Excerpts from argumentative arguments in senior high school 1. The touch of flying people-tolerance makes friendship.
In an NBA final many years ago, Pippen, another NBA rookie, scored 33 points, surpassing Jordan by 3 points, becoming the first player of the Bulls to score more than Jordan. After the game, Jordan and Pippen embraced and wept for you.
Here is a little-known story between Jordan and Pippen. When Jordan was in the Bulls, Pippen was the most promising rookie for the Bulls to surpass Jordan. He often shows disdain for Jordan, often saying that Jordan is not as good as himself in some aspects and will definitely push Jordan down. But Jordan did not exclude Pippen from the potential threat, but encouraged Pippen everywhere.
Once Jordan said to Pippen, "Which one of us is a good three-pointer?" Pippen a little absently replied, "what do you know? Of course it's you. " Because at that time, Jordan's three-point success rate was 28.6%, while Pippen was 26.4%. But Jordan smiled and corrected: "No, it's you! Your action of shooting three-pointers is standardized, natural and talented, and you will definitely shoot better in the future, and I still have many weaknesses in shooting three-pointers. " He said to him, "I dunk with my right hand, I am used to helping with my left hand, and you can use any way." Pippen doesn't even know this detail. He was deeply moved by Jordan's selflessness.
From then on, Pippen and Jordan became good friends, and Pippen became the first Bulls player to score more than Jordan in 17 games. Jordan's selfless quality injected an unbreakable cohesive force into the Bulls, which made the Bulls create one myth after another. Jordan not only won the support and respect of everyone, including his opponents, with his skill, but also with his open and selfless broad mind.
2. Cao Cao burned books-forbearance is the way to choose people.
In the battle of Guandu, Cao Cao defeated Yuan Shao, and many of the captured trophies were written to Yuan Shao by his subordinates. Most of the contents of the letter belittled Cao Cao and expressed the hope to vote for Yuan. Some counsellors suggested to Cao Cao that we should catch all these people as an example. Those soldiers who once wanted to rebel against Cao Cao and vote for Yuan are always on tenterhooks. Unexpectedly, Cao Cao ordered all these letters to be burned, and no one's fault was investigated. Cao Cao said to the soldiers around him: "The war is coming, and the enemy is strong and we are weak. Even I can't protect myself, let alone my subordinates. " It is human nature to find a good way out. "This shows that cao cao's broad mind.
3. Teacher Lou recommended Di Renjie-be tolerant and repay kindness with kindness.
Di Renjie was the prime minister of Wu Zetian in Tang Dynasty. He has outstanding achievements, knows people well and is trusted by Wu Zetian. At ordinary times, Di Renjie looked down on LouDeDe, but it was LouDeDe who recommended him as prime minister. When teacher Lou recommended Di to Wu Zetian to take his place, Wu Zetian was surprised: "Isn't Di at odds with you?" Lou replied, "The sage asked who was virtuous and capable, but did not ask who was at odds with the minister?" After Lou Deyi listed Di Renjie's abilities, Wu Zetian agreed to his request and asked Di Renjie to take Lou Deyi's place.
One day, Wu Zetian asked the emperor, "Is the teacher Lou noble?" Dida: "I don't know." Wu Zetian said, "You know, the post of Prime Minister today was recommended by Teacher Lou!" Di Renjie felt very ashamed after hearing this.
4. Tolerance should be selective
Zheng Banqiao has a famous saying: Suffering is a blessing, but being confused is difficult. But tolerance does not mean unprincipled retreat. Where we should adhere to the principle, we should be upright, dare to face it, rational, powerful and restrained. Laughing at the unreasonable performance of the other party reflects the demeanor of an upright man. Over time, others will naturally respect you, and the villain will feel ashamed. As the saying goes, evil is invincible.
Step 5 remember and forget
Ali, a famous Arab writer, once traveled with two friends Gilbert and Martha. When the three of them passed through a valley, Martha slipped. Fortunately, Gibb pulled him hard and saved him. Martha wrote on a big stone nearby: "Gilbert saved Martha's life on a certain day in a certain year." The three of them walked on for several days until they came to a river. Gilbert quarreled with Martha over a trivial matter, and Gilbert slapped Martha in the face. Misha ran to the beach and wrote, "On a certain day, Gibb slapped Misha."
When they came back from their trip, Ali asked Martha curiously why he carved the story of Gilbert saving him on a stone and the story of Gilbert beating him on the beach. Martha replied, "I will always be grateful to Gilbert for saving me." As for him hitting me, I will forget all about it with the disappearance of the handwriting on the beach. "