be an exception. Later, I asked her how she did it. She said it was a habit her mother had developed for her since she was a child. It was hard not to get up. What a great mother! It can be seen how powerful habits are.
The same is true of our work. Our failure in work is not that the work itself is difficult for us, but that our habits are difficult for us. Finally, the struggle between these two aspects will have a far-reaching impact on the holders of habits, whether it is positive or negative.
Now many families attach great importance to their children's education. As long as it is for children's education, any methods and inputs will be used. In my opinion, children only need to teach them one thing, and that is to teach them how to form good habits. With this way, they will form a series of good habits, and the final study will be a matter of course, as the saying goes, "it is better to be".
Why mothers are the embodiment of a nation's quality comes from the fact that children generally spend more time with their mothers than with their fathers when they are young, and this is the time when children form the most habits. What kind of mother, what kind of children. The so-called "failure of teaching, failure of father" is debatable. In fact, the root cause is still the mother, but if there is no good habit, it is the father's responsibility to correct it, because the father will adopt "negative reinforcement" more.
It can be seen that habits are lifelong.
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