A negative emotional state.
Life will inevitably encounter setbacks, and a life without failure is not a complete life. Without the erosion of the river bed, there would be no
Have the brilliance of diamonds; Without the test of setbacks, there will be no unyielding personality. It is because of setbacks that there are warriors and cowards.
Points. Remember, "God is a great responsibility to the people of Sri Lanka. We must first suffer their minds, their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies and mess them up. "
What you do, get what you can't get. Balzac said: "frustration and misfortune are stepping stones to genius;" Baptism of believers
Water; The priceless treasure of capable people; A bottomless pit for the weak. "
Failure and frustration in life have an inevitable side; It also has positive and negative effects. Not only can make people mature, but also bring
Success will also ruin your future. The key is how you face setbacks.
Moderate setbacks have certain positive significance, which can help people get rid of inertia and urge people to forge ahead. Frustration is also a challenge and test. British philosopher Bacon said: "Most miracles beyond nature occur in the conquest of adversity."
First of all, setbacks help you grow. The process of human growth is a process of adapting to social requirements. If they adapt well, they will feel
Relaxation and harmony; If you don't adapt, you will feel embarrassed and frustrated. Adaptation requires learning to adjust one's motivation, pursuit and behavior.
Because. When a person is born; I have no idea what is right or wrong. By encouraging, preventing, allowing, opposing,
Reward, punishment, guidance, persuasion and even physical punishment and restriction are the only ways to learn how to adapt and behave appropriately.
Adjust behavior in different environments, different times, different objects and different specifications. On the other hand, lawless children from childhood
Once a son lives independently, he will be drowned in contradictions and setbacks.
For example, Kepler, a German astronomer, was troubled since he was a child and came to the world early in his mother's womb only seven months later. Later, smallpox made him grow acne pits, and scarlet fever damaged his eyes. However, with his tenacious character, he studied hard and his academic performance was far ahead of his peers. Later, because my father was in debt and lost the opportunity to study, I taught myself astronomy. In his later life, he experienced a series of blows, such as illness, the death of his mentor and the death of his wife. But he still didn't stop studying astronomy, and finally discovered the three laws of celestial bodies at the age of 59. He turned all his misfortunes into a driving force to push himself forward, won the title of science with amazing perseverance and became a "legislator of the sky."
Secondly, setbacks enhance your willpower. Nowadays, teenagers live in a service-oriented environment for a long time. From primary school to university to job choice, their parents are under pressure, so they have no deep understanding of all kinds of difficulties, lack patience and strong will, and are crushed when they encounter setbacks. In fact, many small setbacks in life are "playgrounds" of willpower. When you sweat through the whole journey and overcome the setbacks in life, you will get a pleasant experience. Psychologists compare minor setbacks to "spiritual supplement", because every time they overcome a setback, they strengthen their own strength and provide "spiritual strength" for the next setback.
At the same time, setbacks also have negative effects. In daily life, everyone reacts differently to setbacks. On the one hand, this
Depends on the emotional understanding of setbacks. If a friend criticizes you, you may listen and even be very grateful to him, but if
Misinterpret this friend's criticism as damaging your dignity, and then your reaction may be very different. On the other hand, feeling
Emotional loss is stronger than material loss. When the goal you pursue represents love, fame, status and dignity, one
Once the goal is lost, it will have a negative psychological impact, which is the negative effect.