1. Once, a salesman sold balloons in the streets of new york. When business is a little bad, he will fly a balloon. When the balloon floats in the air, it will gather a group of new customers, and his business will be good for a while. Every time he flies a balloon, it changes color, first white, then red, then yellow. After a while, a little black boy pulled his sleeve, looked at him and asked an interesting question: "Sir, if you put a black balloon, will it rise?" The balloon seller looked at the children and said in a sympathetic, intelligent and understanding tone, "children, it is what is in the balloon that makes them rise." Congratulations to the boy. He met a salesman who will show him the way in life. "What's in the balloon makes them rise" Similarly, it's what's inside us that makes us progress. The key lies in yourself, you have the right to decide your own destiny!

There is a fable in life: on a hill in Venice, Italy, there lived a talented old man. It is said that he can answer anyone's questions. Two local children fooled the old man. They caught a bird and asked the old man, "Is this bird dead or alive?" The old man said without thinking, "son, if I say this bird is alive, you will hold your hand and kill it." If I say death, you will let go of your hand and let it fly. Your palm holds the power of life and death of this bird. " Revelation: You have the seeds of failure and the potential for success. We have the right to choose success or mediocrity. No one can force you to do anything, it depends on how you choose.

3. Time In a time management class, the professor put a jar of water on the table. Then take out some pebbles from under the table that can be put into the jar from the jar mouth. When the professor put the stone away, he asked the students, "Do you think this jar is full?" "Yes," all the students answered in unison. Really? "The professor asked with a smile. Then take out a bag of stones from under the table, pour them out of the jar, shake them, add some more, and ask the students, "Do you think this jar is full now?" "This time his students dare not answer too fast. Finally, a student in the class timidly whispered, "Maybe not." "Very well! The professor finished, took out a bag of sand from under the table and slowly poured it into the jar. After pouring, he asked the students in the class, "Now tell me, is this jar full?" "Haven't you had enough?" "Not full", the whole class knew, and everyone answered confidently. "That's great! The professor praised these students who are "willing to teach" again. After the praise, the professor took out a big bottle of water from under the table and poured it into a jar that looked full of pebbles, pebbles and sand. When all these things were done, the professor asked the students seriously, "What important lessons have we learned from these things? "? There was a silence in the class, and then a smart-ass student replied, "No matter how busy our work is and how full our schedule is, we can still do more if we have to push it." After the student answered, he proudly thought, "This course is really about time management! Hearing this answer, the professor nodded and smiled: "the answer is good, but it is not the important information I want to tell you." At this point, the professor paused deliberately, glanced at the class with his eyes and said, "The most important message I want to tell you is that if you don't put the big pebbles in the jar first, you may never have a chance to put them in again." 」