China people have always been the best face-saving, paying too much attention to face, as the so-called steamed bread struggles for breath.

Contradictions often occur in life, but sometimes the cause of contradictions may be just a trivial matter, but everyone will not give in for the so-called "face", for fear that others will look down on themselves, so that small differences or differences will eventually turn into unmanageable disputes, leaving heavy scratches in everyone's heart. Why is this?

After all, some things don't have much influence on us. Why don't we just forget about it, ignore it, solve those disputes that shouldn't exist, and leave no trace in our hearts and those of others? As the saying goes, "endure a calm moment and take a step back."

Sometimes, contradictions and disputes are not caused by themselves, but by the words of others and the anger in their hearts. I have heard that "once upon a time Hanshan asked me". What should I do if the world slanders me, deceives me, humiliates me, laughs at me, belittles me, hates me and deceives me? Pick up the cloud: just put up with him, let him, let him, avoid him, put up with him, respect him, ignore him, stay a few years and see him. "This is the so-called relaxed and indisputable thinking. Even if some small things are won in some way, they will only win some benefits. Why not be generous, take a step back and win a generous attitude for yourself.

Of course, the so-called light and indisputable, does not mean blindly inclusive, some small things are not worth fighting for, and some things are "sometimes you have to have in life, you can't always insist." Of course, this sentence doesn't mean that you just have to try your best to do one thing, you just don't care in your heart. Is the so-called humiliation and forgetting.

Lightly put down some self-righteous pride and shame, some self-righteous right and wrong, that is, to find that everything is just a passing thing, just humiliated, indifferent, and has no intention of retaining or staying. Let go gently and take a step back. If these things don't happen, it is full of relief and normal heart.