Rule number one: life needs to turn back more. Lu Yao, an 800-word argumentative essay, said in his inscription "Life": Although the road of life is long, it is often only a few steps, especially when people are young. No one's life path is straight, and there is no fork in the road. Some forks in the road, such as political fork in the road, career fork in the road, personal life fork in the road, you take a wrong step, you can affect a section of your life, and even affect your life!
Yes, if you walk in a hurry on the long road of life, you will inevitably make mistakes, sometimes you will go astray, and sometimes you will wrestle. You never know. Some people just go on the rampage blindly, go forward blindly, and finally fall into the abyss; Some people often look back in the process of progress to see which step is right and which step is wrong, and finally accumulate experience and achieve success. Therefore, it is important to step by step in life, and we must always look back and look back!
How much do you need to review in your life, because it has provided you with success? Good medicine. Why does Haier Group build the most famous brand in China? Why can it go overseas as the first enterprise in China? Is it because Zhang Ruimin, his founder, is particularly clever? Is it because he has a unique way? No, not at all. Because Zhang Ruimin knows how to turn back in time. In the process of developing the enterprise, he did not blindly pursue output without considering quality. He stopped and found a batch of refrigerators unqualified. This turning point made him realize that quality is the guarantee of products and integrity is the reputation of enterprises, so he resolutely smashed these refrigerators in public. It is precisely because of this that he has achieved today's success.
Life needs to go back more, because it provides you with a shortcut to success and makes you take fewer detours. ? Flying fish? Phelps made amazing achievements in Athens and Beijing Olympic Games. As a world record breaker? Superman? His mistakes are inevitable. Just when his career is in full swing, he may be a little carried away. He made an athlete's most taboo mistake and was found taking drugs. This has greatly affected his sunny image and reputation in the sports world. Fortunately, Phelps didn't just rush forward as he did in the game. He stopped, found his mistake in time and understood it deeply. It is because of this turn back that Phelps publicly apologized and won the championship not long ago. If he didn't turn back in time, I'm afraid the historical miracle has cast a heavy shadow, and society has another regrettable genius.
However, there are such diametrically opposed people in life. They run around like blind flies and don't know how to turn back in time. In the end, they will make a big mistake and cannot be redeemed. It often appears in news reports: a factory closed down and the boss committed suicide in a hurry; The medal won by an athlete was taken back because of doping and other reasons. Is this the fate of these lives? No, what are they missing on their way forward? Turn back consciousness? I don't look back or look back, so I don't know what my problem is. Will they go on?
My friend, don't forget to look back often while making progress. Because, people's intelligence often lies not in talent, but in knowing how to turn back; People's success often lies not in skill, but in turning back in time.
Chapter 2: Life needs to look back more. Looking back often is a kind of wisdom. Looking back, we have our starting point, our lessons and the joy of our success.
Looking back often, let's get rid of the fog of life and find the right direction.
Tracing back to the source, let us be open-minded and wise. Zhao Benshan will never forget that he is an ordinary literary man who came out of the northeast countryside. Su Yan's makeup and low-key life make him more like a master. When there is something wrong with his career, he will always return to his hometown, get close to the land, look up at the sky, see his steps from the countryside step by step, and see simple villagers, so he will be satisfied, naturally untie himself and face life calmly.
Dumas said that life is a rosary made of suffering. When we touch each rosary, we might as well look back. Behind us is our warmest memory. Wherever we go, it gives us the brightest smile and the most sincere applause. In the flashy modern society, we can't abandon the source. Let's look back and let us know? Where am I from and where am I going? In this way, we can go on wisely.
Looking back often, let's distinguish right from wrong and beware of procrastination. Reading history can be wise, because history books are a mirror, which will alert us to the rise and fall of honor and disgrace, and the merits and demerits of a hundred schools of thought contend. Su wrote Six Kingdoms, telling Song people not to break the story of the Six Kingdoms and not to compromise with the surrounding ethnic minorities through the decline and fall of the Six Kingdoms. However, the rulers of the Song Dynasty dragged out an ignoble existence and were tottering, but they did not learn from the past and eventually changed hands. The decline and fall of the Song Dynasty must have deceived people and never looked back. On the contrary, Gou Jian, the king of Yue, made every effort to remember the past and recover the country. Now, we can't forget the history of blood and tears and shoulder the historical mission of rejuvenating China. Yuanmingyuan tells the story of the ravages of Eight-Nation Alliance in the distance. It warned the world with a century of destruction and silence: always look back! Looking back often, let's relive the sweetness of success. Success is like wine, the longer it gets, the better it gets. When the wind and candle are dying, there is no need to lament, because it has been brilliant. Withered flowers, we should remember the brilliance of blooming, so as not to hurt the world. Today, people still miss Xiang Yu because he refused to live and returned to the East. The warriors on the edge of Wujiang River will surely make a comeback as long as they recall their past glory! How so sad! Looking back often, let us find the value of life instead of giving up on ourselves.
