Flowers on this shore will not bloom on the other shore.

This side of the river sighs inside-

"I believe all the happiness is on the other side."

The other side of the river with a sigh:

"Well, maybe happiness is on the other side."

Yes, many times we think that what we don't have is beautiful, but in the process of constant pursuit of beauty, we often ignore the beauty around us. Flowers fall on this shore, will they really float to the other shore?

Many times we only see the beautiful side of others, but we don't know the helplessness and bitterness behind everyone's prosperity. When you envy other people's luxury cars, do you know how much hardship others have paid to get them? When you see the success of outstanding talents, do you know how much effort they have made? When you fantasize about becoming a superman, do you realize how much happiness ordinary people can easily get and how many times that superhero risked his life to save others? In fact, everyone's glory is at the expense of sacrifice! Before choosing someone else's path, consider whether you can bear it or not.

I only dream of the fairyland on the other side, but I can't see the danger. One sunny morning, I was flying alone in the blue sky, and Hongyan passed by me. I closed my eyes and felt comfortable in the wind. I don't know how long it took, but I landed in a huge garden full of flowers and fruits. Butterflies are flying, birds are singing and animals are walking away. This is a primitive and natural scene. This is the fairyland I have been waiting for for a long time! I wandered among them, thinking that I was finally away from all the troubles of the city and finally felt relieved. Suddenly, I felt a sharp pain. Looking down, a snake got into the grass. I suddenly felt dizzy and fell to the ground. At this moment, I realized that there were snakes in the Garden of Eden. I wish I had never been here before. Even if real life is tired and boring, there is no threat of death! However, my body is getting colder and colder ... the bell ... a sound woke me up. Oh, it was just a dream! I dream of going to a resort and living a free life, but what happened in the resort made me understand that there is no paradise at all.

Expect an unrealistic idea, because it will be shattered by reality, and only disappointment will be obtained in the end.

Violet turned herself into a rose, but died because she couldn't resist the storm. If you don't want to be a vain violet, you must learn to cherish the present.

Flowers bloom on this side, but not on the other side. It is better to praise yourself than to pursue others. After all, sometimes there are mountains outside the mountains. In fact, the things that suit you best are often around, and the most important thing is to cherish what you still have. When we look back, don't repeat the pain that we didn't know how to cherish until we lost it. ...

Test analysis: This is a profound philosophical poem. Understanding the meaning of poetry is the key. Poetry is characterized by "speaking with images", and images often come from life. When students interpret poetry, as long as they have the associative consciousness of "this and that", they will certainly be able to activate their own life accumulation and naturally connect with their own life experiences, which will produce unique feelings. At this time, they will find a breakthrough in writing, and if it makes sense, they will succeed. Specifically, if you want to write this kind of topic well, you must deeply understand the philosophy contained in poetry.

The title of this poem is Illusion. Looking up the Modern Chinese Dictionary, we know that it means an incorrect response to objective things. As far as its scope is concerned, there are physical, physiological, psychological, artistic ... rereading poems: both sides think that the other side is better than themselves-they can't see their own advantages, and they are all feeling sorry for themselves. Here we can enhance our understanding of the connotation of this poem by asking questions.

Why do Party A and Party B think alike? This is because, in comparison, they all think that happiness is on the other side, not around them, and fall into a psychological misunderstanding, thinking that what they don't have is exactly what they want; I always thought that I was not as happy as others, but I didn't know that the root of happiness came from my heart, not from others.

Is this idea correct? This is a manifestation of mental imperfection and imbalance: everyone is better off than me-whether it is money, status, reputation, or love, marriage, work, career, achievements and so on. People don't want to change the status quo by their own efforts, but always live in unrealistic fantasies, and over time they develop a morbid character of pessimism, laziness and fantasy.

How to correct this kind of psychology? Cherish the present, be content and forge ahead ...

Intentional quotation:

(1) We can further ask ourselves: Are there many such phenomena in life? Are there any contrary examples (that is, people or things who can face up to all the disappointments in life and get happiness)? In fact, in our usual study and life, this illusion is everywhere. As long as we pay attention, we can find, for example, "crops are always good for others." In society, people always "see" that others are richer, happier and happier than themselves. In fact, "every family has its own problems", and others may not be happier and happier than themselves.

(2) People should get out of the trap they create, don't blindly follow and lose themselves, and treat others and themselves correctly. For example, what you can't get is always the best, so people always cling to what you can't get. Instead, I don't cherish what I have. We can look forward to the "happiness" on the other side, but we should cherish the real happiness around us and cherish the happiness at our fingertips.

(3) I used to think that others are happy because their happiness is special enough, and I am unhappy because my happiness is not as good as others. Looking back, I finally understand that other people's happiness belongs to others and you can't share it. Similarly, my happiness is unique to me, and no one else can think so and enjoy it like this.

(4) Bernard Shaw said: "There are two tragedies in life. One is not getting what you love, and the other is getting what you love." I was deeply impressed by the wisdom of this great man. He expressed the double tragedy of the pain of not being possessed and the boredom of being satisfied so easily and wittily, but later someone did the opposite: "There are two kinds of happiness in life, one is that you can't get what you love, you can seek and create; The other is to get what you love so that you can taste and experience it. " Compared with Bernard Shaw, the latter seems to be more innovative, and its ideological height is also admirable. You can write the following topics:

1 Don't let the illusion cover your eyes.

Flowers are in full bloom on this bank.

3 cherish possession

Happiness is around you (me)

A contented mind is a continual feast.

6 regain self-confidence

7 know yourself

8 Be yourself

Be good at discovering beauty

10 Keep an eye on yourself.

1 1 Pay attention to the happiness around you, and be content with what you have.

12 cherish what you have and hold on to heaven.