Throughout the ages, there are more or less famous sayings that we should listen to other people's opinions and trust them. After all, others know you better than yourself, and most of their suggestions are for your own good. They may be your friends and relatives. Similarly, how many kings in history have destroyed themselves and abandoned themselves because they listened to the slanderers of villains? So we have to trust others, but we must trust people who are worthy of your trust and who are good to you and want to make you better. At the fork in the road of life, don't blindly ask others which one to choose. How can others show you the way when you don't even know your own ambition?
Life is always faced with big and small choices: from choosing two beloved toys to choosing the future direction, we must listen to other people's opinions. But equally, it is wrong for us to trust anyone and not to trust anyone. When we are faced with a choice, our minds are always immersed in other people's ideas, but they are more and more entangled and it is more and more difficult to make a decision. Humans have said, "Be good at listening to other people's opinions." He also said, "Go your own way and let others talk!" At this time, you should have a calm mind, exclude all other people's thoughts, and know what you want by your own intuition before making a decision. If you choose that road, you must go on unswervingly, even if you regret it, you can't give up, because this is the road you chose for yourself, your idea and your true self.
"Be good at listening to other people's opinions" "Go your own way and let others talk! "These two sentences seem to be incompatible, but in fact they complement each other. They mark two States of the life cycle. " No one is perfect, so in order to be close to perfection, we should listen to others' accusations and opinions on shortcomings, so as to make our personality more sound. When our personality grows up, we will inevitably have our own new ideas: when making choices, we will act according to our intuition and break through our own bottlenecks. After the breakthrough, there will be new problems and shortcomings, so we need to learn from our opinions and constantly improve ourselves. Life is such a process, from completion to breakthrough, from breakthrough to completion ... and so on. This is the real value of a person's existence, so that he can improve step by step.
People have gone through many crossroads in their life, and they follow others' instructions at the corner and cross the road in an orderly way, but this does not affect which way you choose to take. On the contrary, with the guidance and help of others, you can cross the road faster and make better decisions about your own direction.
The long road of life is criss-crossing, and choosing different roads naturally leads to different lives. In the face of many choices, we must believe in ourselves and others, and we must selectively listen to others' good opinions in order to take every step of life.