Look back often!
Looking back, there is a clear sky behind me.
Looking back, behind us are the philosophies of those wise men.
Looking back, the road ahead is also written behind me.
Life needs to turn back more. Life is a journey from birth to death. Is this the same paragraph? Walking? Let life be colorful and colorful. Life needs persistence and heroism to the end, and it also needs wisdom and calmness to turn back. ? Turn around? It will make you aware of the past. Review your footsteps in time, look back at your footprints, adjust your future direction, and take a higher step. With such ideological cognition, we can truly discover and master the essential meaning of life, not be confused and bound by external things, give up some aura, converge some rights, wash away some glitz and calm some desires. Because people's intelligence often lies not in talent, but in self-examination; People's success often lies not in skill, but in timely self-mastery.
Confucius said,? I have three provinces a day? ; Xunziyan? A gentleman has knowledge? More important? Japanese ginseng saves itself? ; As the saying goes, people know themselves? . It can be seen that review is the progress of wisdom, the introspection of self-knowledge, the summary of experience and the absorption of lessons. Life is limited, maybe we are just immersed in walking, what have we lost along the way? Scenery? Deviate from sincere friends and lose the right direction at this time? Turn around? , is a correct attitude towards life, reflect on the journey of life in time, learn to correct yourself, learn to adjust yourself, and look back more during the journey of life. Maybe we will reduce many mistakes, take too many detours, increase a lot of happiness and achieve more success.
Take every step of life well, and really look back often!
First, turn around? Look down? . There are too many temptations, too many personnel disputes, merits and demerits, gratitude and resentment, too many pains and regrets that cannot be satisfied by desires. To be a man, to be an atmospheric person, you need enough mind, a clear mind, to walk through the years, to face life with a smile, and to be indifferent. Pessimism is not enterprising, right and wrong, inaction or pursuit, but treating life and life with a detached soul. The ancients said? Don't rejoice in things, don't grieve for yourself? When we are far away from the hubbub and indifferent to fame and fortune, the true meaning of life lies here.
The second is to turn back? See through? . Emperor Qianlong went down to the south of the Yangtze River and boarded the Jinshan Temple in Zhenjiang. When he saw ships passing by the river, he asked the monk how many ships passed by the river every day. The monk replied that he only saw two. When Qianlong questioned, the monk calmly replied: There are only two boats on the river, one for fame and the other for profit. Maybe it belongs to you? Name? The winner is not you; Maybe it should be yours? Lee? , the owner is not you. Regard fame and fortune as water and career as a mountain. What truly reflects the value of life is not the amount of fame and fortune, but what you have done, what you have achieved, and whether you have enough confidence and frankness. The sky is like a wash, the distant mountains are like beautiful mountains, the world is eternal, and people are clouds. Only by seeing through can we surpass ourselves and improve ourselves. See through, can benefit the country, can benefit the family and the body.
Third, turn around? Look far? . Looking back, I know where to go next; Looking back is to look forward to a better future. It's heartbreaking to complain too much. Seeing far is not only the goal of life, but also the pursuit process and realm of life. Goals lead growth, process fills life, and realm enhances image.
Life often needs to look back, which is easier said than done. Life is lazy, and life is often confused. You will complain about the injustice of heaven, and you will lament the misfortune of fate; You will resent the leader's lack of insight, and you will regret the unprovoked betrayal of your friends; You can count on the shortcomings of others, or you can search for your own shortcomings. Therefore, life often has to look back. Great things are difficult, depending on responsibility; Prosperity and adversity, look at the mind; It depends on wisdom to gain or lose; Success or failure depends on perseverance. ?
Therefore, life really needs to turn back!
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