As the saying goes, "A thousand readers, a thousand Daiyu Lin". People have different personalities, so it is inevitable that there will be friction. Tolerance is the magic weapon to resolve the crisis.

First, listen to a story like this: In ancient times, an old Zen master was walking in a Buddhist temple one night when he suddenly saw a chair in the corner. At first glance, he knew that a young monk had violated the temple rules and sneaked out to play at night. The old Zen master walked non-stop to the wall, gently removed the chair and squatted on the spot. After a while, a young monk climbed over the wall and jumped into the yard on the back of the old Zen master in the dark. As soon as the young monk's foot collapsed, he realized that he was stepping on the back of the master instead of the chair. He panicked and hesitated, but the old Zen master didn't blame him, but said kindly, "It's cold at night. Go back to the house and put on more clothes, don't freeze. " The little monk was moved to tears.

This is a wise Zen master. He knows that the method of water control is not blocking but dredging. In order to dredge the young monk, the old Zen master let the young monk step on his back and forgave his mistake. This is against the rules and taboos, just because of the old Zen master's tolerance, and the big things are reduced to small things. Life, isn't it

Once upon a time, a man asked a sage, "What is tolerance?" The saint didn't speak, so he took him to the violet flowers, trampled a violet with one foot, and raised his foot and said to him, "When you trampled the violet with your foot, it was silent. On the contrary, it leaves the scent of violets on your feet. This is called tolerance. " The sage said simply with a smile.

Yes, this is tolerance. It doesn't hate you, but helps you, cares about you and treats you with courtesy. Yang Jiajun, the recipient of ancient Song Taizu; Wei Zhi in Li Shimin of Emperor Taizong. Nothing is an act of tolerance.

Tolerance is not cowardice!

Tolerance is the embodiment of a person's noble moral quality. Cowardice is the embodiment of a person who has no solar terms. In today's materialistic society, it is more important for everyone to learn tolerance. Take a step back, the sky is wide, and the sky is wide in three minutes. Tolerance is not possessed by some highly trained talents, but a quality that all citizens in our society should possess. If you forgive others, others will naturally forgive you, so forgiving others means forgiving yourself, and life will be happier!