Yes, all methods of success or being a man are "infinitive". They often have no "destiny", not to mention that there are many kinds of success and many kinds of life! But can everyone succeed? Do all roads lead to Rome?
I don't think so. In a successful career and life choice, there will be many "fork roads". Some of these roads are signposts, others are not. These seemingly signposts are often "dead ends".
All roads lead to Rome. Many people are "crossing the river"! There is no fixed route to the other side of success, but those who have been walking alone can only choose one road when crossing the river. The distance of this road can be ignored, and it can be ignored in the future. The most important thing is whether they can cross the other shore.
We can look at two powerful figures in history.
Qu Yuan, the earliest poet in China, did not have a smooth political career, but he still had an unshakable "belief", that is, "serving the country". It is this eternal belief that makes him immortal.
American President Lincoln, who hit a wall all the way in the first half of his life, can be summed up in one sentence: "Failure, failure, failure again." But he has a kind of perseverance, a kind of courage not afraid of losing, and some patience to wait, all of which have been honed through years and difficulties. So, in the second half of his life, he succeeded!
Whether it is the way to success or the way to be a man, both have their similarities.
Our goal is definite, but we don't have to achieve it. Although there are many roads, there is only one that can really be touched. It can be winding or straight. Only after the fate of gambling is revealed, do you know: whether it is failure or success, this life is doomed to no regrets!