I quite agree with this view. If you combine red with black, it will become turbid black. Excuse me, has anyone seen the combination of the two become bright red?
If one sock on your foot stinks, there is no reason why the other sock doesn't stink. If you are with a few like-minded friends, even if your behavior is not very good, these are only temporary, because under the subtle influence of friends, you will certainly become noble in the near future; If you are with a lot of despicable people, it goes without saying that it won't be long before you will behave like those people. This shows the environment, which can change everything about people.
National staff have always been people we believe can be trusted. But every time a corrupt official is caught, a bunch of corrupt officials like him will be brought out. Why is this? This is near Zhu Zhechi, and it is black near Mexico.
If a boss is a greedy person, there is no doubt that his people must be printed in the same mold.
If the parents in a family are warm and honest people, usually cautious and never offend people, then their children must be polite and lovely.
Therefore, no matter how big the country is or how small the family is, I always think that "pro-Zhu Zhechi people are black".
Actually, it's not totally wrong to be near Zhu Zhechi, but it depends on the degree. Therefore, when people encounter "black", they should learn to be cautious and lend a helping hand when they have the spare capacity to infect him with their "red".
Zhu is vermilion, ink is ink and red is red. As the name implies, if you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black if you are near ink, which means "Zhu sees red and ink sees black". Metaphorically speaking, being close to good people can make people better, while being close to bad people can make people worse. "Meaning.
I don't entirely agree with this view. What happens when cinnabar is mixed with ink? In this way, the two will blend together and become a new color. What we usually call "those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black" does not include this situation. Therefore, bad people can only bring bad people, and good people can only bring good people. Then, the argument for this statement is not comprehensive.
It happened in a small town, and a child got a serious infectious disease. All the parents of other children warned their children not to play with them, except one boy. A kind-hearted person reminded him: "Don't you know that he has an infectious disease?" He replied: "My mother told me that people are healthy and not afraid of being infected!" " "He has been accompanying the sick child to recover. In high school, my grades were among the best; But he has a bad habit, that is, he likes to play with several bad students who study worst in the class; The teacher warned him; But he said, "If it really gets worse, I don't blame others. In fact, I am a bad boy myself!
This story can also refute that "white sand is in the mud, as black as it is." This argument. The child in the article did not abandon his friend because he was ill, nor did he abandon his classmate because of his poor grades. Why is this? Because he has a healthy body and a firm will, and infected them with his own "red". As can be seen from this story, the saying that "those who are close to ink are black" is partial.
Actually, it's not totally wrong to be near Zhu Zhechi, but it depends on the degree. Therefore, when people encounter "black", they should learn to be cautious and lend a helping hand when they have the spare capacity to infect him with their "red".
"Near Zhu Zhechi, near Mexico is black", meaning near Zhu Zhechi, near Mexico is black. Being close to good people can make a person better, and being close to bad people can make a person worse. This is a metaphor.
"Those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black" vividly shows that the objective environment has a great influence on people, especially on teenagers. Therefore, people have always attached importance to the choice of their environment, and advocated that "you must choose your hometown when you are born, and you must be a scholar when you travel." The well-known story "Meng Mu chooses his neighbor" is an example. In order to choose a suitable living environment for Monk, Meng Mu moved three times, from the place near the mausoleum to the edge of the city, and then to Gong Xuebian, which shows that she attaches great importance to environmental choice. "Yan's Family Instructions" says that "people are young and undecided, and naturally close, but they don't know how to learn." It shows that living in a certain environment when I was a child naturally formed certain moral habits. As we all know, Wang Xizhi was a great calligrapher in the Jin Dynasty, and even Taking care of you was better than Lan. No wonder Mr. Lu Xun said: "The children of scholars are familiar with pen and ink, the children of carpenters can play with axes and chisels, and the children of military strategists have long known swords and guns ..." These famous sayings are not unreasonable.
People not only pay attention to the choice of environment, but also pay attention to the communication between people in a certain environment. Laishui Wenji records the story of Zhang Kui's mother in the Song Dynasty. Every time her son invites a friend home, she listens quietly outside the window. A friend and her son talked about studying, and she hosted a banquet. If you are laughing, don't talk about business and don't care about food. Explain the importance she attaches to her son's friendship. In terms of making friends, the ancients also paid attention to "making friends with people who are better than themselves", that is, making friends with people who are more talented than themselves. Only in this way can we be well influenced in communication and learn from each other's strengths. However, some people don't pay attention to the problem of making friends, and they often become "black" near "Mo". Examples in this regard are not uncommon. Not long ago, four Zhang brothers and sisters in Taiyuan were sentenced by the Ministry of Justice. What is the reason? Making friends with bad people affects not only ourselves, but also our younger brothers and sisters, and they have embarked on the road of crime together, which is so harmful that we cannot ignore it.
Flowers will bloom more beautifully in fresh air. Teenagers are the flowers of the motherland, for their healthy growth. Let's create a good environment for socialist spiritual civilization!