Zhu Tao Andre

Three major events: study, finding a partner, preventing hair loss and graduate students.

In high school, the teacher told the university that if you fall in love again, you will have a chance to find it. Your task now is to study hard.

When I was in college, I just wanted to find another graduate student. People around you don't like it. It will be better to comfort yourself and find the other half in the future.

When I got to graduate school, I was about to graduate, and I found that it was all a lie. If there is no object, there will be no object. Everything I can find may be married and have children in graduate school.

Why can't graduate students take off their orders? Still so painful? There are several reasons.

First, busy with scientific research.

Compared with college, it is indeed more difficult to find a partner in graduate school, which may be more difficult than a week and a half. The biggest obstacle should be the scientific research task.

Graduate students have less free time and can't let themselves go as they did in college. Those who have scientific research tasks will be criticized for their achievements.

Open your eyes to engage in scientific research, close your eyes to engage in scientific research, dream is also engaged in scientific research, peer pressure ... suddenly the burden on your shoulders becomes heavier, and you feel the pressure of life.

The circle is small, and it is likely that the opposite sex that graduate students have known for three years is within the research group or among classmates.

If the rules and regulations of the research group are strict, the graduate student's day should be like this: punch in the office at eight in the morning, return to the dormitory at nine to ten in the evening, take a normal lunch break in the middle, and wait for the boss to call you at any time.

In the office, I have to do more business and eat less fish. I was embarrassed to be seen by my boss. I read documents, check materials, prepare PPT, write experiment plans, design experiments, etc. Sometimes I am busy for more than half a month, and the experimental data are useless. I'm annoyed.

Second, it's late

Graduate students will find that they often have a crush on someone.

Finally, I added each other's WeChat and saw a circle of friends. Oh, I have a boyfriend, and I have a good relationship with others. The university began to talk.

Reality is often so cruel.

Don't say poaching, you can do less such immoral things.

I remember when I was in graduate school, my good friends in the dormitory chatted with my girlfriends every night, talking and laughing, and were fed dog food every day when I came back from the laboratory. It was really unpleasant.

The dormitory is at Loudaokou, and buddies often come here to chat with their girlfriends. They are so boring.

Third, the requirements have been raised.

After graduate school, although everyone didn't say anything, they all secretly raised their demands on the other half.

Say it's a woman, but it's actually a man. I have set my own requirements, such as education, height, weight, several papers, what awards I have won and so on.

There are no requirements, but the requirements are the highest, so it is difficult to get rid of order.

Do graduate students have any skills to take off orders?

No, there is no skill in falling in love. It all depends on fate. It may abuse submission and become many pairs.

It can be said that the best love time of students is in college.

My observation is that after graduate school, the way of thinking of people around you will change, and it is no longer that kind of passion. They will make a very detailed plan, and they will start to consider buying a house, buying a car and having children before holding hands.

Objectively, it also makes graduate students more cautious in love.

Don't force your feelings. If you keep thinking about it, it won't come.

# Graduate students take off their orders #