Reading is like this, but isn't it the same in life? Different life, different environment, different outlook on life, different ways of thinking-different identities determine different angles of thinking. Maybe two people's ideas will conflict, but please put yourself in each other's shoes, and the resentment or anger that pours into your heart will disappear. Just like Hamlet in the eyes of readers, who can tell which one is absolutely right? No, so we should tolerate each other's views and put ourselves in the other's shoes, so that we can have a more thorough understanding of this comedy.
When the same flower is placed in front of us, there will be a kind of "flowers are flying all over the sky, who pity the red fragrance?" There will also be a deep feeling that "falling red is not a heartless thing, but turning into mud will protect flowers more."
A bright moon hangs in the night sky, and Zhang Hui sings the idea that "whoever sees the moon at the first sight by the river will shine on the people at the beginning of the river", and will sigh the homesickness of "the foot of my bed is so bright and the ground is frosty".
Can you criticize Sister Lin's Sadness under the Fence? Can you deny the fact that the flowers are gone? Can you blame Zhang for moaning? Can you despise white nostalgia? I'm afraid neither. Therefore, we should learn to put ourselves in the shoes, appreciate the rich connotation of a flower, and feel the same moon that was once so affectionate.
Learn to put yourself in the shoes, and you won't walk past those begging hands with a cold face. Today, there will be a beggar with a full stomach. Learn to put yourself in others' shoes, and you won't laugh at the cleaners on the road. You will be supported by the concept of "glorious labor". Learn to put yourself in the other's shoes, and you will never see your friends again. Perhaps, learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes, and the days are old!
However, empathy is not a light word. To learn it, we must have a broad mind, broad tolerance and considerate heart.
If you are ready, please take an open mind and learn to put yourself in the other's shoes. You will find that the world could have been so beautiful, life could have been so rich, and spirit could have been so full.