Gender discrimination in job hunting is an old topic in the workplace. For enterprises, the inevitable childbirth and breastfeeding of female employees will indeed bring some troubles to human resources. The human resources directors of many enterprises revealed that they received the job resumes of female graduate students, and all of them filled in "married, educated" in a conspicuous position, which became an important weight for female graduate students to increase their competitiveness in job hunting; Executives also said that female graduate students who are "married and fertile" are indeed more attractive in job hunting. ? From September 1 2009, the Ministry of Education promulgated the Regulations on the Administration of Ordinary Colleges and Universities, which deleted the content of "students do not have to go through the formalities of dropping out of school when they get married" in the old regulations, and made no special provisions on whether students can get married, so that college students can get married freely. "Can you make it easy for your husband and children to find jobs when they are in graduate school?" The reporter learned from colleges and universities in Hunan that in recent years, graduate students who get married and give birth in school have indeed shown an upward trend and become the focus of family planning work in schools. ? Student? Are "graduate mothers" common in Hunan? "In fact, it is time to have children after the college entrance examination! Summer vacation confinement, university with children! When you don't want to attend class, ask your roommate to take the children to help you sign in. The university has enough time to accompany the baby to grow up healthily! The baby was born under the influence of university higher education! When my mother graduated, the child was four years old and sensible things were quiet. Let's fight for it ... Anyway, our family has incense! " Although it is ironic, the recent popularity of Weibo shows that many college students are worried. ? Zhu Yumin, a second-year graduate student at Central South University, is now nearly seven months pregnant. "My boyfriend and I had the idea of getting married at 20 1 1, because I thought that I would work hard and touch the computer all day, so I might not have the energy to think about having children. And now that the second-year postgraduate course has ended, only the postgraduate thesis has to be prepared. At this time, it is better to raise your baby with peace of mind. " Zhu Yumin said that she and her boyfriend have a house in Changsha, and their families are with her. She can study while taking care of the children at home. The two are not contradictory. "From the end of 10 to the end of 1 10, I can devote myself to studying and looking for a job, and I can also reduce my work pressure in the future." ? The reporter learned in the interview that "graduate mothers" are not uncommon. On the one hand, some girls are under the pressure of job hunting and want to handle their personal affairs well before employment; On the other hand, many girls are social candidates and get married before entering school. "My major is exploration and basic engineering. It is inevitable to go to grass-roots construction sites for job hunting in the future. Unmarried and childless girls will definitely be at a disadvantage in job hunting. " Chen Lan, a second-year graduate student with three years' work experience, told reporters that he is not young now, so it should be a good decision to have a baby easily at the graduate stage. ? University? Facing the married and childbearing families calmly, it is suggested that female students drop out of school during pregnancy? There is no wedding car, no banquet, the whole school is watching, and the principal is a witness ... Before graduation, a simple and grand collective wedding was held in Boxue Square of Changsha Social Work College. Five Uighur girls from class 1 12 1 major in community management and service entered the marriage hall under the witness of principal Liu Xiao and others. ? In the interview, the reporter found that Hunan University workers have a tolerant and open-minded attitude towards the emotional life of undergraduates and postgraduates, and focus on guiding education. According to media reports, the electricity payment office of Xiyuan Dormitory School in Jinpenling Campus of Changsha University of Science and Technology distributed condoms to students free of charge. In fact, most family planning workers in Hunan universities will distribute condoms distributed by the National Family Planning Commission to college students free of charge through different channels, which is also one of their tasks. ? Whether students get married is no longer the focus of colleges and universities, but whether they violate the family planning policy. The reporter saw from Central South University that one of the necessary certificates for students before graduation includes, "XXX, with the ID number of XXX, is an undergraduate (or graduate) graduate of XXX College, and did not violate the family planning policy during his school days". ? The Measures for the Administration of Family Planning for Students in Central South University requires that "married students must apply for a Birth Certificate before giving birth. Freshmen who have received a "birth certificate" before entering school must register with the school family planning management office; In order to protect the health of mothers and infants and maintain the normal order of teaching and research in the school, it is recommended that married female students go through the formalities of suspension during pregnancy and childbirth. " ? Enterprise? Is it more attractive for "married and educated" female graduate students to apply for jobs? During the interview, the human resources directors of many enterprises revealed that they had received the job resumes of female graduate students, and all of them filled in "married, educated" in a conspicuous position, which became an important weight for female graduate students to increase their competitiveness in job hunting; Executives also said that female graduate students who are "married and fertile" are indeed more attractive in job hunting. ? Although the company guarantees the marriage and childbearing rights of female employees, Zhang Lulu, director of Hunan Province who currently works for a foreign-funded FMCG company, admits frankly, especially when recruiting marketing personnel, "If the other party is married and has children, we will pay more attention." Zhang Lulu said that married women are more loyal to their work, which has always been valued by the company. In addition, if they have given birth, "the work period will not be interrupted, and we are all responsible for a market. We have a marketing director. After pregnancy, I am preparing to take a vacation because of the threat of miscarriage. I have to recruit an assistant to help, which is a headache. " ? Questioning? Will study and parenting affect the gold content of a degree? Can study and parenting be balanced? Because many colleges and universities in Hunan implement credit system teaching management, generally four years of study can be completed in six or even eight years at the latest, and students can apply for suspension from school for maternity leave. However, many experienced people think that it is not cost-effective to postpone graduation after giving birth. ? Zhang Lei (pseudonym), a Hunan girl who studied PhD at Nanjing University, finally got her doctorate in eight years. "In the meantime, I also gave birth to a daughter. My daughter is weak and always ill. My husband is also busy at work. " Zhang Lei felt that her thoughts were completely bound by her daughter. She used to think it would be easy to have in-laws to help with the children. "But I found that I was not in a state of doing nothing, and my graduation thesis was delayed again and again, and finally I could only postpone my graduation." Zhang Lei feels that her biggest loss is that the doctoral job market is completely different from that when she graduated five years ago. She feels a little sorry. ? Ji Xinxin, a teacher in the Scientific Research Management Office of the School of Literature, Central South University, graduated from graduate school for many years, and talked about her views on the phenomenon of graduate students getting married and having children. "There are not many graduate students around me who get married and have children. Most of them will consider getting married and having children when one of them has a stable job. Because of the pressure of graduate students' scientific research, the burden of books, homework and papers assigned by tutors is also heavy. At this time, there is not only great pressure to study, but also great pressure to raise children. The double pressure of economy and spirit is a heavy burden for graduate students. "