Modesty is a traditional virtue, but it is not a law or a moral kidnapping. Nowadays, "giving up your seat" on the bus has become one of the "hot topics". In recent years, there have been many stories of "giving up your seat" in the news. These contents give us a new understanding of "Jean". They all said, "if you believe, you will admire;" You look up and believe it. " The same "ceremony, let also; Allow people, courtesy. " Literally, everyone is a polite person, let; Make people polite. But the meaning of expression is different from it, but the difference is not big, so it is naturally forgotten by people. Out of context, what we do best. Often, there must be something before this sentence. Therefore, expression is to "deliberately" let others get it when others need it most and they don't need it particularly. Among them, "intention" is a gift, and "gain" is a concession. But it depends on personal understanding.

So, what is concession? What is Jane? Bus stops, one of the means of transportation for office workers, are also very common. Of course, when the bus comes, it is inevitable to queue up to get on it. Then, there will be people who are anxious and those who are not. Then, people who are in a hurry at this time are definitely needed. Then if there is someone who is not in a hurry at this time, he can change places with this person if he wants. If you don't want to, that's fine, because others don't owe you this. So let is willing, and willing is the person who needs help. Give it to those who need it. This is Jean, regardless of age or size.

So don't blindly carry forward the misunderstood traditional virtues. Therefore, on the bus, you can't give up your seat, but you should say "thank you" to the person who gives you your seat. If you can't stand for a long time, you can explain to the driver or others when no one gives up your seat. But you can't force others to stand up, because such a tone will make people feel uncomfortable, and you should be considerate if others don't let you, because they are really inconvenient.

But if you are a healthy person, you should give him a hand when you see an old man. Make way for those who look weak and need help.

Correct humility will make virtue spread all the time, thus making up for the misunderstanding brought by virtue.

Excuse me, may I?