The great poet Tao Yuanming chose the latter between secularism and seclusion. My heart is like glass, indifferent to fame and fortune, and I have harvested the fruits of fame and fortune in a pastoral area. In this way, I spent my life freely and brought the lotus home. Can we say that it is not another kind of possession? Isn't it just another different form of life gift after giving up?
Empress Wu Zetian, a strange girl who danced on the political wave, propped up the heaven and earth of the Tang Dynasty with soft bones, but how much did she give up? Seeing his daughter die in front of his eyes, he personally sent his son to a dead end. He gave up his mother-child affection and everything he deserved as a woman. Some people say that he is not virtuous, but I think that on a tablet without words, the world knows exactly how much he has gained and how much he has lost. She has the support of ten thousand people and is the most solemn affirmation of her political career in history. So giving up doesn't mean losing, it means another kind of gain.
Mr. Lu Xun, a great writer and philologist in modern times, went abroad to study medicine in his early years and wanted to save people like his father physically. However, when the ugly face of Chinese people poisoned by feudalism appeared in front of a son studying in a foreign land, he decided to give up. Since then, there have been masterpieces such as Diary of a Madman and The True Story of Ah Q, and they have gained the reputation of "penholder". He gave up his former ideal, but he made other achievements in literature, which awakened China people from generation to generation. Giving up is an important step in the chess game of life!
But giving up is not a blind miss, nor is it a blind lack of progress. Giving up is a step that can only be taken after careful consideration. Didn't all the celebrities in front put them into practice after careful consideration?
When I was a child, I heard my mother tell the story of monkeys breaking corn. I gave up what I was holding easily, and finally got nothing. By giving up, we mean choosing after carefully weighing the gains and losses. Therefore, giving up is forbidden to retreat and waver easily.
In fact, giving up and owning are the unity of opposites. Give up at this moment, and there may be another thing next moment. If you have this moment, it means that you have given up another thing.
Learn to give up at the right time and continue on the road to tomorrow. There is still a piece of sunshine waiting for you in the distance!
Sometimes, giving up is really a kind of possession, really ... (hope to adopt, thank you)