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How to educate students to learn to be grateful (paper)
If you don't know how to be grateful, you don't know what is true feelings and what is responsibility. It is an important and urgent task for our education to let students realize the true meaning of love, understand the hardships of parents and teachers, feel the warmth of society, learn to give their love to others and repay the society, and become a caring, caring and conscientious person. First, to learn to be grateful, we must first know how to respect our parents. Now many children don't know how to be grateful, which is the result of family education. Because most of today's children are only children, at home, the elders regard them as "little suns", pampering them in every way, being obedient and responsive, and even doing what children should do by themselves. To this end, in the eyes of children, they are of course in the most important position, enjoying everything provided by their parents with peace of mind, but showing numbness and indifference to their parents' upbringing. Therefore, it is very important to educate them about gratitude. When we were studying "The Pole of Zhu De", I asked the students a question: Do you know the hardships of parents' daily work? Why do they do this? None of the students answered. When I thought of educating my children, I immediately presented the prepared shoulder pole and bucket to the students: "Students, let's do something today to see who can stir up this bucket of water, ok?" "Well, it's not easy!" The students are ready to try. The first student walked to the front without stirring up a load of water, and the students behind also ended in failure. Then I poured half the water for the students to choose, and some students provoked it, blushing and unable to support it for a while; Some people just pick it up with two or three people. After the performance, I asked my classmates to talk about their feelings. The students all said in unison, "It's too tired to carry water." I am also very excited to see the students' emotional mobilization. "Yes, our parents work day after day and year after year to support us. Don't they know hard work and don't want to enjoy it? " The student suddenly realized: "Teacher, I understand. I will definitely listen to my parents and help them do something that I can. " "I will definitely go by myself in the future, and I don't need my mother to pick me up." "I will never buy snacks again, nor will I choose to eat and wear." "I must study hard and repay the kindness of my parents when I grow up. "... the students are full of emotions. What can be more gratifying than letting children understand? An unprecedented excitement collided with my chest. Looking at these sensible children, I am so touched. Second, learn to be grateful, and teachers should take the lead in setting an example. Suhomlinski said: "The educated are a mirror of educators. "Students' daily behavior depends on the teacher's behavior. In order to educate students, I always set an example. In daily teaching, we give students love selflessly while imparting knowledge. Always put a sweet smile on your face, praise words reverberate in your ears, warm eyes are passed on to students, and cordial care is given to students. This behavior exerts a subtle influence on students. Over time, students will have a good impression on the teacher and a deep love for the teacher, resulting in emotional convection. At that time, on the occasion of Teachers' Day, I received many gifts. Most of these gifts are cards designed by students themselves, and some draw a lark, hoping that the teacher's voice is as sweet as a lark. Some drew a robot, hoping to help the teacher do housework and reduce the fatigue of the teacher. Some people drew a plane, hoping that teachers could travel around the world in their spare time. Some people say, "I want to play a beautiful tune for my teacher." I hope my teacher is healthy and has a good mood every day. "Some sent me a bunch of flowers, hoping that the teacher would be as beautiful as flowers, and that the teacher would always be young and beautiful ... more than 30 students and more than 30 kinds of blessings. What touching words this is! What a sincere feeling! What a precious gift! Although it is not as gorgeous as that sold in the mall, what can be compared with the connotation? Commodities are valuable, but love is priceless. I am gratified by the child's innocence and moved by this true love. Third, learn to be grateful from an early age and establish a sense of social responsibility. I often educate students that our society is so beautiful because of the concerted efforts of Qi Xin. Therefore, on the one hand, we should actively contribute to society and serve others. This shows a person's kindness and nobility. On the other hand, people who are helped should also express a kind response, which is a kind of respect for others. I often tell students stories about heroes and models, and stories about dedication and love. So the students learned "Dayu Harnessing Water" and understood why Dayu didn't enter the house for three times: in order to save the people in from the mire, he gave up his small home for everyone, and his achievements are like the sun and the moon, which will last forever. After learning from my comrade-in-arms Qiu, the students understand why Qiu was burned to death and did not move: he chose to sacrifice himself in order not to expose his goal and win the final victory. His fearless spirit will always be an example for us to learn. After learning the parachute bag, the students understand that Premier Zhou Enlai gave the hope of life to others and kept the threat of death to himself at the critical moment of life and death: what a noble quality it is to think what others think and worry about what others are anxious about. After studying Qian Xuesen and returning to China, the students understood the reason why he resolutely gave up the generous economic treatment abroad and went through hardships to return to China: what a precious childlike innocence he was to raise his mother's motherland and serve the country! Vivid examples give students profound enlightenment: our world is a world full of love, because love makes life so wonderful. The students suddenly realized: "I am not afraid of being dirty, tired or hard in the future." "I want to help the students on duty sweep the floor, clean the table and clean the blackboard." "When others encounter difficulties, I will extend a warm hand and give a piece of love." "I want to study hard and serve the motherland when I grow up. "... I think the children have grown up, I am happy for them, and I sing for them. Because the sense of gratitude has taken root in the hearts of students. Yes, in the big family of society, we should help each other and care for each other. If everyone treats others with a generous and kind heart and returns to society with a grateful heart, then there will be no desert of heart, no wasteland of love and miracles will be created. The world will.