65438+ Being in a thatched cottage with a master is like flying immortals in a small hole, hiding dragons in a shallow stream, in which Mr. Zhuge lives deeply, and the idle clouds and wild cranes send away his quiet years. When he is away from home, the hut is the starting point of his happiness, wandering on a secluded path, stroking pines, listening to clear springs and enjoying the mountains and rivers; When he came back, the thatched cottage was the end of his happiness. He lit the blue light, tuned the pipa and read the yellow scroll, occupying the elegance of the ancient style. When Liu Bei visited Wollongong for the second time, he saw a couplet on the middle gate: indifferent to Zhi Ming, quiet and far-reaching. He was impressed by Zhuge Liang's calmness, and it was Zhuge Liang's calmness that made Liu Bei's great cause beautiful in people's eyes.
"The gentleman's trip, static to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality, not indifferent to ambition, not quiet and not far away. If you study quietly, you have to study. If you don't learn, you won't have a wide range of talents. If you don't want to learn, you can't succeed. "
2. Sunset falls in Xunyang River, splashing the sunset glow all over the sky, and making the river red as blood. In front of an ordinary house by the river, a circle of short hedges is inserted obliquely. On the short hedge in the east, chrysanthemums bloom like a natural little face with a childlike smile. The autumn wind gently swayed their graceful posture, overflowing with fragrance. Tao Yuanming, the "Mr. Wu Liu" in the flower room, has a slight frost on his temples and a thin face. He is leisurely picking Jin Ju, and sometimes puts petals on the tip of his nose to smell, with infinite joy in his brow. Chrysanthemum, his partner, his fun, his life. "If you want to call a chrysanthemum, the flower is secluded." "Tao Jinyuan loves chrysanthemums alone." "The love of chrysanthemum flowers is rarely heard after Tao." What an ordinary and colorful flower, what an ambitious and calm person. Ambitious Tao Qian fell in love with pure chrysanthemums. He escaped from the world, but he was carefree and leisurely, which made him create a beautiful poem and a beautiful sentence with a calm mind, which made him beautiful in the eyes of the world.
"Build a house for human feelings, without chariots and horses. Ask what you can do, your heart is far from self-prejudice. Picking chrysanthemums under the east fence, you can see Nanshan leisurely, the mountains are getting better and better, and the birds are returning. There is a real meaning in this, and I have forgotten what I want to say. "
Wuxi is a distinctive city in the south of the Yangtze River. More than 3,000 years ago, Tai Bo of the Zhou Dynasty went to Wu, based in Meili, and spread the advanced civilization of the Central Plains to the "land of Man Jing", which was a precedent. In 202 BC, the county was officially established, and it was named Wuxi because of the exhaustion of tin and lead resources in Xishan. During the Sui and Tang Dynasties, the Grand Canal ran through the east and west, which made Wuxi prosperous. It is this "fertile soil" that gave birth to the modern industrial and commercial family-"Rong family", who is the king of flour and cotton yarn in people's eyes. He is not only a businessman, but also a politician and patriot. People call him a "red capitalist"-Rong Yiren, from China. But Rong Yiren, who has made such great achievements, is neither arrogant nor impetuous, and is resolute and kind. He kept a low profile and faced his achievements with a calm mind. It is this calm that makes him switch between capitalists and politicians, succeed slowly and steadily, and make him beautiful in our eyes.
4. Three ups and downs. In the early 1930s, he was attacked, dismissed and decentralized by the "left-leaning" leaders in the party for supporting Mao Zedong's correct thinking. In the mid-1960s, shortly after the start of the "Cultural Revolution", Deng Xiaoping was accused of being "the second establishment in the Party that took the capitalist road" and was dismissed from all his posts. In the middle and late 1970s, according to Mao Zedong's proposal, the Political Bureau of the Communist Party of China (CPC) Central Committee unanimously decided to revoke Deng Xiaoping's post and retain his party membership. These three political blows were thrilling and overwhelming every time, but Deng Xiaoping resisted them with a calm mind. In Deng Xiaoping's magnificent life, his legendary experience of "Three Ups and Three Downs" is particularly noticeable. And this "three falls" is more severe and heavier every time; These "three times" are tall and straight, brilliant again and again. Deng Xiaoping once joked that if there was an Olympic prize in politics, he might win the gold medal. Yes, in the ups and downs of life competition, Deng Xiaoping faced it with a calm mind, which made him successful and made him the most beautiful person in China.
Dongpo is confident of his calmness. His life has been bumpy. After several ups and downs, he was not defeated by his calm feelings and lived a very chic life. However, there is something more calm than him. One day, Dongpo meditated and was suddenly enlightened. He realized the sentence "Eight winds can't blow" and was very satisfied. Busy to send extremely old monk Fo Yin across the river to correct me. After reading it, Fo Yin wrote a fart word below. Su Shi was annoyed and reasoned with Jiang Lai. Fo Yin smiled and added a few words, which made him "get the hell out of Jiang Lai". It seems that Su Shi is far less calm than Fo Yin.
6, calm, refers to the face of danger and passive situation can achieve "Taishan collapse in the front and the color does not change, elk thrive on the left without blinking" calm attitude. When Zhuge Liang faced Sima Yi's army, he kept calm and unhurried, and sang an ingenious "Empty City Plan", which saved the day and left a beautiful talk through the ages. On 20 1 1 February11,Indian foreign minister Krishna misread the manuscript when he spoke at the United Nations, which caused an uproar and was quite embarrassing. Krishna, however, remained calm, smiled and said in general terms: Ah, there are too many documents, and I made mistakes in my busy work. It seems that Wenshan Huihai is really killing people! A calm word skillfully resolved the passive situation, and well-meaning laughter and applause rang out from the audience.
