? China is one of the countries with the longest family system in the world, and the concept of family has been deeply rooted in people's hearts, which has maintained the feelings and development of a family in the long history. However, a recent website survey shows that 70% of netizens don't know the origin of their surnames, 80% of netizens' families are no longer named by seniority, 90% of netizens' families don't have family training, some netizens don't know their ancestral home and family history, and they don't have regular contact and communication with other family members. Some people think that the weak family concept and the scarcity of family culture reflect that the family culture of China people, which has lasted for thousands of years, is seriously losing; Some people think that family values are the product of farming culture, which will inevitably be impacted in the wave of modernization, and the weak family values reflect the progress of society, which is a gratifying phenomenon; Others believe that family concept is an important pillar of our traditional culture, which we should inherit and develop.

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Inherit family culture

? Family culture can not only record everyone's birth and death, but also record people's good words and deeds to inspire future generations and inherit a good family style. From ancient times to the present, almost no family has no family style, among which Fu Lei's "Family Letter" is a typical example of Fu Jia's family style inheritance and transmission to future generations. There is also a well-known person, probably Zeng Guofan, an important official in the late Qing Dynasty. Zeng Guofan once warned himself and his descendants with four words: "cultivate one's morality, keep the family in order, govern the country and level the world." He has been loyal to the country and people all his life and has never done anything against his will. His self-cultivation is extremely high and he enjoys a high reputation in North Korea, which is also the reason why he was entrusted with a heavy responsibility. He treats every member of the family very harshly, which is also the reason why the Zeng family flourished in the late Qing Dynasty.

? Nowadays, family culture has gradually disappeared. With the development of economy, people are more likely to become slaves of desire, selfish egoists, and gradually become indifferent, and family spirit is gone. At the historical juncture of realizing the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation, inheriting and carrying forward excellent family culture is of great practical significance for strengthening national cohesion, maintaining social stability and development, and realizing the complete reunification of the motherland.

? Family culture can not only reflect the development of the family, but also affect the development of the country. The Cheng family, represented by Jian Chao, is famous for its strict family instructions. They attach importance to talents and cultivate unique family culture. Therefore, there are many talents in the Cheng family. They have independent personality, indomitable quality and patriotic feelings, and are dedicated to and serve the great cause of the motherland. Family culture is the foundation of a family, which can promote family unity and form a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. It is everyone's psychological support. This means that family culture is not only a good cultural atmosphere, but also a spiritual support.

? Therefore, we must carry forward family culture and enhance family cohesion. We need to treat the family and its culture correctly, make full use of its positive factors, and make it play its full role, which is conducive to the cultural construction and development of the country. It is time for the mainstream culture to eliminate the misunderstanding of family culture for many years, and it is not appropriate to continue to hold a malicious attitude towards family culture. We should give it room to develop and let it play an active role in the construction of social ethics and the cohesion of the nation-state in the new period.

Family culture is the precipitation of a family history, the accumulation and sublimation of experience, and the development of culture needs the precipitation of history. Family culture has witnessed people's spirit of farming, reading, family heirloom and endless life, and produced thousands of descendants of Qian Qian. It is a "treasure" that a family is proud of and deserves to be passed down from generation to generation.