7, calm, also refers to the indifferent spirit in the face of fame and fortune temptation, indifferent and lost. Tai Shigong said: "The world is bustling, all for profit; The world is bustling, all for profit. " Gan Long asked Xiao Shenyang: On the canal, Qian Fan competed and ships came and went. What are they carrying? Small Shenyang replied: first, reputation, and second, interests. It can be seen that not many people can despise fame and fortune since ancient times. Feng Yi, a general in the Eastern Han Dynasty, was modest and low-key. Whenever camping, the generals will sit together and strive for success, while Feng Yi often rests alone under a tree, known as "General Tree". This is the calm in front of the name. Yu Zhen, minister of the Eastern Han Dynasty, was one of them. Every year after the twelfth lunar month, the emperor will give each doctor a sheep. Sheep are fat and thin in size, which is difficult to distinguish and often causes disputes. Zhen Yu took the initiative to take the thinnest sheep and was called "Dr. Thin Sheep". This is a calm before profit.
Being calm also means being calm in the face of victory and defeat, winning without arrogance and losing with grace. In the Eastern Jin Dynasty, when the good news of the Battle of Feishui reached Beijing, the coach Xie An was playing chess with the guests. He took the good news and looked at it, then put it aside and continued to play chess quietly as if he didn't see anything. He was as calm as water, but the guest couldn't help asking, "How is the war ahead?" He casually replied, "The children defeated the enemy." Still calm and peaceful. This is his calm self-restraint, "don't be happy with things, don't be sad for yourself", and victory and defeat are fleeting.
8. Calmness refers to the degree of calmness when Mount Tai collapses in front. He is calm, positive and decisive, but he is good at being worldly, winning without arrogance and losing with grace; Calmly describe a kind of courage. Calm is a state of mind, a state of mind and a state of life. Each of us needs this kind of mentality, so that we can take our time in life, be flattered, not be too excited and get carried away, and not be too sad and painful.
9. Describe an attitude calmly. He is calm, positive and decisive when he is in trouble, but in the world, he attaches importance to good advice, winning without arrogance and losing with grace; Calmly describe a kind of courage. Move freely, calmly and calmly, watch the flowers fall in front of the court and gently shake the feather fan city head; Describe a principle calmly. Show no anxiety about people and things, tepid, pro-mean, smooth and persistent; Describe an attitude calmly. The condor is wearing an autumn wind on its back, as quiet as a virgin, and vanity fair is passing by; Calmly describe a kind of accomplishment. Benevolence without worry, benevolence without fear, seeking truth from facts, being open-minded and not arrogant; Calm down and describe an ability. Deep thinking can foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, introspection can advance and retreat, and then shoot when it is time to shoot; Describe a power calmly. Calm and calm, like a boulder blocking the waves, and perseverance is like a drop of stone; Describe an efficiency calmly. Steady and avoid its chaos, and practice with epiphany, such as being good at holding a knife, such as Lu Ban playing an axe; Describe a realm calmly. The forest in Lanzhou is not fragrant because there is no one, but a gentleman is virtuous and does not change his mind for embarrassment; Describe a life calmly. Life is like a pair of sharp reading glasses, it is difficult to be confused and awake.
10, negative calm and positive calm When a person has experienced more, he looks down on everything and feels that he doesn't care about anything. When he has nothing to ask for, then when something happens, he thinks it's no big deal, just an inevitable thing in life, then his heart naturally beats normally and his brain is clear, so he can handle things well. In fact, this is also mature. Positive and calm performance is that when things happen, they don't panic and always solve things fundamentally. This requires a clear head and a calm mind. Don't make things too complicated. Nothing is serious and incalculable. You know, the more nervous you are, the worse you can do. First, think about how things happened and how to solve them, and always calm your life with a positive attitude.
1 1, calm and calm means calm realism. Don't expect too much from the world, society and others. Knowing that justice may often be late, justice will always be relative and there will never be a perfect reality. Only ordinary people and fragile human nature may be divided and moldy at any time ... With this calm attitude, when you encounter grievances, misunderstandings and injustices, you will not be sad, blame others or feel sorry for yourself. On the contrary, it will bite the bullet and practice internal strength, "breaking the wall in ten years."
Calm down, calm down, is to fight and do something. Anything that is beneficial to the long-term construction of society and individuals will be done hard without interference; Things that are not conducive to the long-term construction of society and individuals should be done as little as possible.
Calm and calm is the principle of "three noes", "don't argue with heaven, people and things". Non-competition does not mean avoiding social evil, social corruption and the aggression of workplace villains, but choosing the most strategic method to achieve the greatest effect.
Calm and calm means to keep a good mood most of the time, "be modest and prudent, guard against arrogance and rashness." It means that I have a broader realm and greater achievements. After having a career, I have a better appreciation of beautiful things, watch a great natural scenery and watch a DVD with a high artistic level, which can adjust my calm tolerance and mood. There is a story that seems to laugh at fools, but I think it can be innovated: "It's raining, everyone is running forward, but one person is not in a hurry and pacing in the rain." Someone asked,' Why don't you run?' The answer is:' What's the hurry? It's raining ahead, too "
Whenever people are upset and anxious, it is a good way to take a sip of this "calming and calming" medicine, detoxify and beautify, invigorate qi and soothe the nerves-just like this "fool" pacing in the rain, when everyone is running like a smart chicken, he calmly said, "What's the hurry? It's raining ahead! " The last thing he didn't tell you was, "I was just about to watch the rain!" " "